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Sometimes, home sweet home is right under our noses. Buying a house from a relative may be the perfect solution, but everyone should be aware of how to negotiate and seal the deal.

An adult child may have her heart set on buying her parents’ home because of the memories it holds. Another might want to purchase Grandma’s home so he can retire in Florida. Others may have a relative who wants to give them a good deal.

Whatever the case, if you’re buying a house from family, you’ll want a harmonious handoff.

Buying a House From a Relative

It’s important to understand the home buying process before making any real estate purchase.

And knowing what is needed to buy a home is useful before, erm, buying a home.

Buying a house from family, though, is a bit different than a deal between strangers. First of all, whether you’re a first-time homebuyer or not, it’s important to consider how crafting the deal can affect familial relationships.

Not hiring real estate agents might keep negotiations and planning all in the … family. If that’s the case, it’s a good idea to have regular check-ins to ensure that both parties feel good about the next steps and are ready to move forward.

It can be helpful to take notes about the arrangement after an initial meeting and make a copy for everyone involved so that all important details are in writing and available for review. That way, everyone is clear on what is expected of them.

Do We Need Real Estate Agents and Other Pros?

Even though buying a house from family is a personal affair, it can be helpful to bring in professionals to make sure the process goes smoothly, everything is done legally, and both parties walk away feeling satisfied and respected.

A lawyer or real estate agent can help make sure the purchase contract is done properly, state-required property disclosures are made, and the house sells for fair market value — what the property would sell for on the open market.

A title company can protect the buyer from any liens and ensure that no one else has a claim on the home. Even with a high level of trust between family members, this can be a smart step to take to protect the buyer.

And it can be helpful to consult a tax professional in order to be aware of any tax implications of the agreement.

Determine the Purchase Price

Deciding on the fair market value can be done by reviewing comps or hiring an appraiser to conduct an objective property valuation. Keep in mind that lenders usually require an appraisal.

Once both parties have an idea of the market value, they can decide how much the buyer will pay. In some cases, this will be the fair market value. In other scenarios, a family member may offer to pay closing costs, or provide a cash gift or gift of equity (described below).

Draw Up the Purchase Agreement

When both parties are ready to move forward, it’s time to draw up a purchase agreement. The legally binding real estate purchase contract will outline the price and payment terms.

Buyers who need a home loan can send the contract to their lender when applying for a mortgage.

Prepare for Scrutiny

There are two main types of real estate transactions: arm’s length and non-arm’s length.

In an arm’s-length transaction, the buyer and seller do not have a relationship and are acting in their own self-interest.

When someone buys a home from a family member, it’s a non-arm’s-length transaction. These deals may be subject to more scrutiny because the chance of mortgage fraud increases.

The sale price of the home must equate to what it would be between strangers unless a gift of equity is on the table.

A heads-up for anyone whose elder family member needs to go to an assisted living facility or nursing home and plans to fund their stay with Medicaid: To prevent Medicaid applicants from simply giving away a home or other resources to qualify for the low-income medical program, the federal government has a “look-back period” of five years (the exception is California, which has a 2.5-year look-back period). A Medicaid applicant is penalized if assets were gifted or sold for less than fair market value during that time.

Know How the Gift of Equity Works

One thing sellers may want to consider is giving the relative a gift of equity, or selling for less than fair market value.

The maximum amount of the discount without reporting it as a gift to the IRS is $16,000 per recipient in 2022.

Spouses “splitting” gifts may contribute $32,000 a year. Spouses splitting gifts must always report the gift.

That doesn’t mean sellers have to pay a gift tax; they can apply it to their lifetime gift exclusion. The lifetime gift and estate tax exemption is $12.06 million, or $24.12 million for a couple, in 2022.

So for the vast majority of people, the gift and estate tax exemption allows for the tax-free transfer of wealth from one generation to the next. Homeownership in general helps build generational wealth.

Here’s another plus for buyers: Most lenders allow the gift to count as a down payment.

A lender will require a gift letter signed by the sellers for a cash gift or a gift of equity sale. The letter will confirm that the gift is not a loan.

Know How to Finance the Home

When buying a home from a family member, many buyers will still need to take out a home loan. Even with a discount or a special offer from a family member, it can be hard to purchase a home outright.

Go with a mortgage broker or direct lender? Each has pluses and minuses.

Any mortgage loan officer or broker should be willing to answer your mortgage questions, including those about fees, points, and mortgage insurance.

Weighing different types of mortgage loans (including conventional conforming mortgages, jumbo loans, and government-backed loans) and loan terms (usually 30 years) can help you make a more informed decision.

After applying for mortgages, you’ll receive loan estimates. It’s important to compare mortgage APRs, fees, and closing costs.

After you choose a mortgage and close on the home, your mortgage servicing outfit will handle your payments.

The Takeaway

How to buy a house from a family member? For starters, consider calling in professionals and understand the gift of equity. Buying a house from a relative can be seamless.

