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You may have heard that you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring. But that rule of thumb (formulated and advertised by the diamond industry) is now considered pretty outdated.

Instead, it can be a good idea to consider not only your income, but also your savings, current debt, living expenses, partner’s preferences, other costs involved in planning the wedding, and (bottom line) what you feel comfortable spending.

How you plan to pay for the ring can also impact how much you can afford to pay for it. Options include saving up and paying cash, using a credit card, financing the ring through the jeweler, or using a personal loan. And, each payment avenue has its pros and cons.

What follows are some guidelines that can help you figure out how much you should spend on an engagement ring, along with options for covering the cost.

The Average Cost of an Engagement Ring

According to The Knot’s 2022 Jewelry and Engagement Study, the average cost of an engagement ring is around $6,000.

While that number may represent the average, the amount couples actually spend on a ring varies widely. In The Knot’s study, roughly one-third of respondents spent between $1,000 to $4,000 on their engagement ring, and 8% shelled out less than $1,000.

Why do rings vary so much in price? The cost of an engagement ring depends on a number of factors, including the size and quality of the stone, where the gem was sourced, how the gem is set, and the type of metal chosen (such as yellow gold, white gold, or platinum). There may also be markups that come along with a popular brand name.

Diamond engagement rings, sourced from a mine, tend to be the most expensive choice. But there are many other, less costly options, such as lab-grown diamonds, moissanite (a lab-grown gem that looks like a diamond), and semi-precious gemstones (such as tourmaline, morganite, and aquamarine).

Whether you’re in the market for a large, eye-catching dazzler or a more dainty design, the good news is that these days there are ways to accomplish almost any look for a range of price points.

Recommended: How to Plan a Wedding

How to Pay for an Engagement Ring

While paying in cash can be the simplest (and often the cheapest) option, it may not be feasible for all couples. Below are some other payment options that you may want to consider, along with their pros, cons, and potential costs.

Financing an Engagement Ring Through Your Jeweler

Many jewelers offer financing options, but just because you’re buying from a jeweler does not mean you have to use the financing they offer. It can be a good idea to take note of the following:

•   Promotional offers Some jewelers offer a 0% introductory interest rate during a set period of time. But after that period of time, interest rates may be very high.

•   Down payment requirements Some jewelers may require a certain percentage down payment prior to financing.

Financing through a jeweler directly may make sense if you’re confident you can pay back the loan prior to the end of the promotional period. As with any loan, it’s likely that there will be a credit check prior to being approved for financing.

Buying an Engagement Ring With a Credit Card

Putting a large purchase like an engagement ring on your credit card can be a simple solution at the moment, but may become a financial headache in the future. Here are some things you may want to consider before getting out the plastic.

•   Interest rate If you put the engagement ring on a card with a relatively high interest rate and don’t pay it off right away, the ring will end up becoming significantly more expensive over time. Also, keep in mind that many credit cards have a variable interest rate, which means the interest rate at the time of purchase could go up.

•   Credit-utilization ratio A large purchase like an engagement ring can mean using a significant percentage of credit available on your card. Having a high credit-utilization ratio may negatively affect your credit score.

•   Rewards and protections Some buyers like putting large purchases on credit cards because of the consumer protections offered by the card. They also may want to take advantage of the rewards offered by the credit card company. Those rewards, however, may only be worth it if you can pay the amount back in full at the end of the billing cycle or during a 0% interest promo rate.

Using a Personal Loan to Finance an Engagement Ring

A personal loan is another avenue for engagement ring funding. A personal loan from a bank, credit union, or online lender may have a lower interest rate than a jeweler financing program. Personal loans also typically have significantly lower interest rates than credit cards.

A personal loan also works differently than jeweler financing and credit cards. With a personal loan, you’ll get the money in your bank account and can then pay the jeweler as though you were paying in cash. You then pay back the loan (plus interest) in monthly amounts set out in the loan agreement.

Here are some things you may want to consider before using a personal loan to pay for an engagement ring.

•   Interest rate In many cases, a personal loan interest rate is fixed, meaning it doesn’t change after the agreement has been signed. This means that you know exactly how much you will need to pay back for the length of the loan.

•   Loan terms You may have an option to pick the length of the loan. Shorter loans may mean you’re paying less interest over time but have larger monthly payments.

