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As of 2025, the average cost of a wedding is approximately $36,000, according to data from Zola, a wedding registry platform. When you think about all that goes into a wedding, you may understand how the figure can get so high. There’s the venue (whether you book an event space or have a party tent in a backyard), food and drink, music, photography and videography, the dress and the ring, hair and makeup, flowers, and more.

But whether you want to have a destination wedding or one at home, you’ll likely want to understand what others spend, whether the average expense accurately reflects what most people pay, and how you can develop and wrangle your own budget. Read on for the need-to-know info so you can plan for what may just be the happiest day of your life.

What Is the Average Cost of a Wedding?

As noted above, the average cost of a wedding ceremony and reception for 2025 was documented at $36,000, according to Zola, a wedding registry platform. However, before thinking that you need to spend that much to get hitched, keep in mind a bit of basic math about average vs. median wedding costs.

•   Averages can be inflated by a few super-luxe weddings in the mix. To get the average, you add up the data points and then divide by the number of data points.

For instance, if eight out of 10 people spend $10,000 for their big day and two people spend $125,000 each, the average cost would be $33,000. Even though just two couples splashed out, it looks as if everyone is spending a sum of over $30K.

•   Because of how a few high figures can skew data, it may be more meaningful to look at the median cost. When a median is calculated, the data points are arranged from smallest to largest, and the median is the middle value for sets with an odd number of data points. When there is an even number of data points, the median is the average of the middle two.

If you use the same values as above, the median would be 10,000, because you are only looking at the middle two values when the 10 data points are arrayed from smallest to largest. In other words, the big spenders get eliminated.

So what would the current median cost of a wedding be? SoFi’s most recent research found that the median cost of a wedding is about $10,000.

Wedding costs will vary based on how elaborate the event and the unique vendor and venue costs of the region.

And whether typical costs are closer to $10,000 or $36,000, that’s a considerable investment: a five-figure amount to pull together or to finance with, say, a personal loan.

Average Wedding Cost by State

You’ve just learned that average wedding costs may be inflated vs. median costs. However, most of the world tallies data as averages. Here, you’ll see how much an average wedding costs by state, according to the most recent data from the wedding platform The Knot. Keep in mind that if you were to use medians, the dollar amounts could be significantly lower.

The price tag associated with this fantastic celebration for the couple and their friends and family differs by state. The variations in amounts may reflect how the cost of living by state can vary. This is where things stand as of 2025:

•   Alabama: $27,000

•   Alaska: Not available

•   Arizona: $26,830

•   Arkansas: $18,700

•   California: $39,170

•   Colorado: $31,130

•   Connecticut: $40,300

•   Delaware: $38,880

•   District of Columbia: $42,480

•   Florida: $32,560

•   Georgia: $28,800

•   Hawaii: $32,280

•   Idaho: $17,380

•   Illinois: $38,100

•   Indiana: $24,380

•   Iowa: $20,080

•   Kansas: $20,000

•   Kentucky: $21,680

•   Louisiana: $33,240

•   Maine: $36,000

•   Maryland: $39,460

•   Massachusetts: $45,000

•   Michigan: $28,330

•   Minnesota: $27,440

•   Mississippi: $21,280

•   Missouri: $25,040

•   Montana: $20,050

•   Nebraska: $20,870

•   Nevada: $19,890

•   New Hampshire: $36,080

•   New Jersey: $54,500

•   New Mexico: $22,260

•   New York: $47,800

•   North Carolina: $29,060

•   North Dakota: $21,080

•   Ohio: $28.300

•   Oklahoma: $19,590

•   Oregon: $23,290

•   Pennsylvania: $35,310

•   Rhode Island: $49,180

•   South Carolina: $36,170

•   South Dakota: $20,750

•   Tennessee: $24,040

•   Texas: $30,000

•   Utah: $17,380

•   Vermont: $44,720

•   Virginia: $33,760

•   Washington: $26,380

•   West Virginia: $19,080

•   Wisconsin: $28,730

•   Wyoming: $16,750

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Average Wedding Cost in Major US Cities

In general, cities can be expensive. The cost of living can be higher because the demand is more intense.

Here, according to The Knot, is how much it costs on average to finance a wedding in some popular American cities, in descending order:

•   New York City: $87,700

•   Chicago: $54,190

•   San Francisco: $51,500

•   Boston: $51,260

•   Los Angeles County: $44,740

•   Philadelphia: $40,230

•   Houston: $33,000

•   Detroit: $32,000

•   Dallas/Fort Worth: $31,580

•   Denver: $31,440

•   Seattle: $31,320

•   Phoenix: $27,040

•   Las Vegas: $22,140

•   El Paso: $20,490

Average Wedding Cost by Number of Guests

If you’re curious about how the number of guests will impact your wedding costs, consider this data about getting married from The Knot. In 2025, the most recent year studied, the average number of guests at a wedding was 116, up slightly from the year prior.