As you shop for a mortgage, see what SoFi offers. Why SoFi? Because the terms are flexible, the down payments are low, the closing time is guaranteed, and the rates are competitive.

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Expect to pay 2% to 5% of the new mortgage amount in closing costs when you refinance your mortgage.

If you have sufficient equity in your home and you’re tempted by a rate-and-term refinance or cash-out refi, here’s what you need to know.

What Is the Average Cost to Refinance a Mortgage?

Refinancing isn’t free because you’re taking out a new home loan and paying off your current one, and doing so brings on a host of costs, though not as many as purchase loans incur.

The main difference between average closing costs for refinances vs. home purchases is that owner’s title insurance and several inspection fees common for purchases are not typically required for refinances, according to ClosingCorp, a provider of residential real estate closing cost data and technology.

Closing costs to refinance single-family home loans averaged $2,375 in 2021, excluding any type of recordation tax or other specialty tax, according to ClosingCorp.

That is less than 1% of the average refinance loan amount of nearly $305,000 at that time, even though a general rule of thumb is that a refinance usually costs 2% to 5% of the loan amount.

Common Mortgage Refinance Fees

Some fees to refinance are flat fees that vary by lender. Other fees are based on a percentage of the loan amount.

Then there are recurring closing costs like homeowners insurance and property taxes. Six months of property taxes are usually due at closing.

Here are common fixed closing costs, though in some cases, a borrower may not need an appraisal.

Typical Fixed Refinance Closing Costs
Fee	Average cost
Loan application	$75 to $300
Credit report	$10 to $100 per borrower
Home appraisal	$300 to $700
Document prep	$50 to $600
Lender’s title search and insurance	$400 to $900

And here are common percentage-based closing costs. Not all borrowers will need mortgage insurance (PMI or MIP: private mortgage insurance for conventional loans, and mortgage insurance premium for FHA loans).

PMI is usually needed for a conventional loan exceeding an 80% loan-to-value ratio.

An FHA loan can be refinanced to another FHA loan or to a conventional loan if the borrower meets credit score and debt-to-income requirements for a nongovernment loan.

USDA and VA loans can also be refinanced.

Typical Percentage-Based Refinance Closing Costs
Refi cost	Average amount
Loan origination fee	0% to 1.5% of loan amount
Mortgage points	1% of the mortgage amount per point
Mortgage insurance	Varies by type of loan

Are You Eligible to Refinance?

Most mortgage lenders want a homeowner to have at least 20% equity in the house in order to refinance, although those numbers are not universal.

What is home equity? Here’s an example. If your home is worth $350,000 and the current mortgage balance is $250,000, you have $100,000 in equity. The loan-to-value ratio is 71% ($250,000 / $350,000). This scenario fits the parameters of many lenders for a refinance to take place.

You’ll typically need a minimum FICO® credit score of 620 to refinance a conventional loan and 580 to refinance an FHA loan. A score of 740 or above often ushers in the best rates.

Besides credit score, lenders normally review recent credit applications, on-time payments, and credit utilization.

Check to see if your current mortgage has a prepayment penalty. These days they’re fairly rare.

Recommended: 7 Signs It’s Time for a Mortgage Refinance

Benefits of Refinancing a Mortgage

The most common type of refi is a rate-and-term refinance, when you take out a new loan with a new interest rate or loan term (or both). Some people will choose a mortgage term of less than 30 years when they refi, if they can manage the new monthly payment.

Then there’s cash-out refinancing, which provides a lump sum to the homeowner.

In general, refinancing may make sense if interest rates fall below your current mortgage rate. Here are some times when a mortgage refinance could be beneficial.

If You Can Break Even Within a Suitable Time Frame

Calculate how long it would take to recoup the closing costs. Find the break-even point by dividing the closing costs by the monthly savings from your new payment.

Let’s say refinancing causes a payment to decrease by $100 a month. If closing costs will be $2,500, it would take 25 months to recoup the costs and start to see savings.

If you plan to sell the house in two years, refinancing may not be the right strategy. If you intend to stay long term, it may be an idea to explore.

If You Can Reduce Your Rate Even a Smidge

You might read or hear that refinancing is worth it if you can reduce your mortgage rate by 1% or 2%. But for a big mortgage, a change of just a quarter of a percentage point, or half of one, could result in significant savings, especially if you can minimize lender fees.

Again, consider the break-even point and how long you plan to keep the home.

You’d Like to Tap Home Equity

With a cash-out refinance, a percentage of your equity can be issued in a lump sum for any purpose. You will need to have at least 20% equity remaining after the transaction.

Be aware that the higher loan amount of a cash-out refinance usually results in higher closing costs.

(If your main goal is to access cash and not to change your rate or term, a home equity loan or line of credit may be less expensive than paying the closing costs on a cash-out refinance. With a home equity product, how much home equity can you tap? Often 85%.)

