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When your high schooler starts thinking about college, one of the best things you can do is to have The College Talk: a frank discussion about education, career, and life goals. The College Money Talk — the dollars and cents of the process — should be a part of the conversation. This will help you and your child stay on the same page during the college search.

We’ve assembled a list of topics you may want to include, such as how much you, as parents, can contribute toward college. We’ll also guide you through how to structure the conversation, explain financial aid, and more.

Figure Out How Much You Can Afford

First and foremost, parents should look at their finances as a whole: retirement savings, investment accounts, monthly budget, upcoming large expenses, etc. Also think about the current economy, especially inflation and the bear market.

“Parents need to keep in mind their own financial security first and foremost,” says Brian Walsh, senior manager of financial planning at SoFi. “We don’t want parents to take on too much debt or put themselves in a sticky situation because they helped their kids too much.”

Walsh adds that it’s essential for parents to figure out on their own how much they can contribute before talking to their kids. One way to do that is to see how their retirement savings stack up against suggested amounts:

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Consider the Timing

You may wonder when, and how often, you should have the college and money talk. Walsh says you can relax during the early high school years.

“Things will heat up junior and senior year,” Walsh says. “That’s when you’re looking at schools the kids are interested in, and determining how realistic it is they’ll get into those schools and secure financial aid. Senior year is when everything comes together — making decisions about where to go and ultimately coming up with a plan for how to pay for college.”

Consider blocking out time to have the conversation freshman year in high school, then intermittently throughout junior and senior year. Use your best judgment in broaching the conversation, and choose a time when your kids seem receptive.

Structure the Conversation

Walsh suggests beginning with a discussion of the paths available to your child after college. This may involve different professions and careers and how to attain them, even jobs that don’t require a college education. Your child may also have no idea about the potential earning power of various professions — a great segue into the cost of college.

According to Walsh, it’s best to have this talk in an environment where everyone feels comfortable. That may be a favorite coffee shop or the living room couch. If you’re not sure, ask your student what they prefer.

If you want to make it a more collaborative process, you can give your child assignments. For example, you may work with your child to search for colleges, look up financial concepts, debate the trade-offs of a big-name school vs. a lesser-known institution, and more.

Your student may also want to research the graduation rates of colleges. Walsh suggests having students identify the schools where students tend to graduate in four years or close to that.

When you start the money conversation, consider bringing up the average “net cost.” That’s a college’s cost of attendance (which factors in tuition, fees, books and supplies, and living expenses) minus any grants and scholarships. According to the College Board, the average tuition and fees for 2024-25 of a private college was $43,350. The average tuition and fees for public in-state college was $11,610.

Explain About Financial Aid

Financial aid can come from various sources: colleges and universities, the government, and private lenders. Financial aid can include grants, scholarships, work-study, and loans:

•   Grant: Grants are a type of need-based aid that you don’t have to repay.

•   Scholarship: A financial award based on academics, athletics, other achievements, or diversity and inclusion. It may or may not be based on financial need, and doesn’t have to be repaid.

•   Work-study: An on-campus job that helps cover the cost of school. You must file the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) to qualify for work-study.

•   Federal Student Loan: A loan is money you borrow to pay for college or career school. You must pay back loans with interest. Federal student loans come from the federal government by filing the FAFSA.

•   Private Student Loan: These loans come from a private bank or online lender. Private student loans do not offer the same federal protections that come with federal student loans, such as loan forgiveness and income-driven repayment plans. Consider these factors before you decide to pursue private student loans.

For detailed information on all available financial aid options, reach out to the guidance office or college office at your child’s high school. Online resources, like StudentAid.gov and SoFi’s FAFSA Guide, are also helpful.

“When you’re down to the final couple of colleges, work with the admissions and financial aid offices at those schools,” Walsh says. “They will be the best resources during senior year and going forward.”

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Talk About Debt (and Debt Repayment)

Many high school students don’t have experience with loans or understand them at all.

“One of the risks of student loan debt is that it can feel like Monopoly money — it’s not real,” Walsh says. In your discussion, try to make student debt more concrete for your child.