Of course, just because that’s the average number of attendees doesn’t mean it’s right for you. Some people with large families and circles of friends could have twice that amount, while others might prefer an intimate ceremony with just one or two dozen guests.

In terms of cost per guest, the latest figures are $284 per person. Once again, keep in mind that these are averages, and the median cost could be significantly lower. Nevertheless, that can be a considerable sum to pay. Looking into wedding loans could be a wise move.

Average Wedding Cost by Generation

Here’s a look at how age may impact your wedding costs. The wedding cost data from the most recent year studied (2025) reveals the following:

•   Average cost for Gen Z wedding: $27,000

•   Average cost for Millennial wedding: $38,000

•   Average cost for Gen X wedding: $23,000

Notably, Gen Z weddings tend to be smaller in size than those of older couples, which could explain the lower price. In addition, Gen Xers (born between 1965 and 1980) may have lower costs since they are older and have other financial priorities than a blowout bash (such as educational costs for children from a prior marriage or a mortgage).

Average Wedding Cost by Month

The time of year during which you host your wedding can impact the cost. Interestingly, in generations past, June used to be the most popular and in-demand month for weddings. That’s a factor that can drive up costs. Now, September and October are the most popular months to get hitched.

However, there are regional differences in when people marry (for instance, a Florida February wedding will be very different from one in Maine), and many other factors impact which date you’ll pick. Here, a look at average costs by time of year to help you plan your budget well:

•   January-March wedding: $32,000

•   April-June wedding: $33,000

•   July-September wedding: $34,000

•   October-December wedding: $32,000

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The Takeaway

The current average cost of a wedding in the U.S. according to the data is $36,000. However, median costs of a wedding reveal a significantly lower figure of $10,000 for the big day. Keep in mind that average costs are just that: an average made up of numerous data points. It’s not how much you will or must spend. Planning a wedding doesn’t have to be a budget breaker, and there are various ways to finance the event, including gifts from family and personal loans. Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards; a personal loan could be a wiser choice.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. See your rate in minutes.

SoFi’s Personal Loan was named NerdWallet’s 2024 winner for Best Personal Loan overall.

FAQ

What is the average cost of a wedding in the United States compared to the rest of the world?

The average cost of a wedding in the U.S. is currently $36,000, and the median is $10,000. Wedding costs in America tend to be higher than elsewhere in the world, but figures vary tremendously depending on location, wedding size, and details of the ceremony and celebration.

What is the average cost of a destination wedding?

The current average cost of a destination wedding is $39,000, although the exact price can vary depending on where the wedding takes place, travel expenses, and size and style of the wedding.

How much should I plan to spend for a wedding with 100 guests?

Currently, the average cost per person for a wedding is $284, so a wedding for 100 guests would require a budget of $28,400.

What’s the best way to estimate the costs of a wedding?

In addition to looking at the data and talking to friends and wedding professionals, you can develop a budget and research costs for your intended ceremony, such as venue rental, flowers, music, dress, catering, and more.

Are there different ways to pay for a wedding?

Yes, there are options for financing a wedding, including savings, gifts of money from family and friends, and securing a personal loan.

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If you’re cash poor and home equity rich, a cash-out refinance could be the ticket to funding home improvements, consolidating debt, or helping with any other need. With this type of refinancing, you take out a new mortgage for a larger amount than what you have left on your current mortgage and receive the excess amount as cash.

However, getting a mortgage with a cash-out isn’t always the best route to take when you need extra money. Read on for a closer look at this form of home refinancing, including how it works, how much cash you can get, its pros and cons, and alternatives to consider.

What Is a Cash-Out Refinance?

A cash-out refinance involves taking out a new mortgage loan that will allow you to pay off your old mortgage plus receive a lump sum of cash.

As with other types of refinancing, you end up with a new mortgage which may have different rates and a longer or shorter term, as well as a new payment amortization schedule (which shows your monthly payments for the life of the loan).

The cash amount you can get is based on your home equity, or how much your home is worth compared to how much you owe. You can use the cash you receive for virtually any purpose, such as home remodeling, consolidating high-interest debt, or other financial needs.

