How to Make Talking About Finances Fun, Not a Fight

How to Make Talking About Finances Fun, Not a Fight

Ask couples what they fight about most, and money is sure to be at the top of the list. Decades of research have shown that common clashes are sparked by different spending habits, different financial values (which influence spending habits), and how to raise financially smart kids.

While dealing with money isn’t always easy, it doesn’t have to drive a wedge in your relationship. These strategies will ensure your financial discussions with your partner are productive and — dare we suggest — maybe even something to look forward to.

Meet Regularly — but Don’t Discuss Money

When couples fight about money, the classic mistake is to think that having a regular “money talk” will help solve things. Unlikely.

That’s because the source of most financial disagreements is that one person’s values don’t line up with the other’s. In order to truly ease money stress, you have to start by understanding the bigger wants and needs and priorities of your partner.

Make time to meet regularly and focus on things you both want out of life. It doesn’t have to be a long conversation — maybe 30 minutes, or an hour.

Come Prepared

Consider bringing a list of topics to each meeting, but don’t expect to cover them all. There will be other meetings, and it’s more important to leave each conversation with a sense that you understand each other better. You might raise some common questions:

Do you want kids? Do you want pets? Do you want to live a certain lifestyle? Start a business? Retire early? Send the kids to private school vs. public?

How important is it to have a vacation each year, or is it more important to have a beautiful home — or both?

Do you both believe in working hard and playing hard? Working to live or living to work? These may sound like cliches, but dig into each topic to get at each person’s core feelings.

Create a Safe Space

A key aspect of these non-money talks has to be a spirit of openness, not criticism or judgment. You’re trying to get to know one another in a slightly different way. Ask questions, take time to listen to each other’s answers.

While these sessions may seem uncomfortable at first, having these non-financial conversations may actually prevent important issues from causing conflicts.

Again, keep these conversations fairly short. The idea is to find common ground, and that may not happen right away. So don’t expect to agree, expect to learn something new about your partner.

Look for Shared Goals and Points of Agreement

Even couples that fight about money, also agree on plenty of financial issues. Be sure to pay attention as you discover these points in common, and celebrate the fact that you have them.

Knowing that you have financial goals and priorities in common, not just pain points, can build your confidence and momentum and lead to the good part of all this: Having more fun because you’re not stressed about money squabbles!

Address Financial Topics as Organically as You Can

Rather than set up more meetings (who has time?), you can use your newfound empathy and sense of shared values to tackle topics as they come up naturally in your day-to-day lives.

Now you can talk about spending when you get the credit card bill, or when you have to make a tough choice between two competing priorities. In some ways it’s less stressful to discuss whether to refinance the house or set up a Roth IRA when that question comes up organically, rather than trying to anticipate bigger issues.

Be sure to take the opportunity to make sure you’re including something fun in your financial plan. Money is for the future, and it’s also for the present, so make sure you enjoy it.

Let Go of Resentment

Financial inequity between partners — say, if one person has a lot of debt or there’s a large disparity between incomes — can be a common source of tension.

If you feel like one person’s debt is holding you both back, remember that it doesn’t have to last forever. There are many strategies for paying off debt — talking it through will help you find the right path for you both. You might also decide to meet with a financial advisor who can help you prioritize, budget, and sometimes even refinance to break even faster.

In cases of income disparity, it may help to reframe each partner’s contribution to the household. Yes, one person may bring in more (or all) of the household income, but be clear on the non-monetary intangibles that the other person is contributing. Cooking, cleaning, watching the kids, caring for aging relatives — these duties all add up and represent what each of you is bringing to the household.

Reward Yourselves

Create incentives to stick with your financial meeting schedule. Maybe that means taking your laptops to your favorite coffee shop, or treating yourselves to a movie night afterward.

Another idea is to reward yourselves as a couple after you hit a predetermined financial goal or milestone. For example, every month you successfully increase your emergency fund by a target amount, you might choose to enjoy a nice restaurant meal.