An ARM’s Teaser Rate Is Appealing

Refinancing a fixed-rate mortgage to an adjustable-rate mortgage could make sense for a homeowner who plans to move before the initial rate adjustment.

A 5/1 ARM, for example, will come with a rate for five years that is lower than that of most fixed-rate mortgages.

In other rate environments, it could make sense to refinance an ARM to a fixed-rate mortgage.

You Want to Reduce Your Repayment Term

Some people may decide to enjoy a lower rate and shorten their mortgage term, say from 30 years to 15. Monthly payments may well go up, but a lower rate and a shorter term mean paying much less over the life of a loan.

The amortization chart of this mortgage calculator shows how much interest may be saved.

You’d Like to Get Rid of FHA Mortgage Insurance

FHA loans come with MIP that costs the typical borrower $850 per year for every $100,000 borrowed. Unless you put down more than 10%, you must pay those premiums for the life of the loan. The only way to get rid of the MIP is to get a new mortgage that isn’t backed by the FHA.

Tips to Lower the Cost of a Mortgage Refinance

When preparing to refinance, the most important action is to shop around.

Comparison Shop and Try to Negotiate

You need not apply for a refinance with just your current lender — and doing so would be a missed opportunity, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau notes. Then again, your current lender may offer loyalty incentives.

Apply with as many lenders as you wish; you’ll receive a loan estimate from each. Compare the costs, including those of the lender’s preferred vendors.

Ask potential lenders which fees can be discounted or waived. Remember, each lender wants your business.

Typical non-negotiable closing costs found under Section B of each loan estimate include credit reports and appraisals.

Keep Your Credit Shipshape

Having at least a “good” credit score can help you get a more attractive rate, and if your credit score has improved since the initial mortgage was taken out, that could be a reason to refinance all by itself.

A good FICO score on the credit rating scale of 300 to 850 falls in the range of 670 to 739. VantageScore®, a competitor developed by Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion, considers a score between 661 and 780 good.

If your credit profile could use some polishing, consider ways to build credit over time.

Use the Same Title Insurance Company

Save money on the lender’s title insurance policy by asking for a reissue rate from the title insurance company that was used for the original loan.

Consider a Streamline Refi for Government Loans

If you have an FHA, USDA, or VA loan, you may want to see if you’re eligible for an FHA Streamline, USDA Streamlined Assist, or VA interest rate reduction refinance loan. The programs charge a lower mortgage insurance fee than regular government refinance programs and do not require an appraisal.

Think About a ‘No Closing Cost Refi’

A no closing cost refinance allows borrowers to roll the closing costs into the mortgage or accept a slightly higher interest rate on the new loan.

Rolling the closing costs into the refinance loan will increase the principal and total interest paid. But if you’re going to keep the loan for more than a few years, this move could be worth it.

Accepting a slightly higher rate could work for borrowers who can skip the upfront payment and who plan to keep their new loan for only a few years.

Recommended: Guide to Buying, Selling, and Updating Your Home

FAQ

Is refinancing your mortgage free?

No. A whole new loan must be approved and processed.

Is refinancing a mortgage worth the closing costs?

It might be. You’ll want to calculate your break-even point: Divide your closing costs by whatever your monthly savings will be to find the number of months it will take you to break even. Beyond that point, the refinancing benefits kick in.

Is it worth refinancing to save $100 a month?

Refinancing to save $100 a month could be worth it if you plan to keep your home long enough to cover the closing costs. Divide your closing costs by 100 to calculate how many months it will take you to break even.

Will refinancing cost me more in the long run?

If you get a new 30-year mortgage several years into your original 30-year loan, you are, in essence, lengthening the term of your loan, and that can cost you. It makes more sense to shorten the term to 20 or 15 years.

Is it cheaper to refinance with the same bank?

Your lender might offer a slightly lower rate, but it’s a good idea to still see what competitors are offering by comparing loan estimates.

Can you negotiate closing costs when refinancing?

Yes. Many lender fees and third-party vendor fees are negotiable. On each loan estimate, Section A lists the lender charges. Try to negotiate the lowest total lender charge, keeping the rate in mind. And third-party fees in Section C are negotiable.

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If the kitchen is the heart of the home, what does it say when yours is falling apart? Shabby fixtures, failing appliances, or a dysfunctional layout might have you daydreaming about a full gut reno — but how much does an average kitchen remodel cost? A minor kitchen update by DIY-savvy homeowners may come in at $4,000, while a major remodel can balloon to $50,000, or even $100,000+.

Before you begin your kitchen update, it helps to consider why you’re remodeling and whether it will add value to your home. We’ll help you scope out the average cost of a kitchen remodel — including cabinetry, countertops, appliances, and labor — and where you can save money without sacrificing function or design.

Kitchen Remodel Cost Overview

Homeowners remodel for different reasons: better functionality, entertaining, to update dated fixtures, or to prep for a home sale. It’s important to consider both what you want to get out of the remodel and what your return on investment (ROI) might be before diving into hiring contractors and purchasing appliances.