💡 Quick tip: Thinking of using a mortgage broker? That person will try to help you save money by finding the best loan offers you are eligible for. But if you deal directly with a mortgage lender, you won’t have to pay a mortgage broker’s commission, which is usually based on the mortgage amount.

How Does a Cash-Out Refinance Work?

Just like a traditional refinance, a cash-out refinance involves replacing your existing loan with a new one, ideally with a lower interest rate, shorter term, or both.

The difference is that with a cash-out refinance, you also withdraw a portion of your home’s equity in a lump sum. The lender adds that amount to the outstanding balance on your current mortgage to determine your new loan balance.

Refinancing with a cash-out typically requires a home appraisal, which will determine your home’s current market value. Often lenders will allow you to borrow up to 80% of your home’s value, including both the existing loan balance and the amount you want to take out in the form of cash.

However, there are exceptions. Cash-out refinance loans backed by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) may allow you to borrow as much as 85% of the value of your home, while those guaranteed by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) may let you borrow up to 100% of your home’s value.

Cash-out refinances typically come with closing costs, which can be 2% to 5% of the loan amount. If you don’t finance these costs with the new loan, you’ll need to subtract these costs from the cash you end up with.

💡 Quick tip: Using the money you get from a cash-out refi for a home renovation can help rebuild the equity you’re taking out. Plus, you may be able to deduct the additional interest payments on your taxes.

Example of Cash-Out Refinancing

Let’s say your mortgage balance is $100,000, and your home is currently worth $300,000. This means you have $200,000 in home equity.

If you decide to get a cash-out refinance, the lender may give you 80% of the value of your home, which would be a total mortgage amount of $240,000 ($300,000 x 0.80).

From that $240,000 loan, you’ll have to pay off what you still owe on your home ($100,000). That leaves $140,000 (minus closing costs) you could potentially get as cash. The actual amount you qualify for can vary depending on the lender, your creditworthiness, and other factors.

Common Uses of Cash-Out Refinancing

People use a cash-out refinance for a variety of purposes. These include:

•   A home improvement project (such as a kitchen remodel), a replacement HVAC system, or a new patio deck

•   Adding an accessory dwelling unit (ADU) to your property

•   Consolidating and paying off high-interest credit card debt

•   Buying a vacation home

•   Emergency expenses, such as an unexpected hospital stay or unplanned car repairs

•   Education expenses, such as college tuition

Qualifying for a Cash-Out Refinance

Here’s a look at some of the typical criteria to qualify for a cash-out refinance.

•  Credit score Lenders typically require a minimum score of 620 for a cash-out refinance.

•  DTI ratio Lenders will likely also consider your debt-to-income (DTI) ratio — which compares your monthly debt payments to monthly gross monthly income — to gauge whether you can take on additional debt. For a cash-out refinance, many lenders require a DTI no higher than 43%.

•  Sufficient equity You typically need to be able to maintain at least 20% percent equity after the cash-out refinance. This cushion also benefits you as a borrower — if the market changes and your home loses value, you don’t want to end up underwater on your mortgage.

•  Length of ownership You typically need to have owned your home for at least six months to get a cash-out refinance.

Tax Considerations

The money you get from your cash-out refinance is not considered taxable income. Also, If you use the funds you receive to buy, build, or substantially improve your home, you may be able to deduct the interest you pay on the cash portion from your income when you file your tax return every year (if you itemize deductions). If you use the funds from a cash-out refinance for other purposes, such as paying off high-interest credit card debt or covering the cost of college tuition, however, the interest paid on the cash-out portion of your new loan isn’t deductible. However, the existing mortgage balance is (up to certain limits). You’ll want to check with a tax professional for details on how a cash-out refi may impact your taxes.

Cash-Out Refi vs Home Equity Loan or HELOC

If you’re looking to access a lump sum of cash to consolidate debt or to cover a large expense, a cash-out refinance isn’t your only option. Here are some others you may want to consider.

Home Equity Line of Credit

A home equity line of credit (HELOC) is a revolving line of credit that works in a similar way to a credit card — you borrow what you need when you need it and only pay interest on the amount you borrow. Because a HELOC is secured by the equity you have in your home, however, it usually offers a higher credit limit and lower interest rate than a credit card.

HELOCs generally have a variable interest rate and an initial draw period, which can last as long as 10 years. During that time, you can make interest-only payments. After the draw period ends, the credit line closes and payments of principal and interest begin. Keep in mind that HELOC payments are in addition to your current mortgage (if you have one), since the HELOC doesn’t replace your mortgage.