Even a free indulgence — like a walk around your favorite lake after the discussion — can be effective. Just make it something that you both enjoy (bonus points if it’s something that you don’t do all the time so it feels extra special). That way, you’ll look forward to it.

The Takeaway

The best way to take the sting out of discussing finances with your partner is to start by getting in sync as people, understanding each other’s values and perspectives. Scheduling time to talk monthly (or whatever cadence works for you) allows you to also savor the ways you are on the same page already, and what some of those shared goals are.

Don’t try to meet about big hairy financial goals that aren’t on the table yet. You do have to plan ahead, but it’s also important (and less stressful) to address money matters as they arise naturally. Then, get back to the fun of living your lives together the rest of the time.

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How Does Car Insurance Work?

How Does Car Insurance Work?

Most people know that after an accident, they’ll likely need to use the car insurance they’ve been diligently paying for. Car insurance can protect you from financial liability that has the potential to be devastating.

Being protected by a car insurance policy that is appropriate for your needs — and your budget — is vital.

What Is Car Insurance?

A car insurance policy is an agreement between you and your insurance company. At regular intervals — typically once a month, every six months, or annually — you pay the cost of the policy. In return, the car insurance pays for damages that occur when an accident happens, whether that damage is to your car or someone else’s car. What and how much the insurance will pay depends on the type of car insurance coverage you purchase.

How Does a Car Insurance Deductible Work?

If the time comes to put in a claim, you’ll most likely have to pay a deductible first. The deductible for car insurance works in a similar way to that for medical insurance. It’s the amount of money you will pay out of pocket on a claim before your policy picks up the rest — up to the limit you agreed to.

If you sign up for a high deductible, then your policy payments will be lower. A policy with a $1,000 deductible will not cost as much every month as a policy with a lower deductible. But if you find you need to put in a big claim to have your car fixed, you’ll have to come up with that $1,000 up front. If that is too big a hit for your bank account, then you may want to consider a lower deductible.

Most deductibles range from $100 to $2,000.

Recommended: 5 Steps to Switching Your Car Insurance

Types Of Car Insurance Coverage Options

Car insurance coverage varies by type of coverage, amount of coverage, and amount of deductible. Some drivers may want to purchase specialty coverage that will be priced separately — for example, coverage for antique automobiles or vehicles driven for commercial purposes, or ride-share insurance.

Insurance companies will pay up to the limits of the policy, after any deductible.

Liability Coverage

A basic car insurance policy is liability coverage that will pay if there are bodily injuries to people in the other car or vehicular damage to the other car, and you are at fault.

Uninsured or Underinsured Motorist Coverage

Sometimes included in a liability policy package, but also available as a separate part of a policy, is uninsured or underinsured motorist coverage. If someone without their own liability insurance coverage hits your car, this type of insurance pays for your bodily injuries and physical damage to your car.

Emergency Road Service Coverage

If your car breaks down, your battery dies, you lock your keys in your car, or other types of emergencies that might leave you stranded, emergency road service coverage can be helpful to have. This type of coverage, sometimes called roadside assistance coverage, may pay for a tow truck, a locksmith, or even bring gas to you so you can make it to the next gas station. This is generally very affordable coverage to add to a policy.

Comprehensive and Collision Coverage

Comprehensive insurance covers repairs to a car that is damaged — outside of an accident — or stolen. Damage could be things like vandalism, a broken windshield, a fallen tree on your car, or other occurrences out of your control.

Collision coverage will pay to repair or replace your car if it’s damaged in an accident with another car or even an object such as a fence or tree.

These two coverages are sometimes listed together as “comp and collision” on a policy, but they are available as separate purchases in most cases. Both may be required by a lender if you’re leasing a car or still paying on an auto loan. They’re the most common types of car insurance to include in a deductible.

Personal Injury Insurance

Personal injury insurance, or medical payments coverage, will pay for your and your passengers’ medical expenses after an accident, no matter which driver was at fault.