Do you plan to live in your place a few more years and enjoy your new kitchen? Or will you strategically upgrade for a home sale in the near future? The answer will influence where and how you spend money.

The truth is you probably won’t recoup the total cost of a kitchen remodel in a home sale.
According to Remodeling Magazine’s Cost vs. Value Report 2022, the national average ROI for a minor remodel with mid-range materials is 71%. A major remodel with upscale materials, on the other hand, yields just a 52.5% ROI.

Clearly, the best bang for your buck will be less costly but visually impactful minor updates: replacing cabinets fronts, countertops, faucets, and lights, plus painting and perhaps new flooring. But if you want to change the layout or add all-new appliances, you’re looking at five figures. (You may be interested in this story on the difference between a renovation vs. remodel.)

Average Kitchen Remodeling Costs by Feature

The average kitchen remodel cost can vary a lot depending on a few key items: cabinetry, countertops, and appliances. We’ll review your options and typical costs for low-, middle-, and high-end updates.

Kitchen Cabinetry Cost

Cabinetry typically eats up 25% of a kitchen budget. There are three types of kitchen cabinet construction, each priced per linear foot:

•   Stock cabinets, the least expensive, run $60-$200 per linear foot, or $1,250-$2,500.

•   Semi-custom are $100-$650 per linear foot, or $1,875-$10,000.

•   Custom will set you back $500-$1,200 per linear foot, or $7,500-$18,750.

Custom cabinets are made to order, based on your kitchen’s precise measurements, and made of solid wood. Stock are ready-made and mostly constructed of engineered wood, and semi-custom are a hybrid of stock and custom.

Countertop Cost

The cost of countertops is determined by the material. Typical materials include granite, marble, quartz, stainless steel, and butcher block wood. Granite, stainless steel, and butcher block are good budget options, ranging from $850 to $4,000 depending on the size of your kitchen. Marble and quartz command $2,000-$10,000.

Appliances Cost

The number of different appliances in the typical kitchen sets this home reno apart from, say, a bathroom remodel. Appliances generally account for 20% of your overall budget. Replacing all your appliances at once — fridge, stove, oven, dishwasher — can be quite pricey.

Discount shoppers might be able to find a full suite of lower end appliances for as little as $1,500. Midrange appliances can run about $5,500 all in, and higher end models can come to $17,000. Double wall ovens, a favorite of serious cooks, can cost $1,800-$6,500 on their own. And some homeowners may decide to annex a closet for a mini laundry room.

Installation and Labor Costs

Labor is another major cost that can be hard to predict. But count on spending 30%-35% of your budget on contractors and installers. Your price will depend on where you live, how large your space is, and the features being installed. Read more about these factors below.

Where You Live Matters

Bargain hunters should be aware that some factors influencing budget are not within their control — like where in the U.S. you live. Homeowners on the West coast and in the Northeast generally pay more for materials and labor than in the South. Prices also run higher in and around major cities.

Midrange vs Upscale Models

It may shock you to learn that upscale materials and appliances can cost you twice as much as midrange models. If a major midrange kitchen remodel comes to $50,000, a high-end remodel of the same kitchen might be $100,000.

Many homeowners pick and choose a combination of inexpensive, midrange, and higher end options.

Personal Budgeting for Your Remodel

HGTV recommends spending between 6% and 10% of the value of your home to get the best ROI. A major reno for a $400,000 home, then, would cost between $24,000 and $40,000. If your kitchen budget goes considerably higher, you risk making the rest of the house look mediocre by comparison. Aim too low, and your kitchen might not live up to the quality of similar homes in your neighborhood. Either way, your new kitchen may raise a red flag with home buyers.

It can be tempting to throw all your kitchen purchases on a credit card, but keep in mind that high-interest rates can inflate your renovation costs. These days, many homeowners are turning to a flexible personal loan to fund home renovations and remodels.

With this type of loan, you receive a lump sum payment to cover your kitchen remodel cost. You can pay back the loan over a term of your choosing in equal monthly installments. The interest rate is determined by your credit history and credit score, but is typically lower than credit card interest. Our Home Improvement Cost Calculator can give you an idea of how much you’ll need to borrow.

What Costs the Most?

What costs the most depends in part on the design decisions you make. Semi-custom cabinets will take up a larger part of your budget than stock will. Higher end brands, as we noted above, can double your appliance costs compared to mid-range. And with large kitchens or complex remodels, labor and installation can make up a third of your overall budget.

How To Save Money

In a full-scale kitchen remodel, new kitchen cabinets are typically the biggest expense, accounting for 20%-40% percent of the project budget. If your cabinets are in good shape and fulfill your storage needs, refacing them can slash your bill. Refacing can mean either stripping and repainting or staining existing doors, adding stick-on veneers, or replacing the doors while preserving the cabinet shelves. Add new hardware for a more modern look.