•   Loan costs There may be fees associated with the loan, including an origination fee when the loan begins and a prepayment penalty if you pay off the loan before the end of the agreed-upon term.

•   “What if” scenarios Some lenders provide temporary deferment for people facing financial hardship, such as a job loss.

Recommended: Engagement Ring Financing Options

The Takeaway

Spending three months’ salary for an engagement ring is a long-standing tradition, but these days there is no one-size-fits-all formula for how much you should spend on an engagement ring. Ultimately, it’s a personal decision and will depend on your current and predicted income, current debt, expenses, savings, and preference.

If paying for an engagement ring upfront in cash isn’t feasible, you may want to look into different financing options and compare their pros, cons, and costs.

Your jeweler may offer financing, for example. Or, you may be able to take advantage of a credit card that has a 0% or low introductory interest rate and pay the balance off before the rate goes up.

Another option is to take out a personal loan. You may be able to find one that offers a more competitive interest rate than other ring financing options. You might also be able to fold in other upcoming costs as part of a wedding loan.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. Checking your rate takes just a minute.

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Sure, savings accounts can be a good place to stow extra cash and build wealth. You’ll typically earn interest, helping your money grow and boosting your progress towards your financial goals.

However, unlike checking accounts, you usually can’t spend straight from a savings account. What’s more, you may find that there are limitations on the number of withdrawals or transfers you can make from out of your savings account.

If you want to avoid getting entangled with savings account rules and restrictions or triggering fees, here’s advice. Read on to learn the ins and outs of spending money from a savings account.

How Does a Savings Account Differ From a Checking Account?

You might think the main difference between a checking account and a savings account is how you view them–namely, one is for now, and one is for later. But the bank also views these two accounts very differently. Here’s a closer look at how savings accounts work vs. checking accounts.

•  Savings accounts typically earn interest while checking accounts which generally earn zero or very little interest.

•  Savings accounts may come with cash transfer and withdrawal limits. A federal rule called Regulation D used to limit certain types of transactions from a savings account to no more than six per month.

•  In the wake of the coronavirus pandemic, the Federal Reserve lifted this rule to allow people to have easier access to their savings. Many banks, however, still enforce the six-per-month cap on savings account transactions.

•  Savings accounts don’t usually come with debit cards that can be used to make purchases with money from that savings account. Only a few banks offer this service.

Can You Write a Check From a Savings Account?

Typically, you can’t write checks from a savings account. Of course, it’s always possible to transfer money from a savings account to a checking account and then write a check from there.

If you want to save money and have the ability to write a check with the money you save, you may want to consider opening up a money market account.

Money market accounts are a type of savings account that often pay a higher interest rate than traditional savings accounts and generally include check-writing and debit card privileges.

However these accounts often come with minimum monthly balances, and falling below the minimum can trigger fees. Like other savings accounts, money market accounts may limit transactions to six per month (which includes writing checks and debit card payments).

How to Spend (and Save) With a Savings Account

To take advantage of the interest you’re earning on your savings, and avoid triggering penalty fees or the closure of your account, you may want to keep these savings account spending tips in mind.

Keeping Track of Your Withdrawals

It can be a good idea to find out what your bank’s policy is regarding monthly transactions from savings. Many institutions are sticking with the standard limit of six “convenient transactions” per month, while some are allowing more, such as nine transactions per month.

Convenient transactions include money transfers you make online, by phone, or through bill pay. Transactions, including ATM withdrawals and those that you make in person at the bank, do not typically count towards the monthly cap.

Paying Bills From Your Checking Account

Scheduling automatic bill payments from your savings account may put you over the savings withdrawal limit. It can be a better idea to have automatic bill payments or recurring transfers come out of your checking account.

Withdrawing Money Only for Large Expenses

If you withdraw money from your savings account for everyday spending, it can reduce the amount of interest you earn, and make it harder to reach your savings goals.

It can be wiser to only touch your savings when it’s necessary to cover an emergency expense or a large purchase (ideally, one you’ve been saving up for).

Building Your Savings

A savings account can help you work towards your financial goals, such as creating an emergency fund, making a downpayment on a home, or going on a great vacation. In some cases, you may even want to have different savings accounts for different goals.

To help achieve those goals faster, you may want to set up an automatic transfer from your checking account into your savings account on the same day each month (perhaps after your paycheck gets deposited). It’s perfectly fine to start slowly. Even small monthly deposits will add up over time.