Gap Insurance

If you are still making auto loan payments or you’re leasing a car, gap insurance might be something to consider. This type of coverage will pay the difference between the amount the car insurance company pays and what you still owe on the purchase or lease in the case of a total loss after an accident.

Understanding car insurance terms will help you make a smart decision about what types and amounts of coverage to purchase.

Do You Need Car Insurance?

In most states, you must have at least some form of liability coverage. In fact, to legally register and drive your car, you’ll have to establish and maintain a minimum level of coverage.

New Hampshire and Virginia are two exceptions.

•   New Hampshire drivers are not required to carry any automobile insurance unless they have been convicted of driving while intoxicated, have had their driver’s license revoked, or were at fault in a car accident and were uninsured, among other stipulations.

•   Virginia drivers who choose not to carry liability insurance must pay an uninsured motor vehicle fee when they register and license their vehicle.

In all U.S. states, driving without at least minimum liability coverage may result in being fined and even losing your driver’s license.

How Much Car Insurance Do You Need?

After you’ve purchased liability coverage, other coverage may be optional. Older cars whose value is lower than the coverage costs, including any deductible, might just need liability coverage, instead of comprehensive and collision coverage.

Some things to consider when purchasing insurance are the value of your car, your driving history, how far and how often you drive the car, and how much you could afford to pay out of pocket if you are in an accident.

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How Much Does Car Insurance Cost?

According to Bankrate.com, the average full-coverage car insurance policy costs $2,014 per year or about $167 a month. However, these averages vary widely by state. Michigan, Louisiana, Florida, and Nevada reportedly have the most expensive car insurance policies.

Other factors that go into car insurance policy prices are what kind of driving record you have, your age and gender, and the type of car you’re insuring, among others. If you get a speeding ticket or you’re at fault in an accident, your insurance policy is most likely going to go up in cost.

Car insurance is highly competitive, so comparison shopping can be a wise move.

Recommended: How Much Does Insurance Go Up After an Accident?

How to File a Car Insurance Claim

It’s recommended that claim filing should happen as soon as possible after an accident. Call your insurance company and be ready to inform your insurer which vehicle was involved, who was driving, the exact location and time of the accident, the description of the damage, and the name and insurance of the other driver.

If the incident you report is covered, your insurer will pay, up to the policy limits, for the cost of the damage you caused, or the damage to your car, minus the deductible if you have one. Your insurer may pay you directly. Or payment may be made to the other driver or to the repair shop working on your car.

Some insurers request a copy of the police report filed on an accident. If you didn’t call the police at the scene, you can still go to the local police precinct to file a report.

Recommended: Car Insurance Guide for New Drivers and 3 Ways to Save

The Takeaway

Car insurance pays a claim when there are injuries to people and damages to a vehicle when an accident has occurred. Types of coverage vary from minimal liability coverage to more broad-spectrum comprehensive and collision coverage, in addition to some coverage for special situations.

When you’re ready to shop for auto insurance, SoFi can help. Our online auto insurance comparison tool lets you see quotes from a network of top insurance providers within minutes, saving you time and hassle.

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What Does Car Insurance Cover?

What Does Car Insurance Cover?

Should you get into a car accident and harm someone else or yourself with your car, your car insurance may cover the costs of medical bills. Depending on the coverage included in your policy, car insurance could also cover damage to your car while it’s parked, like if a large tree branch were to fall on it.

Ultimately, what your auto insurance will cover — and how much — depends on what type of car insurance you have and the amount of coverage you select. Read on to learn more about how exactly auto insurance works.

How Car Insurance Works

When you purchase car insurance, you can choose different types of insurance and policy amounts. Depending on the state where you live, there are certain car insurance requirements you’ll need to meet — more about this later on.

Adding more types of insurance and higher coverage limits provides greater coverage, but it also raises your premiums. Having a lower deductible can also bump up your rates. On the other hand, a higher deductible can lower your rates. (A deductible is a common insurance term that means how much you would need to pay upfront before insurance coverage kicks in.)