The next biggest line item in your kitchen remodel budget might be labor for installation. When you’re starting the home remodel process, find a contractor you can trust. That means doing your research, speaking with and getting quotes from multiple contractors, and reaching out to their previous clients for referrals. When entertaining bids, remember that an experienced, in-demand contractor will likely charge more than less capable competitors, but will almost certainly be worth it.

Finally, you may be able to trim some installation costs by doing simple things yourself: picking up items instead of paying for delivery, painting walls instead of paying contractors for the labor, or replacing your backsplash. Learn more DIY tricks in our guide on how to remodel a kitchen.

For more ideas, check out this roundup of ways to fight inflation’s effect on your kitchen remodel.

Cushion Your Budget

For any home remodeling project, financial experts and DIYers both recommend padding your budget by 20%. That means assuming you’ll spend 20% more than your projected total for materials and labor. Not only does that cover all the little things that can add up, it also accommodates pricier issues that may be uncovered, like necessary electrical or plumbing updates.

Stick to Your Budget

Experts recommend that homeowners fully commit to a plan and budget before undertaking a major remodel. Too many last-minute changes won’t endear you to your contractors and can inflate your costs as one small change can lead to other unforeseen adjustments.

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The Takeaway

The average kitchen remodel cost can vary widely from $4,000 to $50,000 or more, or between 6% and 10% of your home’s value. Your cost will depend on a number of factors such as kitchen size and whether you choose bargain, midrange, or high end materials and appliances. The major kitchen remodel cost drivers are cabinets, countertops, appliances, and labor. The good news is that the ROI for a smart, mid-range remodel is 71%.

Home improvement loans from SoFi have low-interest rates available for those who qualify and offer fixed monthly payments. These 100% no-fee unsecured loans might be just the recipe to getting your perfect kitchen.

Find out more about using a SoFi personal loan to update your kitchen.

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Millennials continue to make up the biggest share of homebuyers, at 43%, according to a 2022 National Association of Realtors® report.

And Gen Y is the most educated group of buyers, so if you’re a millennial, you’re smart; you already know a few things about home buying.

But if you’re part of the generation of people born between 1981 and 1996, you may still have questions. Here are eight tips to buy a house.

Smart Homebuying Tips for Millennials

1. Pay Down Debt First

The average millennial had about $28,300 in nonmortgage debt in 2021, according to Experian’s latest State of Credit Report. The average balance on retail credit cards was over $1,800.

Gen Y’s credit utilization rate — the percentage of available credit you’re using on your revolving credit accounts — was 30.2% on average. That’s the top end that’s generally advised, but lower is considered better.

As many millennials know, savvy credit card users maximize the rewards they earn or take advantage of interest-free offers. But carrying a revolving credit card balance can add up.

Clearing out at least some debts may be a great place to start on a millennial homeownership journey. You’ll likely need to take out a mortgage to purchase a new house, which will account for an even larger portion of personal debt.

There are several strategies to pay off debt, including the snowball and avalanche methods.

Those methods are part of six ways to become debt free.

Recommended: How Many Credit Cards Should I Have?

2. Start Saving for a Down Payment

After whittling down at least some debt, it’s time to think about how to afford a down payment.

Though a 20% down payment may allow you to avoid paying private mortgage insurance on a conventional (nongovernment) loan and get a better rate, borrowers often are able to put down as little as 3%.

The down payment on a house can be as low as 3.5% for an FHA loan if you have a FICO® score of at least 580 (but mortgage insurance always comes along for the ride with an FHA loan and will not drop off unless you’re putting at least 10% down).

USDA and VA loans usually do not require any down payment, but the eligibility for those loans is pretty narrow.

Many lenders give first-time homebuyers a break, and income-qualifying first-time buyers may be able to get down payment assistance from state or city programs.

Younger millennials use a gift or loan from friends and family to help fund the purchase more than any other generation, the National Association of Realtors has found. A gift will need to be documented in a gift letter for the mortgage.

Recommended: 31 Ways to Save for a House

3. Determine Your Must-Haves

Here’s one of the most fun parts about purchasing a home: plotting a dream space.

Before starting your home search, it’s helpful to take some time and think about what you really want. Do you want an open-concept home, or need a minimum number of bedrooms and bathrooms?

Are you considering a condo or townhouse? The maintenance will be minimized, but regular fees are usually part of the deal.

Or is your heart set on buying a single-family home? You’ll usually be responsible for maintaining everything from the roof to the yard (hope you don’t mind mowing, blowing, and edging or paying to have that done).

Maybe you’re open to a frumpy house because you know you can easily upgrade your home with a smart front door, outdoor lighting, paint, and more.

Or maybe new construction — everything shiny and new — is calling your name.

To narrow the search, think about everything on your must-have vs. like-to-have list.

Recommended: How Do Home Improvement Loans Work?

