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Oct

2023

Are You a Shopaholic? Signs to Know

By Stacey Leasca | Budgeting & Goals, money | Comments Off

People shop for all kinds of reasons — to acquire the things they need or want, to browse stores for new and interesting finds, and (sometimes) for the little thrill that comes with snagging a great deal.

For some people, however, shopping crosses the line into unhealthy territory. If you tend to hit the stores every weekend, spend the majority of free time planning for and making purchases, and/or have have tallied up some major debt as a result of your frequent shopping, you may actually be addicted to shopping.

Known as oniomania or Compulsive Buying Disorder (CBD), shopping addiction is a behavioral disorder that involves compulsive buying as a way to feel good and avoid negative feelings like stress and anxiety. Like other types of addictions, a shopping addiction can take over as a preoccupation that leads to problems in other areas of your life.

Read on to learn some of the signs of being a shopaholic and ways to curb the habit.

4 Shopaholic Symptoms

People who are addicted to shopping often get a sense of emotional relief right after buying something. They also tend to spend more time and money on shopping than they can afford, and many get into financial problems — such as large amounts of credit card debt — as a result of their overspending.

Below are four signs that you may be addicted to shopping.

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1. Experiencing a Rush of Excitement When You Buy

Shopaholics generally shop not because they really need something but rather for the sense of euphoria they experience when they’re shopping.

Similar to a drug addiction, compulsive shoppers will often experience a “high” or an adrenaline rush from the act of purchasing something. The brain then associates shopping with this pleasure and the person wants to try and recreate that feeling over and over again.This pattern can be used by a shopaholic to fill an emotional need or override a negative emotion.

2. Experiencing Post-Shopping Regret

Unfortunately, the high shopaholics experience is typically short-lived and later gets replaced by negative feelings, including shame, remorse, and guilt.

Shopaholics will often feel guilty after spending money, whether they splurged on something expensive or snagged something on clearance. Despite any remorse that follows, though, they tend to be good at rationalizing any purchase if they’re challenged.

Buyer’s remorse can force a shopaholic back into a negative cycle, since they know shopping is a surefire way to chase away negative feelings, at least temporarily.

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3. Accumulating Unopened Goods

Though shopaholics enjoy shopping, they often don’t care all that much about their purchases when they get home or when their online orders arrive in the mail. In fact, the items they purchase often end up unopened and shoved in the closet or under the bed.

Those living with a shopping addiction can actually develop hoarding tendencies as they accumulate more goods than they need and yet continue buying.

4. Concealing Shopping Habits

Shopaholics will often try to conceal their shopping habits from their spouses, family members, coworkers, and friends. This is often due to feelings of shame and/or the fact that they are shopping and spending money at the expense of their job or loved ones.

Normal Shopping vs Compulsive Shopping

If you enjoy shopping and make the occasional splurge, does that mean you are a shopaholic? Not necessarily. There are several distinct differences between normal shopping and compulsive shopping. Here’s a side-by-side comparison of normal shopping versus compulsive shopping.

Normal Shopping	Compulsive Shopping
No addictive or compulsive component	Resembles addictive behavior
Purchases are needed and used	Purchases are often not needed and go unused
Typically isn’t followed by negative emotions	Often followed by guilt, remorse, and shame
Does not lead to financial problems	Continues despite negative financial consequences
No secrecy involved	Secrecy is often involved
Occasional splurges	Frequent overbuying

Treating Compulsive Shopping

If you feel you have a shopping problem, don’t despair. It’s never too late to address the issue and regain control of your spending. Here are some strategies to try.

Understanding Your Triggers

Consider keeping a journal of how you feel when the shopping urge hits: Are you bored? Angry? Anxious? Do you feel the desire to buy new things after you spend time with a certain person, spend time on social media, or watch certain shows on TV?

Tracking your triggers can provide insight into what drives you to want to shop and how you can better manage (or avoid) those triggers in the future.

Developing Other Coping Strategies

Overcoming any addiction typically requires learning alternative ways of handling the stress of everyday life. You might come up with a list of non-shopping activities you find relaxing and enjoyable, such as calling a friend, watching a movie, reading, going for a walk, listening to music, or engaging in a hobby. You can consult your list when you get the overwhelming urge to shop. This can help you break the cycle of using shopping as a way of trying to feel better about yourself.