Walsh recommends going through a sample budget based on the average starting salary of a career related to your child’s preferred major. (Also check out our guide to ROI by bachelor’s degree.) Calculate the amount your child may earn each month. Estimate what they may pay for rent, utilities, groceries, transportation, student loans, and more. How much will they have left over after those expenses?

Although it may feel awkward, it’s worth talking to your kids about student loans to help them understand how to handle them.

Discuss Parent / Child Contributions

“Be transparent with the student so they know what to expect when they look at different schools,” Walsh says. He urges parents not to overextend themselves or feel guilty if they can’t contribute as much as they’d like. About 36% of parents paid the entire bill for their kids to go to college in 2024, down from 43% in 2016.

Look for Ways to Cut Costs

During your college money talk, you may want to explore strategies for cutting expenses. Walk through a sample college budget, and look for ways to save on living arrangements, transportation and travel, Greek life, computers, books and supplies, dining out, and Wi-Fi. Doing all this ahead of time allows you to pick and choose what’s important and plan how parents and kids will spend their money.

You might also suggest that your child begin at a two-year school to save money, then transfer to a four-year institution.

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The Takeaway

Paying for college often involves an emotional tug-of-war between a student and their parents. Walsh urges families to use The College Money Talk as a teaching moment. “It’s an opportunity for your child to learn valuable lessons on how debt and savings work,” he says, “and that can help them make better financial decisions in the future.”

Parents should examine their finances and agree on their family contribution before discussing it with their student. Because high schoolers have little experience with money, parents can make it more concrete by walking through sample budgets: one for their expenses while in college, and another that projects their income and student loan debt after graduation.

Ways to pay for college include cash savings, scholarships, grants, federal work-study, and federal and private student loans.

If you’ve exhausted all federal student aid options, no-fee private student loans from SoFi can help you pay for school. The online application process is easy, and you can see rates and terms in just minutes. Repayment plans are flexible, so you can find an option that works for your financial plan and budget.

FAQ

How do you tell your kid you can’t afford their dream college?

Be honest and empathetic when explaining your financial limitations. Emphasize your support for their education and explore alternative options together, such as scholarships, grants, more affordable colleges, or transferring after two years at a community college. Reassure them that success depends on their effort, not the school’s prestige.

Do most parents pay for their kids’ college?

About 36% of parents paid for their child’s full college costs in 2024. However, that doesn’t mean you must follow suit, particularly if it will put a strain on your finances. Consider all aspects of your financial situation before deciding how much you can put toward the cost of college.

How do middle class families pay for college?

Paying for college involves planning and research, and that’s the case for families at any income level. Most families cover the cost of attendance through a combination of personal savings, need-based grants, scholarships, work-study, and student loans. This involves filing the FAFSA to see the amount of need-based financial aid your child may receive. You can also arrange to set up a payment plan, in which you make payments over the course of 10 or 11 months during each school year.

About the author

Melissa Brock

Melissa Brock is a higher education and personal finance expert with more than a decade of experience writing online content. She spent 12 years in college admission prior to switching to full-time freelance writing and editing. Read full bio.

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The average credit score for a 22-year-old is currently 680, which is in the good range and can qualify you for various types of credit. Your credit score depends on a variety of factors, including your history of paying your bills on time and your length of credit history. The average 22-year-old may not have had much time to build a credit history yet, but on average, people this age are managing credit responsibly.

Understanding what a credit score is and what this number means is an important part of accessing credit and taking control of your personal finances. Read on to learn more.

Average Credit Score for a 22-Year-Old

The average credit score for individuals aged 18 to 25 is 680 as of January 2025. In general, this is considered to be a good score, one that you’ll need to access credit such as a home loan, for example.
As a point of comparison, the average credit score for all Americans is currently 717 as of mid-2024. As you see, the typical score for a young adult is somewhat lower, which may reflect the fact that they likely haven’t been using credit products as long as older people have.

It’s worth noting that credit scores, which usually run from 300 to 850, don’t start at 300. A starting credit score is often between 500 and 700.