4. Find a Real Estate Agent

Though you don’t have to use a real estate agent to purchase a home, a buyer’s agent can be your guide from the first viewing to the closing.

Real estate agents have access to a multiple listing service (MLS), which allows them to sift through every home in your area at once. They may also have pocket listings, or whisper listings, few others know about.

A real estate agent is also well versed in what needs to take place before a buyer can take ownership of a home, including making an offer, scheduling a home inspection, and obtaining homeowners insurance.

They know how to handle counteroffers, contingencies, and putting an offer on a house that’s contingent.

They may also have a list of trusted inspectors, lawyers, contractors, and insurance agents a buyer may need along the way.

Recommended: Guide to Buying, Selling, and Updating Your Home

5. Set Up Real Estate Alerts

Millennials are digital natives, so this part is cake.

Once your list of must-haves is complete and you’ve picked a real estate agent to assist you, it could be a good idea to set up alerts across listing sites such as the MLS, Zillow, and Redfin. You’ll be notified whenever a home in your chosen area, price range, and desires comes onto the market.

These websites also typically allow users to save favorites and gather intel on a specific home, such as its tax and sales history. They also allow users to book viewing appointments.

6. Think About Long-Term Value

While viewing homes, it may be easy to fall in love with fresh subway tiles, staged furniture, and the simple shine of a brand-new spot. However, it helps to take a beat and a breath and think about the long-term value of the home.

Are you buying this home as a spot to raise a family? Then make sure the schools are a good fit and it’s a walkable neighborhood. Looking at purchasing a home to rent out short term? Check local laws to ensure you’re zoned properly.

Are you buying a house from a family member? A gift of equity is a lovely thing for a buyer indeed.

Recommended: Local Housing Market Trends by City

7. Consider a ‘Love Letter’ and Incentives

Once you’ve found a home in your price range that comes with all your must-haves, it’s time to put in an offer. There is something you can add to your offer to stand out from the crowd: a personal real estate offer letter, or so-called love letter.

If you choose this route, write a letter to the current homeowner expressing how much you love the space and why you feel you’d make the next great owner. You may also want to point out all the things you love about the home design.

To make your offer stand out, you could also provide a quick closing date, suggest paying for things like a termite inspection, and offer a leaseback to the owners until they are ready to move out.

8. Shop for a Mortgage

With any luck, you’ve gotten prequalified or preapproved and know how much of a mortgage you can afford.
Now it’s time to look for a home loan.

When shopping for a mortgage, realize that advertised rates may differ from what you’re offered. Multiple factors determine your rate.

You can apply for a mortgage online with any number of direct lenders and mortgage brokers. Just try to do so within 14 days to protect your credit score.

Then you can compare all the details of the mortgage offers in the loan estimates you’ll receive after applying with each.

The Takeaway

As multitudes of millennials suit up to take the homebuying plunge, they will benefit by getting their finances in order, hiring an agent, setting up real estate alerts, and shopping for a mortgage.

SoFi is there for Gen Y with competitive rates, a variety of terms, and low down payments.

Look into the advantages of SoFi mortgage loans and get a quick rate quote.

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For those looking to trade big-city life for backyards and gardens, more square footage, home office space, and parks, the suburbs may be the perfect spot to call home.

Let’s not forget great public schools, a hallmark of a high-ranking suburb.

Top 50 Suburbs in the US

Although the country teems with ’burbs, here’s a look at the 50 best suburbs according to Niche, using government data and community reviews.

If safety is a big priority, also take a look at the 50 safest cities in America.

1. Chesterbrook, Pennsylvania

Chesterbrook was crowned first among U.S. suburbs. With highly rated public schools and an intimate feel (under 6,000 residents), this Philadelphia suburb is leafy and cozy. Chesterbrook is among eight Keystone State suburbs on this list.

2. Penn Wynne, Pennsylvania

Real estate can get pricey in Penn Wynne (also known as Wynnewood), a small Philly suburb where about half of the population of 6,650 has at least a master’s degree and where locals are passionate about the arts. Bars, coffee shops, and parks lend an urban-suburban feel.

3. Ardmore, Pennsylvania

Those looking to put down roots in a suburban neighborhood that also has an urban feel will like Ardmore, yet another Philadelphia ’burb, with about 13,800 residents. It has plenty of restaurants, bars, coffee shops, and parks to choose from and excellent schools.

4. Los Alamos, New Mexico

This historic suburb of 13,400 denizens is the birthplace of the atomic bomb, but it also happens to be known as a great place to live with a top-notch public school system and nature all around.

5. Carmel, Indiana

Carmel, north of Indianapolis, features neighborhoods rich in architectural diversity and low in crime. This spot is home to more than 103,000 people.

6. Great Neck Plaza, New York

With eateries, parks, and superlative public schools, this village on the North Shore of Long Island is walkable, dog friendly, and commutable to Manhattan by train. The burg of 7,640 has a strong contingent of retirees and home prices below the national average. If this New York suburb isn’t the right fit, maybe one of the other nine will be.