Delaying Gratification

Another way to deal with impulsive or compulsive shopping is to establish a waiting time before you make any purchases. If you see an item you want to buy, put the purchase on pause for a week (a 30-day pause is even better). Tell yourself that If, at the end of the waiting period, you still want the item, and can afford it, then you can go ahead and buy it. You may find, however, that by delaying the purchase, you lose interest in the item and opt not to buy it after all.

Seeking Expert Help

If you think you may be addicted to shopping and can’t seem to get a handle on it on your own, it can be worth seeking professional help.

A mental health professional may be able to help you understand the emotional roots of your compulsive shopping and offer strategies to help you overcome the problem. In some cases, medications like selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) can help alleviate underlying mental health problems that could be contributing to a shopping addiction.

You might also benefit from financial counseling, particularly if your shopping behavior has left you in debt. A financial advisor can help you set up a spending budget that allows you to pay off expensive debt, while also building — or rebuilding — your savings.

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FAQ

What are the signs of being a shopaholic?

Signs that your shopping habit has crossed the line into an addictive behavior include:

• You shop primarily to feel happy or to relieve stress.

• You often buy things you don’t need or can’t afford.

• You’re always thinking about things you plan to purchase.

• You often obsess or stress over shopping for a specific item.

• You often feel regret or guilt about things you’ve purchased.

• You have a closet full of unopened or unused items from previous shopping sprees.

• You hide your shopping habits from others.

• Your financial situation is suffering because of your shopping.

What is the root cause of shopping addiction?

Negative feelings, such as stress, anxiety and loneliness, are often the underlying causes of shopping addiction. Shopping can provide a distraction from these unpleasant emotions and help you feel more in control. It can also elicit a kind of psychological “high,” which is why compulsive shoppers often seek this behavior out again and again.

How do you cure a shopping addiction?

People who are addicted to shopping often respond well to various treatments, including:

• Antidepressant medications

• Talk therapy

• Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT)

• Self-help books

• Support groups

• Financial counseling

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Oct

2023

9 Ways To Get Better Purchasing Habits

By Stacey Leasca | Budgeting & Goals, Financial Independence, money | Comments Off

Shopping is part of daily life and often a fun experience (glossy stores, cool new items to try, and a way to fill a rainy afternoon), but it can impact your budget in some not so wonderful ways. That’s where smart purchasing habits come into play.

If you know some clever ways to rein in overspending and snag good deals, you can help ensure that shopping doesn’t blow your budget. In fact, if you learn how to shop smarter, you may be able to avoid excessive credit card debt, save regularly, and reach your financial goals.

Habits like comparison shopping, using coupons and discount codes, and knowing how to hit the pause button can all contribute to improving your buying style. Here, you’ll learn nine effective strategies to try that won’t leave you feeling deprived.

9 Tips for Building Better Buying Habits

Here are nine tips for building better, more mindful purchase habits.

1. Having a Financial Goal in Mind

Motivation is a wonderful tool. To kick off better consumer habits, you may want to think about what your financial aim is and what you want to save money for in the first place.

This could be as small as wanting to save money for the perfect new handbag or to go to a hot new restaurant for an omakase dinner.

Or, it could be something much larger like saving for a vacation, a wedding, a home, or even for retirement somewhere down the line.

Having a financial goal might make it easier for you to sidestep an impulse purchase or spend money on something you don’t actually need.

To double-down on this habit, try writing down any and all financial goals in a notes app, diary, or even on a piece of paper. Then, stick it in your wallet or mobile phone case so it’s with you wherever you go. Tempted to tap or swipe your way to an impulse purchase? Check that note, and think twice.

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2. Giving Every Purchase — Big or Small — a Little Time

Sometimes all it takes to reverse a buying decision is to just sit and think about it for a second. Is this new dress really all that great, and will it be worn more than once? Do you truly need a new mobile phone just because a flashy new model was released? Here are some tactics to try to decide whether or not to buy:

• Try the “take a walk” method, which is to literally leave a store, go for a walk, and think about the item a bit more. This way, the initial adrenaline rush and excitement can wear off just a bit so you can clearly consider the purchase with fewer emotions attached.

Then, come back, look at the item again. If it still elicits butterflies, then it could be worth the purchase. If not, that’s great. Confidently walk away.

• Want to take this habit to the next level? Try the 30-day rule. Just as the name implies, those looking to purchase anything nonessential must put the product back on the shelf and step away for a full 30 days. Put a note in your calendar, and if you still want the item after a month, you can then buy it (finances permitting), knowing it will bring them a little more joy.