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What Is a Credit Score?

Your credit score is a three-digit number ranging from 300 to 850, as noted above, that represents your credit history. It basically provides a snapshot of how well you manage credit. Lenders and others may use it to determine your credit risk. In general, the lower your score, the more lenders will worry you’ll have trouble paying back your debt. The higher your score, the less risk you represent.

What Is the Average Credit Score?

The average credit score in the U.S. is 717 according to FICO® Score, the most commonly used credit scoring system.

There are other credit scoring companies such as VantageScore vs. FICO that may have a different scoring system. The average VantageScore in the U.S. is 705 as of mid-2024.

The average VantageScore for 22-year-olds isn’t broken out by specific age, but those in their 20s were recently found to have an average score of 662, which is a bit lower than a FICO Score of 680 but still in the good range.

Average Credit Score by Age

The average credit score varies and rises steadily by age. Compare average scores across generations to see how you stack up against other age cohorts.

What’s a Good Credit Score for Your Age?

Credit scores are categorized in a range from poor to exceptional. For FICO scores, the most widely used score in the U.S., here is how the scores shape up:

•  300-579: Poor

•  580-669: Fair

•  670-739: Good

•  740-799: Very good

•  800-850: Exceptional or excellent

As mentioned above, the average score of 22-year-olds is 680, which is considered good. On average, those aged 58 and older crack into the very good range.

How to Build Your Credit Score

Building your credit score can potentially give you greater access to borrowing and at more favorable rates and terms. Follow these tips:

•   The biggest step you can typically take to maintain or build your score is always pay your bills on time.

•   The next most important step you can take is to avoid using too much of your available credit. A common rule of thumb suggests using no more than 30% of available credit at any given moment.

•   Having a mix of different types of credit (such as credit cards, home loans, and personal loans) may also build your score. For this reason, you may want to avoid closing old lines of credit, even if they are something you don’t use regularly or at all.

•   Similarly, having a longer credit history can positively impact your credit score. So if you are thinking of closing an account (such as a credit card you rarely use), keep in mind that doing so could lower your score. You might therefore decide to keep it open and use it occasionally.

•   Another wise move can be to avoid applying for too much credit in a short period of time. Otherwise, it could contribute to a lower score. If you are, say, looking for a single home loan from multiple lenders, that kind of rate shopping should not be an issue. But if you apply for a mortgage, car loan, and two new credit cards within a couple of months, that may well lower your score.

How Does My Age Affect My Credit Score?

Your age is not a factor that is included in your credit score. It may have an indirect impact on your score however. It can take time to build credit. If you’re younger, you may not have had much time to build a credit history, which may mean your score is lower than average. But as you age and build your credit through on-time payments, a longer history, and a broader mix of debt, your score may be positively impacted.

At What Age Does Credit Score Improve the Most?

It is perhaps unsurprising that the oldest Americans who have spent years building a credit history tend to have the highest scores, as noted above. This doesn’t mean, however, that you cannot achieve a high score when you are younger if you are responsible with your debt.

How to Build Credit

If you’ve never had credit before, there are several ways you can begin to build credit. Beyond the tips above about managing credit responsibly once you have it, you could open a secured credit card, which requires that you put up an amount of money as collateral for your debt. (Another way to think about this: Your deposit acts as your credit limit. As you pay your bill monthly, your activity is reported to the credit bureaus.) It is often easier to qualify for than other credit cards.

You could also become an authorized user on another person’s credit card account. This is typically something you might request of an older family member. Provided the account is used responsibly, it could help build your score.

If you’re looking to take out a loan, you could have a friend or family member with good credit cosign the loan. By doing so, they agree to make payments if you fail to do so. But be aware that loan activity will show up on both of your credit scores. Failure to make payments could bring your cosigner’s score down.

Credit Score Tips

In addition to keeping an eye on the factors that go into calculating your three digits (noted above), it’s also wise to monitor your credit score carefully to be sure that your credit history is accurate, as incorrect data could be dragging down your score.