7. Okemos, Michigan

The east side of East Lansing is beloved because of its low crime rates, lower-than-average cost of living, and the amenities at Michigan State University. With a population of about 25,870, Okemos has stellar public schools, a college town vibe, and a small base of tech employment.

8. Richmond Heights, Missouri

This St. Louis suburb, home to about 9,400 people, offers amenities for both families and young professionals. With highly rated public schools, Richmond Heights also has a vibrant nightlife scene and good housing options.

9. Holly Hills, Colorado

For a small-town feel and great public schools, hop on over to Holly Hills. This Denver suburb is home to about 2,700, so you’re likely to know a lot of your neighbors.

10. Brookline, Massachusetts

This Boston suburb’s public schools constantly receive high marks and welcome families from around the globe. With about 64,000 residents, Brookline is attractive but not cheap: Its median home sale price is more than double the national median.

11. Great Neck Gardens, New York

With fewer than 1,300 residents, this New York City suburb has the usual perks of a coveted hamlet, and a relatively gigantic housing cost.

12. Clarendon Hills, Illinois

This community southwest of Chicago (pop. 8,760) offers top-notch public education for children, a safe environment, and a vibrant downtown. The median home sale price is a bit above the national median.

13. Swarthmore, Pennsylvania

Swarthmore has small-town charm but is only a 20-minute train ride to Philadelphia’s museums, theaters, and restaurants. The suburb of about 6,600 offers more than two dozen forested trails for those looking to connect with nature.

14. Clayton, Missouri

Those looking to give their career a boost may find opportunity in Clayton. This St. Louis suburb of 17,600 employs over 7,300 people. Clayton is also considered green and safe. The median home price tends to be above the U.S. median price.

15. Brentwood, Missouri

This affordable St. Louis suburb is home to nearly 8,300, many of whom are young professionals. Highly rated schools, a high homeownership rate, and a variety of parks and dining establishments make Brentwood one of the best suburbs in the Show-Me State and the country.

16. Brighton, New York

Brighton is overflowing with historic charm. This Rochester suburb of 37,200 was established in 1814 and features well-preserved 19th-century brick homes.

17. Manhasset Hills, New York

About 3,660 people call this New York City suburb home. Manhasset Hills has a rural feel and an average home sale price topping $1 million.

18. Mount Lebanon Township, Pennsylvania

Architecture lovers will fall head over heels for this neighborhood (lovingly known by locals as Lebo). This Pittsburgh suburb of about 33,600 people blends sophistication and small-town charm. Take your pick from American Craftsman, stone Colonials, Prairie, and English Tudor style homes.

19. Oakwood, Ohio

With about 9,500 residents, this Dayton suburb has a sparse suburban feel and an abundance of parks, bars, restaurants, and coffee shops. Most residents own their homes, and the public schools are, well, you know, above par.

20. North Potomac, Maryland

North Potomac, only about 20 miles from Washington, D.C., earned a spot on this list, thanks to awesome public schools and family amenities, not to mention a walkable and diverse environment. It’s home to about 23,700 people.

21. Narberth, Pennsylvania

You won’t get lost in the crowd in this friendly Philadelphia suburb of 4,500, which has an urban-suburban feel with historic homes, shops, restaurants, a train station, and the requisite good public schools.

22. Syosset, New York

Yet another New York City suburb makes the list. Syosset, with over 19,000 residents, has a rural vibe and all the bells and whistles of an attractive suburb. It also has a housing cost of more than twice the national median.

23. Wayland, Massachusetts

This Boston ’burb hosts 13,800 people, including a good number of retirees. People consider it safe, pretty, pricey, and calm.

24. Jericho, New York

Families will appreciate Jericho’s highly rated public schools, parks, and other amenities. The affluent Long Island hamlet of 15,000 is within reach of Manhattan.

25. Greenville, New York

Greenville, often called Edgemont, is a bedroom community of 4,700 residents north of Manhattan. It’s a magnet for parents who want good public schools.

26. Morrisville, North Carolina

Those who are moving to the Raleigh area may find Morrisville appealing, thanks to proximity to amenities and career opportunities like Raleigh-Durham International Airport, Research Triangle Park, and the Lenovo headquarters. The average home price in this community of 31,840 is around the national average.

27. Williamsville, New York

This little Buffalo village has great schools, several parks, historic landmarks, and a relatively low cost of living.

28. Long Grove, Illinois

Another Chicago suburb makes the list. Long Grove, pop. 8,400, is considered a great place to raise a family, thanks to highly rated public schools and low crime rates.

29. Mountain Lakes, New Jersey

This tiny suburb 31 miles from Manhattan is considered safe, charming, and green. It’s a wealthy pocket with a strong sense of community.

30. Chesterfield, Missouri

This sizable St. Louis suburb of 50,500 is partly situated on the floodplains of the Missouri River. There is no shortage of attractions here, including historical houses, conservation areas, and dining options.