Here’s one more trick to try when using the 30-day rule. Over the 30 days, try saving little by little to purchase the item. At the end of the month, if you decide that product is no longer needed, that cash could be put right into savings.

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3. Coming Up With a Personal Spending Mantra

If taking a walk isn’t an option, try a different method for forging better consumer habits. It may be time to come up with a personal spending mantra. This could be a saying like “Keep the memory, get rid of the object,” or Marie Kondo’s question, “Does this spark joy?”

You can briefly focus on your mantra before making any purchase. This can help determine if that object really deserves to take up space in your life and in your monthly budget.

4. Learning to be a Comparative Shopper

Shopping around can be another way to improve your purchase habits. You never have to settle for the first price tag you see. Spending wisely can mean finding a better deal, often with just a quick online search.

To become a great comparative shopper, you can start small by investigating prices on everyday purchases like groceries. Try looking up a price comparison for milk between high-end grocery stores versus the neighborhood grocer vs. a discount store. Then, think about monthly expenses like the internet, cable, telephone bills, and even things like gym memberships or subscriptions.

Can you find a better price for any of these items or negotiate the price down? Could you wait for a sale to kick in? Go for it, and save along the way.

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5. Falling in Love With Coupons and Discount Codes Again

Another better buying habit to adopt: Take a minute when shopping to find a few coupons to use in physical stores and discount codes to use online.

Here’s how to coupon for beginners: Look online. There are a number of coupon websites such as RetailMeNot, Coupons.com, and The Krazy Coupon Lady that can help shoppers hunt down a few discounts when they need them.

There are also services like Honey, which is an extension you can add to your dashboard that will automatically scour the web for discount codes and plug them right in at checkout.

Long story short, don’t settle for the first price.

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6. Maintaining the Things You Already Have

A hole in a sweater, a scratched coffee table, and a tiny crack in a dish can be enough to send some people hunting for an entirely new item to replace the old.

However, rather than tossing something just because it’s a little worn, it’s can be wise to learn how to give things a new life. Or, find an expert who can.

For example, rather than buying all new shoes just because the tread is a little worn down, try bringing them to the local cobbler (aka shoe repair). They may be able to replace the thread for a fraction of the price of new shoes. This same idea goes for big-ticket items too.

Consider keeping a maintenance calendar for things like a car’s oil changes, a home’s roof inspections, and more. That way, things will always stay in tip-top shape for longer, and you may, say, save money on your car or home repair costs.

7. Understanding Shopping Triggers

To create better spending habits, it can be worthwhile to take a bit of time to self-reflect and discover why you like to spend money in the first place.

• Do you suffer from FOMO (fear of missing out), spending and buying things because friends, family, or a favorite influencer is sporting it on social media?

• Do you shop when bored, as a way to add excitement to an otherwise dull day?

• Do you tend to shop when you are feeling sad or stressed? Retail therapy is a common way to lift a mood, but it can have an impact on your financial standing.

It can be important to delve into why you shop. That insight can then help you so you avoid triggers that could lead to overspending.

Doing so could also help you rein in habits that make you a compulsive or impulsive shopper.

8. Getting in on the Financial Buddy System

Here’s another tip for improving purchasing behavior. Everything’s better with friends — and that includes developing better spending habits. Here’s an example of the power of pairing up:

• According to one landmark study by researchers at the University of Aberdeen, Scotland, people who work out with a friend are more likely to hit the gym more often than those who choose to work out alone.

That lesson can easily be applied to finances too. Find a trusted friend or family member who can offer advice or simply understanding and support as you cultivate better shopping habits.

Make a pact to call one another every time either of you needs a second opinion about making big purchases or when you need someone to talk you out of an impulse buy.

9. Knowing Where Money Is and Where It’s Going

A major part of creating better buying habits is understanding where your money stands and where it’s going. Don’t shy away from making a personal budget. Tracking apps (perhaps provided by your financial institution) can help in this effort too.

Monitoring your checking account will also help you get in touch with your spending habits. Some people find checking in every couple of days a good move.

These moves can reveal patterns that you might be unaware of and also help you see where you might cut back on expenses. That, in turn, can free up some funds so you feel better about splurging when the opportunity arises.