Home Equity Loan

A home equity loan allows you to borrow a lump sum of money at a fixed interest rate you then repay by making fixed payments over a set term, often five to 30 years. Interest rates tend to be higher than for a cash-out refinance.

As with a HELOC, taking out a home equity loan means you will be making two monthly home loan payments: one for your original mortgage and one for your new equity loan. A cash-out refinance, on the other hand, replaces your existing mortgage with a new one, resetting your mortgage term in the process.

Personal Loan

A personal loan provides you with a lump sum of money, which you can use for virtually any purpose. The loans typically come with a fixed interest rate and involve making fixed payments over a set term, typically one to five years. Unlike home equity loans, HELOCs, and cash-out refinances, these loans are typically unsecured, meaning you don’t use your home or any other asset as collateral for the loan. Personal loans usually come with higher interest rates than loans that are secured by collateral.

Pros of Cash-Out Refinancing

•  A lower mortgage interest rate With a cash-out refinance, you might be able to swap out a higher original interest rate for a lower one.

•  Lower borrowing costs A cash-out refinance can be less expensive than other types of financing, such as personal loans or credit cards.

•  May build credit If you use a cash-out refinance to pay off high-interest credit card debt, it could reduce your credit utilization (how much of your available credit you are using), a significant factor in your credit score.

•  Potential tax deduction If you use the funds for qualified home improvements, you may be able to deduct the interest on the loan when you file your taxes.

Cons of Cash-Out Refinancing

•  Higher cost than a standard refinance Because a cash-out refinance leads to less equity in your home (which poses added risk to a lender), the interest rate, fees, and closing costs are often higher than they are with a regular refinance.

•  Mortgage insurance If you take out more than 80% of your home’s equity, you will likely need to purchase private mortgage insurance (PMI).

•  Longer debt repayment If you use a cash-out refinance to pay off high-interest debts, you may end up paying off those debts for a longer period of time, potentially decades. While this can lower your monthly payment, it can mean paying more in total interest than you would have originally.

•  Foreclosure risk If you borrow more than you can afford to pay back with a cash-out refinance, you risk losing your home to foreclosure.

Is a Cash-Out Refi Right for You?

If you need access to a lump sum of cash to make home improvements or for another expense, and have been thinking about refinancing your mortgage, a cash-out refinance might be a smart move. Due to the collateral involved in a cash-out refinance (your home), rates can be lower than for other types of financing. And, unlike a home equity loan or HELOC, you’ll have one, rather than two payments to make.

Just keep in mind that, as with any type of refinance, a cash-out refi means getting a new loan with different rates and terms than your current mortgage, as well as a new payment schedule.

The Takeaway

A cash-out refinance can be a useful way to obtain better mortgage terms and get extra money to fund important projects or emergency needs. Since it draws on the equity in your house, it can be a particularly good strategy to use when you want to make improvements in your home that will increase its value.

Turn your home equity into cash with a cash-out refi. Pay down high-interest debt, or increase your home’s value with a remodel. Get your rate in a matter of minutes, without affecting your credit score.*

Our Mortgage Loan Officers are ready to guide you through the cash-out refinance process step by step.

FAQ

Are there limitations on what the cash in a cash-out refinance can be used for?

No, you can use the cash from a cash-out refinance for anything you like. Ideally, you’ll want to use it for a project that will ultimately improve your financial situation, such as improvements to your home.

How much can you cash out with a cash-out refinance?

Often lenders will allow you to borrow up to 80% of your home’s value, including both the existing loan balance and the amount you want to take out in the form of cash. However, exactly how much you can cash out will depend on your income and credit history. Also, you typically need to be able to maintain at least 20% percent equity in your home after the cash-out refinance.

Does a borrower’s credit score affect how much they can cash out?

Yes. Lenders will typically look at your credit score, as well as other factors, to determine how large a loan they will offer you for a cash-out refinance, and at what interest rate. Generally, you need a minimum score of 620 for a cash-out refinance.

Does a cash-out refi hurt your credit?

A cash-out refinance can affect your credit score in several ways, though most of them are minor.

For one, applying for the loan will trigger a hard pull, which can result in a slight, temporary drop in your credit score. Replacing your old mortgage with a new mortgage will also lower the average age of your credit accounts, which could potentially have a small, negative impact on your score.

However, if you use a cash-out refinance to pay off debt, you might see a boost to your credit score if your credit utilization ratio drops. Credit utilization, or how much you’re borrowing compared to what’s available to you, is a critical factor in your score.