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Car Insurance Requirements

Most states require car insurance, with the type of insurance and minimum coverage amounts depending on the state.

The only two states that do not require car insurance are Virginia and New Hampshire. While auto insurance is not mandatory in New Hampshire, if you’re at fault in an accident, you would need to show that you have enough funds to meet the state’s motor vehicle financial responsibility requirements. In Virginia, if you don’t have the minimum coverage amounts for car insurance, you’ll need to pay a yearly uninsured motor vehicle fee of $500 on top of your regular registration fees.

If you’re not sure what the minimum requirements for car insurance are where you live, you can check your state’s DMV site. Keep in mind that while you can squeak by with the minimum coverage, how much car insurance you need varies. Depending on your situation, it may be a good idea to get more coverage.

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Types of Car Insurance

When comparing car insurance, there are six main types to keep in mind.

Bodily Injury Liability

If you get into a car accident and are found to be at fault, bodily injury liability coverage can help cover medical bills and wages lost for taking time off of work because of bodily harm. It can also cover named drivers, such as family members on your policy or drivers who are using your car with your permission.

Bodily injury liability is typically must-have coverage. According to the Insurance Information Institute (III), the average claim for bodily injury was $22,734 in 2021. Having enough coverage could help protect your property, assets and home.

Collision

If you crash into another car or an object, or your car gets damaged from driving over a pothole, collision coverage can pay for the costs to repair any damages to your car. It can also cover damages should your car flip over. Once your deductible is paid, the coverage will kick in.

If the other driver is the one at fault, then typically a claim can be filed with their insurance company and they’ll cover the costs. In the case the other driver’s coverage amounts aren’t enough, and you don’t have uninsured motorist coverage (sometimes called underinsured coverage), then your own collision policy can step in.

If you’re taking out a loan and still paying off your car, lenders likely require you to have full coverage, which includes liability, collision, and comprehensive insurance.

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Comprehensive

While collision coverage can cover the costs of damage during a car crash, comprehensive liability includes everything else — like a deer running into the front of your car, riots and vandalism, a tree branch falling on your car, or a hail storm or other natural disaster. Comprehensive coverage can also pay for a broken windshield (though whether it makes sense to file a claim depends on your policy and deductible). It can also cover theft, of either your entire car or a piece of your car, such as a hood ornament.

As mentioned before, if you’re still making payments on your car, you most likely are required to have both comprehensive and collision insurance in addition to liability coverage.

Personal Injury Protection (PIP)

Should you, the driver, or your passengers get harmed in a car accident, personal injury protection (PIP), also known as medical payments coverage, can help pay for medical bills, lost wages and sometimes funeral costs. It can cover these costs no matter who is at fault, hence why it’s sometimes called no-fault insurance.

Depending on your policy, PIP can also help pay for bodily harm should you get injured while walking or riding a scooter or a bike.

Property Damage

Like bodily injury liability, property damage coverage is also usually required in most states. Let’s say you or a named driver on your policy damages another vehicle or property, such as the side of a building. In these situations, property damage can reimburse the cost of repairs.

Uninsured or Underinsured Motorist

In the case of a hit-and-run, uninsured or underinsured motorist coverage can foot the bill for covered damages. Or, should someone who hits you not have adequate insurance, this type of policy can help pay for any shortfalls.

Special Considerations When Choosing a Policy

Besides the standard types of policies, there are some additional considerations to keep in mind when it comes to choosing an auto insurance policy.

Roadside Assistance

While not a type of insurance, roadside assistance can come in handy should you get a flat tire or your battery dies while on the road. While you can usually attach this to your existing auto policy as an add-on, what exactly is covered might vary by carrier.

Outside of purchasing roadside assistance as an add-on to your car policy, you can also shop around for companies that offer roadside assistance as a standalone service.

New Car Replacement Coverage

If your new car gets totaled, new car replacement coverage can replace the vehicle in its entirety. This is usually available as an add-on if you purchased a policy with collision and comprehensive insurance.