Smart Buying Habits Last a Lifetime

Establishing smart purchasing habits like these can set you up for a lifetime of living frugally but without deprivation. If you learn how to get the best possible deals on a daily basis and rein in overspending, you will likely be in a better position to reach your goals.

That might mean watching your retirement fund grow steadily, avoiding high-interest credit card debt, or knowing you’ll be able to afford the down payment on a house in a few years time.

Once you get in the groove of improving your habitual buying behavior, you may also feel less money stress and a greater sense of financial control.

Watch Out for Lifestyle Creep

Another way to embrace better purchasing habits is to be on the lookout for what is known as lifestyle creep. This happens when, as you earn more, your expenses rise, so building wealth is a challenge.

For example, if you change jobs and get a nice salary bump, you might decide to swap your current car lease for a pricier luxury car. After all, you deserve it, right? And you might book a trip to celebrate your new position as well. Moves like these can quickly eat up your raise and then some.

Celebrating within reason is of course part of life (and a good one, at that). However, doing so extravagantly and on an ongoing basis can wind up preventing you from reaching your financial goals.

Smart Buying Habits Can Help You Save

By focusing on improving your purchasing patterns, you can likely save more money. It can be wise to bank with a financial institution that not only helps your cash grow but also offers tools to help you track your spending and save smarter.

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FAQ

What are smart buying habits?

Smart shopping habits can include budgeting, comparison shopping, avoiding impulse buys, couponing, and putting a pause on spending.

How do you change your buying habits?

Changing your buying habits can involve recognizing your shopping patterns and triggers (such as impulse buying when bored or trying to keep up with friends) and then adopting new behaviors. This might mean comparison shopping, buddying up with a friend who is also trying to save, and unsubscribing from retailer emails that can lead to overspending.

What are buying habits?

Buying habits refers to the way a person purchases, such as whether they have a budget or usually shop online or in-store. It might also include whether they make a list or tend to make impulse purchases and if they use discounts and coupon codes or not.

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Sep

2023

Strategies for Traveling With Children

By Julia Califano | Life & Career, money | No Comments

No matter your age or your experience, traveling can be stressful. Add kids to the equation and the stress levels multiply. Tickets, boarding times, strollers, snacks, tablets, and tantrums —- it’s a lot to manage. So much so, it can be easy to forget to enjoy the incredible experience of traveling itself.

But that doesn’t mean you have to give up on going on vacation until your kids get older. Whether you’re dreaming of taking your crew to a foreign country or just a nearby city, these tips for traveling with kids could make your next family getaway seamless and memorable (for all the right reasons).

8 Tips for Traveling With Kids

Fortunately, there’s a lot you can do before you ever leave home to help minimize headaches on the road and help ensure your trip is fun for both kids and grown-ups alike. Here are eight tried-and-true family travel tips to try.

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1. Pre-Book as Much as Possible

When it comes to tips for traveling with children, the more advance planning you can do, generally, the better. While you can’t anticipate every challenge you might face on the road, you can eliminate many of them by doing plenty of advance scouting.

Of course, it’s always a good idea to schedule transportation and accommodations far in advance to not only secure your reservations but also to potentially save some money.

Beyond the essentials, you may also be able to pre-book a lot of the activities you want to do, including sightseeing excursions and even meals. This can help ensure your family is experiencing a new place to the fullest and that the kids stay busy.

While having activities planned might be a lifesaver, it’s also ok to have a little bit of downtime and flexibility too. Exhausted children can be difficult to manage, so you might include some time for naps or relaxation to avoid meltdowns.

2. Selecting the Right Places To Stay

Researching and booking the right hotel ahead of time might help you find one with fun features for the kids, like a pool or complimentary breakfast. You could also talk with the hotel staff once you get there to inquire about upgrades, cots for the kids, or extra pillows.

If you’re not interested in the hotel experience, you might consider staying in a vacation rental property, which could give your family more space and feel more like a home.

3. Packing Smart

When you’re traveling with children, especially more than one, you might have a lot of stuff to manage. Why make it more complicated by packing more than you need? You could plan out the days ahead of time based on any activities or travel and anticipate what you and your kiddos might wear each day.

If it’s a long trip or you need to pack lots of layers, you could roll the clothes rather than fold them, which might free up some space for those extra outfits your little ones (and maybe you!) might need in case of spills.
As for shoes, you might opt for slip-ons if you’re going through airport security and save the sneakers for the suitcase.