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The average wedding currently costs $36,000, which is certainly a significant investment. Whether you plan to spend that much, less, or more, a wedding cost calculator can help you manage the price tag and stay on budget.

Read on for a breakdown of the costs you can expect as you prepare for your big day.

What Does the Average Wedding Cost?

As of 2025, the average wedding cost is $36,000 according to Zola, the wedding registry site. However, according to SoFi’s latest research, the median wedding cost, which may give a more accurate figure, was $10,000.

Of course, each wedding and its costs will vary. For instance, one couple might go all-in on a destination wedding with all the trimmings, held at a five-star tropical resort, while another might hold a backyard ceremony with cake and a friend’s band providing the music. Prices will vary with location, the number of guests, and many other factors. Currently, the typical cost per person of a wedding is $284, according to The Knot, a wedding website.

How the Calculator Estimates Wedding Costs

A wedding cost calculator uses average wedding costs to help couples break down the expenses they can expect to encounter as they plan their wedding. This budgeting tool can assist couples and their families in prioritizing how they want to spend their money. (Is a designer dress a must? Is a buffet or sit-down dinner a better choice? How many guests can you really afford?)

You also can use a wedding calculator/budget as a checklist to ensure you’ve covered all the details, so there aren’t any surprises (or unexpected wedding expenses) as you close in on the big day.

Recommended: Is It Smart to Finance a Wedding?

Wedding Cost Estimate Example

Until you start making calls and getting price quotes, it will be challenging to get even a rough estimate of how much your wedding will cost in total. But the sooner you start filling in some of the blanks on your budget, the sooner you’ll be able to prioritize where you want your money to go — and get a better idea of what the final bill will be.

Here’s an example of what a couple trying to determine a budget between about $14,000 and $24,000 and a guest list of 50 might come up with.

Depending on your situation, you might have saved enough to pay for the wedding yourselves, have received funds from family and friends, or be looking into a personal loan that can be used to finance a wedding.

	Cost	Percent of Budget
Invitations	$420	3%
Ceremony:	$560	4%
Ceremony Venue	$310
Officiant Fee	$250
Reception:	$6,020	43%
Venue with Wine Bar	$3,000
Buffet Dinner	$2,220
DJ with Equipment	$800
Bride’s Costs:	$1,820	13%
Dress	$1,070
Alterations	$100
Shoes	$200
Jewelry	$200
Hair & Makeup	$250
Groom’s Tuxedo Rental with Shoes & Tie	$420	3%
Cake	$560	4%
Flowers:	$2,100	15%
Bride’s Bouquet	$300
Bridesmaids’ Bouquets (2)	$200
Boutonnieres for Wedding Party (5)	$100
Corsages for Family (6)	$200
Flowers for Ceremony & Reception	$1,300
Photos	$1,540	11%
Limo Rental	$560	4%

The Takeaway

A wedding is a cause for celebration, but the costs can be significant. As of 2025, the average cost has been tallied as $36,000 and the median at $10,000. You can estimate and then set your budget, using a wedding cost calculator to make the math part a snap. Depending on your specific situation, you might then decide to finance the cost, perhaps with a personal loan.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. See your rate in minutes.

SoFi’s Personal Loan was named NerdWallet’s 2024 winner for Best Personal Loan overall.

FAQ

What is a realistic budget for a wedding?

A realistic wedding budget will be different for every couple. A wedding might cost $10,000 or several multiples of that, depending on the size of the wedding, the location, and other factors.

Is $10,000 a reasonable wedding budget?

Currently, $10,000 is the median price of a wedding in the U.S. You may have to be pickier about splurges than a couple with more to spend, but by setting your priorities early, you can succeed in sticking to your $10,000 wedding goal.

How do I pay for a wedding I can’t afford?

There are a few different ways you can pay for a wedding if you don’t have enough cash in the bank. One popular option is to take out a personal loan to pay for wedding expenses. Another is to apply for a credit card with a 0% introductory interest rate, which will allow you to pay off the balance interest-free for up to 18 months. Or you might consider waiting until you’ve saved enough to pay all your costs without borrowing.

What is the average cost of a wedding in 2025?

The average cost of a wedding as of 2025 is $36,000, according to the wedding registry site Zola, while SoFi research found the median price to be $10,000, which may be a more accurate estimate.

How much does a 100-person wedding cost?

According to the wedding site The Knot, a typical wedding will cost $284 per person in 2025. If you multiply that by 100, you’ll find that a 100-person wedding could cost $28,400.

What uncontrollable factors affect the total cost of a wedding?