Depending on the insurance company and carrier, this might cover cars that are no more than two years old. Plus, restrictions and limitations might differ.

Rental Reimbursement Coverage

If your car is getting repaired and those repairs are covered under a car insurance claim, a policy might include an add-on to cover the fees for getting a rental car or other transportation while your vehicle is in the shop. Whether you take public transit, rent a car, or take a rideshare, what exactly is covered depends on your specific policy and limits.

Rideshare Coverage

If you’re a rideshare driver for a company like Uber or Lyft, you’ll need to meet the minimum coverage amounts for that particular company. Some insurance companies provide rideshare coverage in their policies. If not, you might need to get a rideshare endorsement or a separate rideshare insurance policy.

Car Rental Coverage

If you have liability and comprehensive coverage on your car, then that coverage can typically carry over to when you rent a car within the country. As mentioned before, depending on the particulars of the policy and car insurance company, this might not be applicable in every state, and the amount of coverage can also vary.

Recommended: Car Insurance Guide for New Drivers and 3 Ways to Save

What Does Car Insurance NOT Cover?

While auto insurance can cover a lot of things, it doesn’t cover normal wear and tear or routine maintenance. And unless it’s a rental car, it doesn’t provide coverage when you’re driving someone else’s car.

A policy also doesn’t pay for lost personal belongings in your car, such as headphones or gym gear. This could be covered by a homeowners or renters insurance policy.

At the end of the day, not all policies are alike nor are they created equally. It’s important to check to see what your policy will cover.

The Takeaway

There are six main types of insurance: bodily injury liability, collision, comprehensive, personal injury protection, property damage and uninsured or underinsured motorist coverage. The type of coverage and limits required vary by state. When choosing a policy, you’ll also want to consider whether additional coverage like roadside assistance, car rental coverage, or new car replacement coverage is right for you.

Taking the opportunity to compare car insurance companies before committing to a policy can be a smart move that might save you money on your insurance rate. When you’re ready to shop for auto insurance, SoFi can help. Our online auto insurance comparison tool lets you see quotes from a network of top insurance providers within minutes, saving you time and hassle.

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Understanding Divorce and Retirement Accounts

Getting divorced can cause both emotional and financial upheaval for everyone involved. One of the most important questions you and your soon-to-be former spouse may have to decide centers on how to divide retirement assets.

Understanding the key issues around divorce and retirement can make it easier to untangle them as you bring your marriage to a close.

Taking Note of Your Retirement Accounts

The average cost of divorce can range from several hundred to several thousand dollars, so it’s important to know what’s at stake financially. Managing retirement accounts in divorce starts with understanding what assets you have.

There are several possibilities for saving money toward retirement, and different rules apply when dividing each. Here’s a look at what types of retirement accounts you may hold and thus will need to consider in your divorce.

401(k)

A 401(k) plan is a defined contribution plan that allows you to save money for retirement on a tax-advantaged basis. Your employer may also make matching contributions to the plan on your behalf. According to the Census Bureau, 34.6% of Americans have a 401(k) or a similar workplace plan, such as a 403(b) or Thrift Savings Plan.

IRA

Individual retirement accounts, or IRAs, also allow you to set aside money for retirement while enjoying some tax benefits. The difference is that these accounts are not offered by employers. There are several IRA options, including:

•   Traditional IRAs, which allow for tax-deductible contributions.

•   Roth IRAs, which allow for tax-free withdrawals in retirement.

•   SEP IRAs, which follow traditional IRA tax rules and are designed for self-employed individuals.

•   SIMPLE IRAs, which also follow traditional IRA tax rules and are designed for small business owners.

Each type of IRA has different rules regarding who can contribute, how much you can contribute annually, and the tax treatment of contributions and withdrawals.

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Pension Plan

A pension plan is a type of defined benefit plan. The amount you can withdraw in retirement is determined largely by the number of years you worked for your employer and your highest earnings. That’s different from a 401(k), since the amount you can withdraw depends on how much you (and your employer) contribute during your working years.