4. Getting the Kids Excited for Travel

You might want to talk to your kids before the trip about where you’re going, how you’re getting there, and what you’ll be doing. If your child is a first-time traveler, they may feel nervous doing something so new if they don’t understand what’s going on.

Even months in advance, you could talk about this fun trip on the horizon and all the cool things you will see and do when you get there.

5. Leaving Plenty of Time

While you likely want to minimize waiting time (and boredom), you also don’t want to have to rush. It can be wise to give yourself lots of time to spare, especially if you’re traveling by plane. This will not only give you plenty of time to check bags and get through the security, but might also give your kids some time to explore all the interesting things at the airport and get some snacks.

If you’re traveling by train or car, there may be fewer pressures, but it can still be wise to build in time for the unexpected. Whatever your mode of transport, you’ll want to make sure that all necessary documentation (for you and the kids) and any snacks, drinks, and essential medicines are easily accessible.

6. Bringing the Proper Gear

For the plane, you might take a backpack or bag that can hold everything you need. From baby wipes and hand sanitizer to chargers and snacks, all the little things could help you feel more prepared for any surprises. If your little one needs a stroller, you could consider swapping your day-to-day one out for something that might be easier to travel with.

If it’s a late flight and you need your kids to sleep in transit, you may want to bring small pillows or blankets to help them be comfortable. While new presents are fun and exciting (more on that later), you might also want to keep your child’s comfort toys or blankets nearby. They might feel more at ease if they have something familiar.

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7. Bringing Your Car Seat on the Plane

While it may seem like a major hassle to carry a car seat to the gate and onto the plane, the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) recommends placing children under the age of two in an approved car seat and not in your lap. Kids can safely ride just like they do in the car — either rear-facing or front-facing.

Also, if you are renting a car at your destination, you’ll need a car seat once you arrive. Car rental companies often cannot guarantee that a car seat will be available.

8. Bringing Surprises — and Plenty of Snacks

Kids love surprises, so you may want to buy some new toys or coloring books to keep them occupied during travel time. Also be sure to have lots of their fave snacks on hand. It’s great if they are healthy (fresh and dried fruits are easy to take on the road), but if all rules go out the window and its candy and snacks galore, that’s fun too. And while some parents rarely let their kids watch TV, changing that up for travel time might be one great exception. TV shows and fun games on the tablet might be a nice activity to keep kids busy on a long flight.

Should You Wait Until Your Kids Are Older?

There are pros and cons to traveling with kids at every age. Babies are very portable and typically fly for free. Preschoolers, on the other hand, are out of diapers and naturally curious about everything, so they don’t need expensive vacations to keep them entertained.

Travelling tends to get easier when kids are school age — no more bulky car seats and strollers. They’re still naturally curious but also have more patience. Pre-teens and teens are sponges and can learn a lot through travel — this can be a great age to plan travel to other countries and more exotic locales. Letting them get involved in the planning can also keep them excited and engaged.

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Enjoying Your Vacation

You’ve put in the time to plan a vacation your entire family will (hopefully) remember. Now you can get ready to enjoy it! But you might want to accept that some things will undoubtedly go wrong. No amount of planning and outfit coordination will allow you to avoid every single mishap or meltdown, and that’s okay. You can adjust the plan as needed so you and your family can still have fun on your trip.

The Takeaway

Planning ahead, packing smart, and having all the tools at the ready, from snacks to little presents, might lead to your best family vacation yet. Whether it’s your first time traveling with kids or your tenth, it’s always wise to be prepared.

Since travel isn’t cheap (especially with kids), you’ll also want to be financially prepared for your trip. You might want to think about what the trip will cost, set a savings goal, and start stashing cash in your vacation fund well in advance. If you want to earn a high rate and pay the lowest fees, consider opening an account at an online bank. Without the added expenses of large branch networks, online banks are often able to offer more favorable returns than national brick-and-mortar institutions.

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FAQ

What do you need when traveling with kids?

It depends on the child’s age, but these items can come in handy when you’re on the road:

• Extra clothes (in case of spills, accidents, or travel delays)

• Hand sanitizer

• Disposable wipes

• Refillable water bottles

• Disposable bags

• Healthy snacks

• Books, toys, and games

• Medicines

• First aid kit

What is the hardest age to travel with a child?

Every child is different, but kids between 12 and 18 months can be particularly challenging to travel with since they are typically mobile, don’t like to sit still for long stretches, and are too young to understand and follow directions.