31. East Williston, New York

Here’s another Manhattan bedroom community, this time 20 or so miles from the big city. The tiny Long Island suburb has great schools and a hometown feel. Household income and education level skew high, as they do in most of the ’burbs on this list.

32. Cascades, Virginia

Cascades is the first Old Dominion ’burb on the list of the top 50 suburbs in the U.S. The neighborhood of about 12,500 is within driving distance to Washington, D.C., and has good public schools, parks, playgrounds, and great housing options.

33. Kensington, New York

This tiny Manhattan suburb attracts families and retirees for all the reasons a ’burb bursts into the top 50. This is a highly educated, high-income enclave.

34. Ridgewood, New Jersey

This New York City suburb offers residents a sparse suburban feel, and most residents own their homes. The focus in this family-friendly village of over 26,000 is education. Home prices skew high.

35. Cary, North Carolina

Cary, with over 182,000 residents, affords fun, from outdoor concerts and movies to the annual Beer, Bourbon & BBQ Festival. Stop by the quaint downtown of this Raleigh suburb during the holiday season for a charming experience.

36. Aspinwall, Pennsylvania

This little borough on the Allegheny River is near downtown Pittsburgh. It’s historic and picturesque, with high education levels and average home prices below the national average.

37. South Kensington, Maryland

This little ’burb is near Washington, D.C., and has not-tiny home prices. With fewer than 9,000 residents, South Kensington has great public schools, a family-friendly vibe, and a nightlife scene. It looks like Mom and Dad need to book a babysitter.

38. North Bethesda, Maryland

Here’s another pocket of tranquility in the Old Line State. There are so many benefits of living in North Bethesda that it’s hard to keep track. Situated close to Washington, D.C., this suburb has its own dining, shopping, and entertainment scene.

39. Santa Monica, California

Santa Monica residents are lucky enough to live a stone’s throw from the Pacific Ocean, and many live within walking distance of the famed Third Street Promenade and its many restaurants, shops, and other amenities. Bring your wallet, of course, if you plan to live here.

40. Cave Springs, Arkansas

Move over, Hot Springs. Cave Springs made the list. Named for two caves and the water source that flows from one of them, this suburb of about 6,250 people has a small-town feel, home prices in line with the national average, and A-rated public schools.

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41. Innsbrook, Virginia

Innsbrook is a thoughtfully planned community that is an ideal place to live, work, and play. Fortune 500 companies, startups, and small businesses are attracted to this Richmond bedroom community of 9,250 people.

42. Cinco Ranch, Texas

Cinco Ranch’s public schools, housing options, and job market put it on the map. A lot of house for the money combined with great outdoor and nightlife activities make this suburban swath of over 16,000 outside Houston a hot spot.

43. Fishers, Indiana

This Indianapolis suburb has an average of 187 clear days every year and an average high of 85 degrees in the summer. Many families and young professionals live in Fishers, pop. 37,835, where the average home price is below the national average.

44. Ottawa Hills, Ohio

The second Ohio suburb to make the list of the most popular suburbs in the U.S. is Ottawa Hills. This village outside Toledo is safe, well educated, affordable, and good for families.

45. Short Pump, Virginia

Short Pump, named for a short-handled water pump for horses at an 1800s tavern there, has a population of 27,500 and is home to lots of families and young professionals who own their own homes. This dense suburban neighborhood outside Richmond has good schools, great housing options, and nightlife to pursue.

46. Frontenac, Missouri

This tiny, affluent St. Louis neighborhood has a rural feel and all the things that make a suburb stand out.

47. White Rock, New Mexico

This community of 5,880 in Los Alamos County has a rural vibe, great schools, hiking trails, lots of parks, and home prices in line with the national average.

48. Stone Ridge, Virginia

Good public schools, housing options, and diversity all helped Stone Ridge land the 48th spot on this list of top U.S. suburbs. The Washington, D.C., bedroom community has about 16,600 residents.

49. The Woodlands, Texas

This sounds like a good kind of sprawl, y’all. The Woodlands, a 29,000-acre master-planned home to 118,500 people and over 2,000 businesses, has a natural forest and 140 parks and is linked by more than 220 miles of hiking and biking trails. With top schools, home prices just a bit above the national average, and nightlife, this Houston suburb scores.

50. Berwyn, Pennsylvania

This pricey Philadelphia suburb of just 3,800 residents offers an urban-suburban feel. Most residents own their own homes, and there are charming coffee shops, restaurants, and parks to visit.

Financing a Fresh Start

You might have a fave or two among the best suburbs in the U.S. Is it time to fund the dream for your family and start anew in a place you hadn’t considered?

When you’re ready to look for a mortgage, know that SoFi offers home loans with low rates, low down payments, flexible term options, and a closing time guarantee.

Applying for a home mortgage loan doesn’t have to be complicated. Start by getting a quick, no-obligation rate quote.

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