How Are Retirement Accounts Split in a Divorce?

How retirement accounts are split in divorce can depend on several factors, including what type of accounts are up for division, how those assets are classified, and divorce laws regarding property division in your state. There are two key issues that must be determined first:

•   Whether the retirement accounts are marital property or separate property

•   Whether community property or equitable distribution rules apply

Legal Requirements for Dividing Assets

Marital property is property that’s owned by both spouses. An example of a tangible marital property asset is a home the two of you lived in together. Separate property is property that belongs to just one spouse.

In community property states, spouses have an equal share in assets accrued during the marriage. Equitable distribution states allow for an equitable — though not necessarily equal — split of assets in divorce.

You don’t have to follow state guidelines if you and your spouse can come to an agreement yourselves about how divorce assets should be divided. However, if you can’t agree, then you’ll be subject to the property division laws for your state.

If retirement assets are to be divided in divorce, there are certain steps that have to be taken to ensure the division is legal. With a workplace plan, you’ll need to obtain a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). This is a court order that specifies how much each spouse should receive when dividing a 401(k) or similar workplace plan in divorce.

IRAs do not require a QDRO. You would, however, still need to put in writing who gets what when dividing IRAs in divorce. That information is typically included in the final divorce settlement agreement, which a judge must sign off on.

Protecting Your 401(k) in a Divorce

The simplest option for how to protect your 401(k) in a divorce may be to offer your spouse assets of equivalent value. For example, if you’ve saved $500,000 in your 401(k) and you jointly own a home that’s worth $250,000, you might agree to let them keep the home as part of the divorce settlement.

If they’re not open to the idea of a trade-off, you may have to split the assets through a QDRO. That could make a temporary dent in your savings, but you might be able to make it up over time if you continue to make new contributions.

You could skip the QDRO and withdraw money from your 401(k) to fulfill your obligations to your spouse under the terms of the divorce settlement. However, doing so could trigger a 10% early withdrawal penalty if you’re under age 59 ½, along with ordinary income tax on the distribution.

Protecting Your IRA in a Divorce

Traditional and Roth IRAs are subject to property division rules like other retirement accounts in divorce. Depending on where you live and what laws apply, you might have to split your IRA 50/50 with your spouse.

Again, you might be able to protect your IRA by asking them to accept other assets instead. Whether they’re willing to agree to that might depend on the nature of those assets, their value, and their own retirement savings.

If you’re splitting an IRA with a spouse, the good news is that you can avoid tax consequences if the transaction is processed as a transfer incident to divorce. Essentially, that would allow you to transfer money out of the IRA to your spouse, who would then be able to deposit it into their own IRA.

Divorce and Pensions

Pension plans are less common than 401(k) plans, but there are employers that continue to offer them. Generally, pension plan assets are treated as marital property for divorce purposes. That means your spouse would likely be entitled to receive some of your benefits even though the marriage has ended. State laws will determine how much your spouse is eligible to collect from your pension plan.

Protecting Your Pension in a Divorce

The best method for protecting a pension in divorce may be understanding how your pension works. The type of payout option you elect, for instance, can determine what benefits your spouse is eligible to receive from the plan. It’s also important to consider whether it makes sense to choose a lump-sum or annuity payment when withdrawing those assets.

If your spouse is receptive, you might suggest a swap of other assets for your pension benefits. When in doubt about how your pension works or how to protect pensions in a divorce, it may be best to talk to a divorce attorney or financial advisor.

Opening a New Retirement Account

Splitting retirement accounts in a divorce can be stressful. It’s important to know what your rights and obligations are going into the process. If you’re leaving a marriage with less money in retirement, it’s a good idea to know what options you have for getting back on track. That can include opening a new retirement account.

SoFi offers individual retirement accounts for people who want to invest with minimal hassle. You can open a traditional or Roth IRA online and choose between active or automated investing to fit your needs and goals.