There are several uncontrollable factors that can affect the total cost of your wedding. The cost of living in the area where you will marry can be a key contributor. For instance, the price tag in a major city will likely exceed that in a small town. Also, venue rentals, catering, and flowers can vary with location and season and the style of wedding you have. You may not be able to get these for a super-cheap price.

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It’s easy to put off writing a will. The process can seem complicated, not to mention expensive. And, if you’re single and don’t own a house, you may also feel like a will is unnecessary.

But writing a will actually doesn’t have to take a lot of time, or money. And even if you don’t have a lot of assets, having a will can give you peace of mind that your preferences will be followed.

Here’s what you need to know to write your own will.

What Is a Will?

Simply defined, a will (also known as a last will and testament) is a legal document that details what you want to be done with your possessions after your death. Your will may also identify a guardian if you have young children, as well as an executor, the person who will carry out the terms of your will.

What a will doesn’t cover is any asset in which you’ve designated beneficiaries. Named beneficiaries override a will. For example, if you designate all your property to go to your parents but you have bank accounts in which your brother is listed as a beneficiary, your brother will get the funds in those accounts while your parents would get the rest of your assets.

There are other important documents people may create at the same time as they create a will, and are all a part of an estate plan. These include:

•   Living will: If you were to become incapacitated, what are your preferences as far as medical treatments? This document legally outlines your wishes.

•   Power of attorney: If you are unable to make decisions for yourself, who has the authority to make those decisions on your behalf? Power of attorney may be divided into medical power of attorney — the person who has power to make medical decisions for you — and financial power of attorney. Both can be the same person.

•   Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order: This document communicates that, in the event of your heart no longer beating or you no longer being able to breathe independently, that you do not want doctors to perform any life-saving action.

•   Organ and tissue donation: If you were to die, would you want your organs and tissue to be donated? Having a form explicitly stating your wishes can make it easier for loved ones to fulfill your desires, instead of guessing what they think you would have wanted.

Not all documents need to be filled out at once. For example, some people may only fill out a DNR order if they have a terminal illness or are unlikely to recover.

Recommended: Important Estate Planning Documents to Know

Dying Without a Will

Even if you think you own nothing of great value and you’re still working on money management, chances are you do own things that matter to your family. And if you die without a will, your loved ones may become involved in a complicated court process that will freeze your assets until state inheritance laws are followed.

If you’re single and die without a will, your assets will likely go to your closest blood relatives, which may be your parents or siblings. While this may be the preferred choice for some people, having a will allows you to earmark certain assets (or pets) for a charity or close friends.

It’s also a final chance to communicate your wishes to your loved ones and allows your loved ones to avoid a potentially drawn-out court process.

Dying without a will can become even more problematic if you have children. If you die without a will, the court will appoint a guardian. And while the court attempts to choose a guardian with the best interest of children in mind, that choice may not be the same choice you would make.

How To Create a Will

Below are simple steps that can help you make a will.

1. Choosing How You’ll Create Your Will

For people who own a lot of property or assets, and may want to set up trusts as a way to minimize taxes and ensure their heirs follow their wishes, it can be well worth the investment to hire an attorney who can walk them through the basics of estate planning.

However, online templates and will-creating platforms can be sufficient for many people. These DIY options can be much less expensive than working directly with an attorney and are legal and binding provided they are signed appropriately. Some of these online options are even free.

Recommended: How to Write a Will Online in 8 Steps

2. Making a List of Your Assets

In order to leave property to your loved ones, you need to know exactly what you have. So it can be a good idea to start by making a list of all your significant assets, including jewelry, artwork, real estate/land, cars, and bank accounts that don’t name a beneficiary.

If you have retirement funds and/or life insurance, you don’t need to write out who is going to receive the proceeds, as these require naming beneficiaries within the account or policy.

3. Being Specific About Who Gets What

Once you have a list of all your assets, you can decide who you would like to get what. Here, it’s helpful to be as specific as possible, such as using full names and being detailed in describing the assets.

4. Considering Guardianship

For many parents, including pet parents, guardianship can be the most fraught element of their will. This can be a decision that takes time.

For example, some parents love the bond their children have with their grandparents but worry about how aging parents would handle the physical stressors of raising young kids. Other parents may wish to appoint a sister or brother who already has children, so their own kids can be brought up alongside other children. There is no wrong answer, but thinking through contingencies and what-ifs can be helpful in making the most informed decision.

It can also be a good idea to discuss the idea of guardianship with the intended recipient. Maybe a single uncle loves your kids but is uncomfortable taking on the role of parent, or maybe grandparents have similar reservations as to their fitness for taking on the role.