Maximizing the Interest You Earn

The higher the interest rate, the faster your savings will grow. That’s why it can be worthwhile to do some research into which institutions and which types of savings accounts are paying the highest rates.

Some options you may want to look into include: A high-interest savings account, money market account, certificate of deposit (CD), checking and savings account, or an online savings account.

The Takeaway

Savings accounts generally aren’t designed for making frequent transactions. Instead, their main purpose is to provide a safe place to store money for the medium- to long-term. This is one of the key differences between checking and savings accounts.

Savings accounts still allow you to have access to your money, of course. To avoid exceeding transaction limits, you can visit the bank in person or use the ATM to make withdrawals or initiate transfers (since these transactions typically don’t count towards transaction caps).

To make the most out of your savings account, you may also want to look for an account that pays a higher-than-average interest rate.

Open a SoFi Checking and Savings Account

Another savings option you may want to consider is opening a checking and savings account, which can combine the best features of each kind of financial vehicle.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.

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As an alternative to direct deposit, SoFi members with Qualifying Deposits can earn 4.20% APY on savings balances (including Vaults) and 0.50% APY on checking balances. Qualifying Deposits means one or more deposits that, in the aggregate, are equal to or greater than $5,000 to an account holder’s SoFi Checking and Savings account (“Qualifying Deposits”) during a 30-day Evaluation Period (as defined below). Qualifying Deposits only include those deposits from the following eligible sources: (i) ACH transfers, (ii) inbound wire transfers, (iii) peer-to-peer transfers (i.e., external transfers from PayPal, Venmo, etc. and internal peer-to-peer transfers from a SoFi account belonging to another account holder), (iv) check deposits, (v) instant funding to your SoFi Bank Debit Card, (vi) push payments to your SoFi Bank Debit Card, and (vii) cash deposits. Qualifying Deposits do not include: (i) transfers between an account holder’s Checking account, Savings account, and/or Vaults; (ii) interest payments; (iii) bonuses issued by SoFi Bank or its affiliates; or (iv) credits, reversals, and refunds from SoFi Bank, N.A. (“SoFi Bank”) or from a merchant. SoFi members with Qualifying Deposits are not eligible for other SoFi Plus benefits.

SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder’s Direct Deposit activity and Qualifying Deposits throughout each 30-Day Evaluation Period to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility. The 30-Day Evaluation Period refers to the “Start Date” and “End Date” set forth on the APY Details page of your account, which comprises a period of 30 calendar days (the “30-Day Evaluation Period”). You can access the APY Details page at any time by logging into your SoFi account on the SoFi mobile app or SoFi website and selecting either (i) Banking > Savings > Current APY or (ii) Banking > Checking > Current APY. Upon receiving a Direct Deposit or $5,000 in Qualifying Deposits to your account, you will begin earning 4.20% APY on savings balances (including Vaults) and 0.50% on checking balances on or before the following calendar day. You will continue to earn these APYs for (i) the remainder of the current 30-Day Evaluation Period and through the end of the subsequent 30-Day Evaluation Period and (ii) any following 30-day Evaluation Periods during which SoFi Bank determines you to have Direct Deposit activity or $5,000 in Qualifying Deposits without interruption.

SoFi Bank reserves the right to grant a grace period to account holders following a change in Direct Deposit activity or Qualifying Deposits activity before adjusting rates. If SoFi Bank grants you a grace period, the dates for such grace period will be reflected on the APY Details page of your account. If SoFi Bank determines that you did not have Direct Deposit activity or $5,000 in Qualifying Deposits during the current 30-day Evaluation Period and, if applicable, the grace period, then you will begin earning the rates earned by account holders without either Direct Deposit or Qualifying Deposits until you have Direct Deposit activity or $5,000 in Qualifying Deposits in a subsequent 30-Day Evaluation Period. For the avoidance of doubt, an account holder with both Direct Deposit activity and Qualifying Deposits will earn the rates earned by account holders with Direct Deposit.

Members without either Direct Deposit activity or Qualifying Deposits, as determined by SoFi Bank, during a 30-Day Evaluation Period and, if applicable, the grace period, will earn 1.20% APY on savings balances (including Vaults) and 0.50% APY on checking balances.

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