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FAQ

How long do you have to be married to get part of your spouse’s retirement?

If you’re interested in getting spousal retirement benefits from Social Security, you have to be married for at least one continuous year prior to applying. The one-year rule does not apply if you are the parent of your spouse’s child. Divorced spouses must have been married at least 10 years to claim spousal benefits.

Is it better to divorce before or after retirement?

Neither situation is ideal, but divorcing before retirement may be easier if there are fewer assets to divide. Getting a divorce after retirement can raise questions over how to divide retirement and non-retirement assets. It may also lead to financial insecurity on the part of one or both spouses if the distribution of assets is unequal.

Who pays taxes on a 401(k) in a divorce?

If you’re dividing up your 401(k) prior to divorcing then you would be responsible for paying any taxes or penalties owed. Waiting until after the divorce is finalized to split your 401(k) with your former spouse could reduce the amount of taxes and penalties you owe.


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The Impact of Student Loan Debt on the Economy

Unpaid student loans can put a heavy yoke on personal finances. For millions of Americans, outstanding student debt means years and years of ongoing payments (averaging hundreds of dollars per month).

It can be hard to balance paying back what’s owed on student loans while meeting immediate expenses (like, paying rent) or pursuing long-term financial goals (like, saving up for a mortgage down payment).

But, the impact of student loan debt on the economy goes deeper than dinging individuals’ wallets, affecting entire job sectors.

Student loans now account for almost 40% of outstanding consumer debt in the U.S., outpacing the amounts owed on motor vehicle loans, for example, by more than $355 billion.

For a wide-angle view of student loan debt and the economy, it’s useful to know just how much money is owed by borrowers across the U.S. on educational debt. In 2023, the cumulative total of student loan debt in the U.S. surpassed $1.7 trillion, according to data from the Federal Reserve.

Understanding How Many Americans Have Student Loans

This educational debt load affects tens of millions of Americans. More than 43 million borrowers have federal student loan debt, with the average balance per individual being $37,338. To obtain a bachelor’s degree, the average student borrower takes out more than $31,000 in student loans.

For those with master’s degrees, student loan debt is even higher. The average master’s degree holder’s student loan debt is $83,651, which is 141% higher than the average student debt balance.

Given these massive numbers, it becomes clearer how the U.S. college student loan debt crisis and the economy are enmeshed in a tangled tango.

Reviewing Effects of Student Loan Debt on the Economy

If the total amount of student loan debt held by Americans sounds staggering, it’s because it is. That total — $1.757 trillion — is more than the GDP of countries such as Australia, Spain, and Mexico.

And, it’s more than double that of Saudi Arabia and Switzerland. It even outpaces the global box office totals of the 20-highest grossing films in history — a list that includes blockbusters like, Avengers: Endgame, Avatar, and Titanic — by more than 50 times!

With these numbers in mind, let’s dive deeper into the drag that this massive amount of educational debt continues to have on the U.S. economy.

Does Student Loan Debt Hamper Spending?

For the average individual paying off a student loan, typical payments amount to $200 to $299 each month. For many — especially those embarking on a career and earning an entry-level salary — this ongoing financial obligation can put a deleterious dent in funds they could otherwise spend elsewhere.

Student loan repayments can place a very real squeeze on the money that individuals have available each month for buying, investing, saving, or starting a business.

More money spent paying back student loans, in practice, means less money in pocket or saved. Consumer-driven economies grow when people (aka consumers) spend their hard-earned money. So, millions of people redirecting income towards loan payments can significantly slow or stifle economic growth. If someone is struggling to pay off their student loans, they’ll have less money to spend on purchases that help fuel the economy, businesses, and the workforce. The more young people there are who struggle to pay off loans, the greater this economic dampening effect that occurs.

During periods that require economic resilience, such as in a recession, reduced spending can be especially nefarious.

Consumer spending can help to stimulate a floundering economy, mitigating or reversing sudden downturns in specific sectors.