Recommended: What Happens to a Bank Account After a Death?

5. Choosing an Executor

Naming an executor for your will is an important choice. This is the person who will make sure that the wishes laid out in your will are followed. The duties of an executor include paying any remaining bills and debts using your checking account, distributing your assets, and handling probate (transferring the titling of assets).

If you wish, you can name more than one person as an executor of your will.

6. Signing Your Will and Storing it in a Safe Place

A will is only legal when it is made legal — that is, printed and signed according to instructions. You generally need to sign a will in the presence of at least two witnesses. In some cases (such as if you’re using a document called a “self-proving affidavit” to simplify the process of going through probate court), your signature must be notarized as well.

You’ll also want to make sure you keep copies as directed. Many people keep a physical copy in a safe place, as well as a digital copy. Some might also share their will with their executor, or tell them where it is so it can be easily and quickly accessed if you were to die unexpectedly.

7. Updating Your Will as Appropriate

As your life changes, you may need to return to your will and update it. This could be due to:

•   Asset changes. Buying a house, opening an investment portfolio, and other financial moves may lead you to revisit your will.

•   Relationship changes. If you get married or have a serious partner, you may want to change your will to reflect that.

•   The addition of children or pets to your family.

•   The death or incapacitation of an appointed guardian.

It can also be good practice to assess your will after every life change, or every year or so. To update a will, you can either write what’s called a codicil (essentially a document stating any updates, written and signed by witnesses) or create a new will, depending on the extent of the changes.

The Takeaway

While the topic of death and end-of-life wishes can seem overwhelming, creating a will can be relatively straightforward. And thanks to the many online templates now available, you can often make your own will for a relatively low flat fee, or even for free.

The process of writing a will typically includes coming up with a list of assets, choosing where you’d like each asset to go, as well as choosing a guardian (if you have children) and an executor of your will.

While you may not think you need a will, having one (and updating it as appropriate) can be a gift to your loved ones when they may need it most.

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FAQ

What Is the Easiest Way to Make a Will?

The easiest way to make a will is to use an online will-making service. These tools generally guide you through the process with clear instructions and templates and run anywhere from free to around $200. For complex assets and estates, however, consulting a lawyer is recommended to ensure the will is legally sound and comprehensive.

What Is the Biggest Mistake in a Will?

One of the biggest mistakes in a will is failing to update it regularly. Life changes, such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of children, can render an old will ineffective. Other common mistakes include unclear language, not accounting for all your assets, not signing it properly, and not having witnesses. Working with a lawyer can help ensure you avoid these errors.

How Much Do Most Lawyers Charge for a Will?

Most lawyers charge between $300 and $1,000 for a basic will, depending on the complexity and location. More complex estates or additional services like trusts can increase the cost. Shop around and ask for a quote to find a lawyer that fits your budget and needs.

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From hiring a video arcade on wheels to treating 10 little princesses to a spa day, today’s birthday parties have gone next level. You could easily drop $500-plus on your kid’s next shindig.

Fortunately, you don’t have to. It’s possible to host a fun and memorable birthday celebration for friends and family without breaking the bank.

Here are some inexpensive party ideas to consider when planning your next birthday bash.

1. Being Selective with the Guest List

As tempting as it might be to invite everyone in your child’s class or the whole soccer team, limiting the guest count is a simple way to save money on a birthday party.

Less people means less food, less party supplies, and fewer favors — but not necessarily less fun. It’s possible to have a close knit vibe at a birthday party that gets people talking to each other and enjoying themselves even more than they would have at a big event.

If your child is willing to invite only one or two friends, you might consider skipping a party altogether and opting for an experience. Going bowling or spending a couple of hours at a play space, zoo, or museum can suddenly become an affordable option.

2. Sharing the Party with a Friend

If your child’s birthday falls around the same time as one of their close friends, you might want to consider teaming up and having a dual birthday party.

This enables you to share the costs and responsibilities with another family and, if the kids have a similar friend group, it would not necessarily have to be a much larger party. It can be a good idea, however, to make sure each child gets their own cake and presents.

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3. Choosing a Cheap (or Free) Venue

While hosting a party at a local climbing gym or other entertainment venue can be appealing, you can end up dropping as much as $450 just for the space.

One way to throw a birthday party on a tight budget is to have the party at home. That said, the wear and tear on your floors and furnishings might not be worth the savings. In good weather, however, a backyard party can be a great, low-cost option. Or, you might consider having the party in a local park or garden.