You can check your credit score without paying, by requesting a free credit report every week from each of the three major credit reporting bureaus: Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion.

In general, the reporting bureaus will make credit score updates whenever any action has taken place related to your credit.

Check your credit report for errors. If you spot any, be sure to dispute the information with the credit reporting bureau immediately.

Developing healthy financial habits can help you manage your debts. Consider using spending apps and money tracker apps to help you understand your spending, where you may be taking on unnecessary debt, and where you could be saving toward financial goals, including debt repayment.

The Takeaway

The average 22-year-old’s credit score is currently 680, which falls in the good range. Credit scores tend to rise with age, and responsible usage over time can help build a score into the very good or excellent range. To positively impact your score, be sure to pay bills on time and make sure not to take on more debt than you can manage. It’s good practice to monitor your credit score regularly for errors and to see if there are any steps you need to take to build your score and qualify for more favorable rates and terms when accessing credit.

Take control of your finances with SoFi. With our financial insights and credit score monitoring tools, you can view all of your accounts in one convenient dashboard. From there, you can see your various balances, spending breakdowns, and credit score. Plus you can easily set up budgets and discover valuable financial insights — all at no cost.

FAQ

What is a good credit score for a 22 year old?

The average 22-year-old has a credit score of 680, which is in the good range.

Is a 750 credit score at 22 good?

A score of 750 is considered to be very good and is between the good and excellent ranges on credit-scoring scale.

How rare is an 800 credit score?

Just over 20% of Americans have a credit score of 800, making it relatively common.

What is the average credit limit for a 22 year old?

The average credit limit for 22-year-olds is currently almost $13,000.

Can a 20 year old have a 700 credit score?

While someone who is 20 years old probably has a relatively short credit history, it is possible to have a score of 700. The average credit score for people in their 20s is 680, which is fairly close to that number.

How much debt is normal for a 22 year old?

The amount of debt you carry will depend on your own financial circumstances. On average, Americans 18–23 years old carry more than $9,500 in debt.

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Despite decades of anti-discrimination legislation and other efforts to fight redlining, create fair lending, and ban racial and other bias, housing discrimination can still exist in many markets throughout the country, especially for first-time homebuyers.

It can be subtle or overt. Either way, housing discrimination holds people of color, immigrants, families with children, and LGBTQ people back by denying them access to safe neighborhoods, good schools, and the generational wealth that comes with homeownership.

This guide offers more information on housing discrimination and what to do if it happens to you.

What Is Housing Discrimination?

Federal law defines housing discrimination as discrimination concerned with renting or buying a property based on race, color, religion, national origin, sex (including gender identity and sexual orientation), familial status, or disability. In other words, if anyone in the house-hunting or mortgage loan process treats a person buying, renting, or selling housing differently because of any of these reasons, they are breaking the law.

Whether first-time homebuyers are buying a starter home or upsizing, they may want to fine-tune their anti-bias antennas and know the laws.


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Housing Discrimination Examples

Housing discrimination comes in many forms. It could be a landlord who charges higher fees to renters with children, a real estate agent who refuses to show immigrants homes in certain neighborhoods, or a buyer offering less because of the seller’s race.

What’s more, housing discrimination can be subtle, according to the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD), making it difficult to prove and punish. Here are examples of subtle housing discrimination described on HUD’s website:

An African American man speaks on the phone to a landlord who seems eager to rent to him. But when the man meets with the landlord to fill out the application, the landlord’s attitude is different. A few days later, the potential renter receives a letter saying his application was denied because of a bad reference from his current landlord. But his current landlord says he was never contacted.

An Asian man meets with a real estate broker because he is interested in purchasing a house for his family in a specific neighborhood. When he mentions the neighborhood, the broker tells the Asian man that she has wonderful listings in a neighborhood where there are more people like him. When he looks at houses in the neighborhood she recommends, he notices that the majority of residents are Asian. The man files a complaint. Steering buyers to certain neighborhoods because of race is illegal.

Sexual harassment, failure to comply with accessibility requirements, and rules against renting or selling to families with children are also discriminatory.