When that spending doesn’t happen during a downturn, it can take longer for the economy as a whole to bounce back.

For those with student debt, it can also be harder to weather a financial crisis, compounding the pain of higher unemployment and lower spending.

How Do Student Loans Affect the Housing Market?

With less money to spend, it’s no surprise that people with student loans have fewer funds for big ticket items, such as buying a home or saving for retirement.

And, since home ownership is a major driver of wealth accumulation, delaying when one buys a home can impact an individual’s net worth for decades to come.

How Do Student Loans Stifle Entrepreneurship?

Small businesses contribute to the economy in major ways. In fact, they’re responsible for 1.5 million jobs annually and generate 44% of economic activity in the U.S.

Future business owners may not be able to turn toward traditional means of financing, such as small business loans, when saddled with student loan debt. It can be harder to get approved for financing when your debt-to-income ratio is high due to loans.

And, when an individual with student debt does become an entrepreneur, they’re at risk of falling behind on student loan payments if their incoming income decreases.

Paying Off Student Loans Can Benefit Individuals and the Economy

When examining student loan debt and the economy, it may be helpful for borrowers to research additional ways to pay off existing student loans — both for their own financial well-being and the future growth of the U.S. economy on a whole.

Here are some strategies that could help those with outstanding student debt to pay down their educational loans faster.

Paying More than the Minimum Due

Student loans are generally subject to interest. Interest is a percentage charged by the lender on what’s been borrowed. Practically speaking, student loan interest accrues over time. So, borrowers who are unable to pay off their loan balances quickly typically end up spending more in interest over the entire life of the loan.

In most cases, the longer student loan debt goes unpaid, the more the borrower will owe, as unpaid interest gets added to the base dollar amount that had been borrowed from the lender. This is called compounding, and most student loans compound their interest daily. This can get confusing quickly, so here’s a student loan calculator so you can see exactly how much you’re spending on interest over the life of the loan.

Many lenders allow borrowers the option to submit a “minimum payment.” In the short term, paying a lower amount per month can free up some income or cash. But, paying the minimum does little or nothing to tackle the outstanding loan balance — typically, the borrower is just paying the accruing interest.

Paying more than the minimum can help reduce the length of time it will take to pay off an existing student loan — shrinking the principal balance as well as the amount of interest paid (aka total money spent) during the life of the loan.

While increasing monthly payments may not be manageable for every individual, paying a little extra when the opportunity presents itself can still help borrowers to eliminate student debt faster.

If nothing else, borrowers may want to apply a share of occasional windfalls, such as a work bonus or tax refund, towards outstanding student debt.

Applying for Loan Forgiveness

Under some circumstances, the government will even forgive federal student loans, essentially canceling out the remaining debt. Some teachers and public servants are among the groups that may be eligible for federal student loan forgiveness programs.

It’s worth noting that this Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF) program is not available to all workers (including some in the public sector) and applies only to federal, not privately held, student loans.

Refinancing Student Loans

Refinancing a student loan with a private lender may result in lower interest rates and/or the ability to pay off what’s owed in a shorter amount of time for well-qualified borrowers.

Student loan refinancing replaces an outstanding educational debt (e.g., a student loan or loans) with a new loan. As such, the new loan can have different terms and interest rates.

For some student loan holders, refinancing allows them to reduce their monthly payments or the total interest paid over the life of the loan.

It’s worth remembering, though, that refinancing federal student loans with a private lender means that the borrower will forfeit federal benefits, such as access to income-driven repayment plans or public service forgiveness programs.

Paying Off Student Loans Faster

Student loans have the potential to keep taking a big bite out of the economy. But, unpaid educational debts undoubtedly hurt the borrower even more, creating accruing interest and loan balances that can take years and years to pay off.

Refinancing educational debt with SoFi could potentially save borrowers money. SoFi’s loan refinancing comes with no application fee, a quick and easy online application, and competitive rates.

See if you prequalify for a student loan refinance with SoFi in just two minutes.


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