What is the best age to take kids on vacation?

Every age has pros and cons but travel with kids generally gets easier after age six.

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Sep

2023

10 Ways To Save Money Fast

By Janet Siroto | Budgeting & Goals, money | No Comments

You may hit one of those life moments where you need a bundle of cash and fast. Maybe you have been hit with a major car repair bill, you want to attend a destination wedding, or you’re motivated to pay off your student loans ASAP.

Whatever the situation, there are smart strategies that will help you accrue that money as quickly as possible. Tactics like trimming your expenses, selling your unwanted stuff, and bundling your insurance can help you meet a savings goal at top speed.

In this guide, you’ll learn those techniques and more to help you finance whatever is most urgent on your financial to-do list.

How to Save Money Fast 10 Ways

One person’s goal for saving money quickly might be, “I need $500 by the end of the week.” For another, it could be, “I’m going to stash away $10,000 within the next year.” Wherever you may fall in terms of your short-term financial goals, these 10 tactics will help you save money daily and achieve your aspiration.

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1. Getting Rid of Unnecessary Expenses

In an age of automated billings and subscriptions, it is easy to lose track of what exactly you’re paying for each month. It is entirely possible that you’re paying for something you’re not even using.

In order to pinpoint any potentially unwanted expenses, review a month’s worth of auto debits from your bank account. You may find that you’re paying $5 a month for a digital magazine you no longer read or that you could save on streaming services by dropping one or two you don’t watch but are paying $15 a month for.

Once you’ve canceled, you could reroute the money you would have spent directly into your savings account. While $20 or $30 a month saved on subscriptions might not seem like much, even small amounts can quickly add up over time. In combination with other savings techniques, this might help you build your savings fast.

2. Negotiating and Automating Your Bill Payments

Did you know that some companies offer discounts when you set up automatic bill payments, or autopay? This means connecting a bill directly to your bank account and allowing the company to automatically withdraw the amount of the bill on the due date.

Some companies offer a discount in these situations because automatically debiting your account gives the company assurance that the bill will be paid on time. The bonus for you is double: You might get a little discount on your bills, and you won’t have to remember to manually pay the bill each month.

Autopay might also help you avoid unexpected late fees, which in turn could help you build up savings faster. There might be some downsides to autopay, however. If you set up an autopay agreement but then don’t have enough money in your account to cover the charge, you might end up with a canceled subscription or overdraft or NSF fees from your bank.

3. Carefully Considering Big Decisions

Yes, it’s hard to save money, but learning to be mindful about your purchases can help. Instead of buying something as soon as you want it, you might want to sleep on it overnight and see if you still want it the next morning. Giving yourself more time before pulling out your credit card could help you determine if you really need the item or if you were just caught up in the excitement of shopping.

This can be especially useful when making big purchases because they might require more research anyway. For example, if you’re buying a couch and you fall in love with a sectional sofa, waiting overnight might give you a chance to read reviews, double-check the measurements of your space, and look to see if there are similar styles available online that might cost less.

Some people wait longer still. They use the 30-day rule, which involves writing a note in your calendar for 30 days after you see the item you want. If you still are determined to buy it when the calendar alert pops up, then you can probably feel confident that it isn’t an impulse buy and go for it.

By delaying purchases this way, you may be able to avoid compulsive shopping and save funds, which can go towards your savings goal.

4. Considering a Spending “Fast”

Ready to learn another way to save money quickly? Some savers find that they can save money fast with a challenge: They plan a day or two every week where they eliminate all unnecessary spending. That’s what’s called a “fast”: You avoid spending money, similar to the way a dietary fast means you eat nothing.

For example, if you decide to do a two-day spending fast, you might decide that on Tuesdays and Wednesdays you don’t spend any money other than what it costs to commute to work. That means that on those days, you might choose to forgo your daily pitstop at the coffee shop, a lunch from the salad place (you’d bring food from home), or ordering the brand new book you’ve been waiting to read.

Planning to not spend could help you reign in unintentional spending. Chances are that you barely think about that $4 you spend at the coffee shop, but if you give it up twice a week, that’s $8 that could be going into your savings.

If you save an average of $40 a week with a two-day fast, that could add more than $2,000 to your savings in a year.

5. Putting Your Accounts to Work

Choosing the right account for your money can be a great way to save funds fast. Some checking accounts charge monthly or annual account maintenance fees, with little to no interest.