If your child’s birthday lands in a cold weather season, you can save money on a venue by limiting the guest list and going with the most basic package (such as just food and drinks for each child), and providing your own cake and goody bags. You can also check deal websites for discounts and promotions or ask the venue about a discount for having the party at an off-peak time or day.

4. Sending Digital Invites

Skipping the paper and going with digital invitations can be kinder to the environment and also cut down on birthday party costs, since you won’t have to buy premade invites or stamps.

You can design your own digital invitation and send them via email or text, or you may want to take advantage of one of the many online (and free) e-invitation sites.

Recommended: 15 Creative Ways to Save Money

5. Getting Creative With Decorations

One of the best things about the internet is that somebody’s probably already created precisely what you need. Rather than drop a chunk of money at the party store on themed decor, you may want to check out Pinterest for free printables.

You can also find ideas for DIY decorations on Pinterest (along with many other sites) using low cost supplies, possibly even things you already have on hand. Dollar stores can also be great places to shop for decorations and supplies.

If you do hit the party store, you may want to consider going with just one or two premium themed items and keeping the rest of the decor colorful and fun.

Recommended: How to Have a Baby Shower on a Budget

6. Making a Semi-Homemade Birthday Cake

A custom bakery cake that serves 20 to 22 people can run as much as $90, while a cake large enough for 30-plus guests can easily run more than $100.

A cheaper option is to buy a cake mix, then make it look and taste homemade with a few simple baking hacks, such as swapping butter for oil and milk for water, adding an extra egg, and making your own buttercream frosting.

To make cupcakes that look like they came from a bakery, you can pipe icing on top using a ziplock bag with a tiny hole snipped in the corner.

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7. Timing the Party Right

If the party takes place during lunch or dinner time, there’s a good chance people will expect to be fed a meal.

Choosing an off-time to celebrate — such as 10:30am or 2:30pm — means you can steer the party away from heartier, and costly, fare (like freshly delivered pizzas or a sandwich platter) and stick to serving finger foods and snacks instead.

8. Buying in Bulk for Gift Bags

If you’ll be giving each guest a swag bag, consider buying toys and trinkets in bulk sets and then dividing them up. This can be a real cost-saver when compared to purchasing items individually (even at the dollar store).

Fun items like paper airplanes, wooden yoyos, squishy toys, stampers, fidget spinners and Slinkys can often be purchased in packs at stores as well as online.

9. Playing Some Free Games

You don’t necessarily have to rent a bouncy house or hire live entertainment to keep a birthday party lively and fun. There are a number of inexpensive ways to make sure there is plenty of action, activity, and laughter. Here are a few fun, free games you might consider:

•   Duck Duck Goose

•   Charades

•   Musical Chairs

•   Red Rover

•   Rock Paper Scissor Tournaments

•   Three Legged Races

•   Marco Polo (you can even play on land)

•   Hot Potato

•   Simon Says

The Takeaway

It can be tempting — and easy — to spend a lot creating a memorable birthday party. But with just a few cost-cutting strategies, such as trimming your guestlist, shifting the time of the party, choosing an inexpensive venue, and organizing some free games, you can throw a festive birthday bash without breaking the bank.

You can also make birthday celebrations more affordable by setting a budget and saving up in advance.

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FAQ

How can I celebrate my birthday on a low budget?

You can celebrate your birthday on a low budget by keeping it simple and meaningful. You might host a potluck-style gathering at home or a local park, where guests each contribute food or drinks. Or you might plan a free or low-cost group activity, like a game night, movie marathon, or hike. If you’re celebrating at your or someone else’s home, consider going with DIY decorations and a home-made cake to cut costs. The key is to enjoy the company and create memorable moments without breaking the bank.

How do you throw a low-budget party?

To throw a low-budget party, start by choosing a free or low-cost venue, like your home or a public park. Make a guest list that fits your space and budget, and opt for homemade food and snacks instead of catering. Other cost-cutting tips include: using DIY decorations or items you already have, playing music through a phone or speaker, and planning simple games or activities. Focus on fun, not extravagance—it’s totally possible to host a great party without overspending.

What is a good budget for a kids’ birthday party?

A good budget for a kids’ birthday party can vary, but a reasonable range is $100 to $300. This can cover essentials like invitations, decorations, snacks, and a simple activity or game. Consider hosting the party at home or a local park to save on venue costs. DIY decorations and homemade treats can add a personal touch without breaking the bank. The key is to create a fun and memorable experience for the kids while staying within your financial limits.

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