Equal Opportunity Housing Laws to Know

Housing discrimination by sellers, lenders, and landlords based on race, color, religion, or nationality has been illegal since Congress passed the Fair Housing Act in 1968. The act was expanded in 1974 to include gender and in 1988 to include families with children and people with disabilities. Additional laws concerning discrimination in mortgage lending are included in the Equal Credit Opportunity Act, passed in 1974.

Some situations are exempt from the Fair Housing Act. These include some types of senior housing and housing operated by religious organizations and private clubs. Single-family rental homes are also exempt as long as the landlord does not own more than three homes and does not advertise or broker the rentals. Owner-occupied properties with four or fewer rental units are not governed by the Fair Housing Act.

States and local jurisdictions may have additional laws regarding housing discrimination. For instance, many states and cities ban discrimination based on age, criminal history, immigration status, marital status, or sexual orientation.

In 2020 the Trump administration made several changes to HUD regulations, making it more complicated for people to prove they are victims of housing discrimination. Specifically, victims had to go to great lengths to show that the discrimination was intentional. In early 2021, President Joe Biden signed executive orders aimed at reversing those changes. Housing discrimination continues, however, and in 2023, HUD announced that it was making $30 million in additional funding available to state and local fair housing enforcement agencies across the country to help fight discriminatory practices.

What to Do About Potential Discrimination

First, become familiar with the federal, state, and local laws that may apply. Knowing the laws and how they work is vital to filing an effective complaint and getting a successful outcome.

If you think you are a victim of housing or mortgage lending discrimination, you can file a federal complaint with the HUD Office of Fair Housing Equal Opportunity (FHEO). This office investigates claims concerning any of the protected classes specified in the Fair Housing Act. You can file a complaint online or mail the complaint form to your regional HUD office or call the Housing Discrimination Hotline at 800-669-9777. The complaint form is available in nine languages, including English and Spanish, and any retaliation for filing a complaint is illegal.

The FHEO is supposed to investigate complaints within 100 days. Sometimes complaints prompt the U.S. Department of Justice to file lawsuits against people or companies that may have violated the law.

You may also want to file a complaint with your state attorney general’s civil rights bureau or your city’s civil rights or fair housing commission. This may be more effective than filing solely with the FHEO, especially in areas with extensive housing discrimination regulations. To find out where to file a complaint in your area, start with the National Fair Housing Alliance website for a list of local agencies.

In addition to the FHEO, mortgage lending discrimination complaints can be filed with the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau.


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How to Make Your Case Proving Housing Discrimination

Extensive documentation can help prove housing discrimination. When you are talking to real estate agents, sellers, landlords, or lenders, it’s a good idea to listen carefully and take notes during each conversation. HUD officials suggest looking for what they call red-flag language. This may occur when a real estate agent is trying to steer you away from or into a particular neighborhood. Phrases such as “This wouldn’t be a good fit for you” or “You’d be happier in this other neighborhood” can be red flags.

If you feel you are being “steered,” you can do an online search to learn if a broker failed to show all of the houses in the local housing market in your price range.

If you suspect lending discrimination, such as being quoted a higher rate than you expected, you can check the posted rates online at that mortgage lender and others to see how they compare. You can take screenshots or print this information.

Keep an eye out for and document surprising obstacles that come up in the home buying or renting process. Perhaps a landlord, seller, or agent has said a property is not available but then you find that it is still on the market weeks later. Or maybe your application to purchase a co-op is denied, but you aren’t given a specific reason why. These may be signs of discrimination. You’ll want to document the situation with dated notes from your conversations and screenshots or copies of the ads showing the property still available after you were turned down.

Local housing advocacy and human rights groups also offer help. Organizations such as the Fair Housing Justice Center may help you conduct tests using volunteers of different races to test for disparate treatment in specific locations. These tests can also provide compelling evidence for your case.

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The Takeaway

Longstanding laws and regulations are not enough to eradicate housing discrimination, but informed buyers and renters can fight back. Make sure you advocate for yourself at every stage of the process.

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