Savings accounts might offer higher interest rates than a checking account, but the reality is that the average interest rates on a standard savings account can still be very low. Instead, you might shop around for a no-fee, high-interest account to make your money work harder for you. These kinds of accounts are often found at online vs. traditional banks.

If you currently have, say, $5,000 sitting in a checking account, earning no interest, if you were to put it in a savings account at 4.50% interest compounded daily, you’d have an extra $230.12 a year later, with no effort on your part.

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6. Bundling Your Insurance

Insurance can be one of those “set it and forget it” expenses. You might buy a policy and then never really focus on the cost of the premium again.

Many insurers, however, will reduce your rate if you give them more of your business. Typically, this means having your auto and home insurance with the same company. You might be able to save a chunk of change and put it towards your savings goal.

It can also be wise to review your insurance annually. You might be paying for coverage you don’t really need.

7. Starting a Side Hustle

Sure, cutting back on your spending is one way to save money fast. But so is bringing in more cash. Many people find starting a side hustle is a good way to bring in more income. This could mean anything from selling your nature photography on Etsy or providing social media services to a local business or two.

While one of the key benefits of a side hustle is the money it can bring in, you also might find it personally rewarding and even an entry to a new full-time career.

8. Saving on Essentials

Looking for another idea for how to save money fast? There’s no doubt that many things you spend money on are necessities. Food, personal-care items, and gas for your car. But there are plenty of ways you can trim those costs.

• To save on food, you could do some meal-planning so you can more efficiently manage your grocery budget. Using up what you buy vs. wasting food can help you save a bundle towards your goals.

• You could get a gas card to save at the pump. There are also plenty of apps that point you towards the cheapest gas stations in your area.

• Joining a warehouse or wholesale club can help you save on your typical purchases. If you find the quantities too large (say, a 12-pack of shampoo), partner up with a friend of two to share the wealth.

9. Selling Your Stuff

If you’re trying to save money fast, you might be able to “find” a pile of cash by selling your used items that you no longer need. This could mean anything from selling gently worn clothes online (say, on Poshmark or thredUP) or IRL (at Buffalo Exchange perhaps); putting functional electronics up for sale on eBay; or offering items on places like Nextdoor or Facebook Marketplace.

Just be cautious as there are scammers who try to prey on direct sellers.

10. Checking Your Tax Withholding

Here’s another idea for accumulating money quickly: Double-check your tax withholding. If you get a sizable tax refund every year, you may feel as if you are getting “free money.” Not at all! That’s actually your hard-earned money that you overpaid to the government and are now getting back. It could have been earning interest in the bank rather than being whisked out of your paycheck.

If you typically receive a refund, tweak your withholding, and then put the additional money that stays in your paycheck into your savings.

Is Saving Money Fast Realistic?

Saving money fast can be realistic, as long as you keep in mind your income and the fact that most financial experts say to save 20% of that figure. That’s one of the principals of the popular 50/30/20 budget rule. Fifty percent of your money goes towards essential spending, 30% goes to discretionary expenses, and 20% gets socked away as savings.

So, if you earn $100,000 a year and have an important goal in mind, such as the down payment for a house, you might be able to stash $20K in a single year. That might involve pausing your retirement savings for a year as you go all-in on accumulating as much cash as possible for a home purchase.

Also, if you are able to bring in more income (whether by selling your stuff, starting a side hustle, or via passive income ideas), that can accelerate your savings as well.

Keeping Your Savings Safe With SoFi

Whichever strategies (or combination of tactics) you try, it’s important to find the right banking partner where your money can grow. You’ll likely want a financial institution with Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation coverage, low or no fees, and a healthy interest rate.

Better banking is here with SoFi, NerdWallet’s 2024 winner for Best Checking Account Overall.* Enjoy up to 4.20% APY on SoFi Checking and Savings.

FAQ

How can I save $1,000 fast?

To save $1,000 fast, you can try a combination of such techniques as trimming subscriptions, essential, and discretionary spending; bundling insurance to cut costs; selling your unwanted items; and/or using the 30-day rule.

How to save up $10,000 in 3 months?

To save $10,000 in three months, you need to save $3,333 after-tax dollars per month. Your income and expenses will influence how doable this is. Some ways to save this amount include going on a spending fast (meaning you eliminate all possible discretionary spending) and starting a side hustle to bring in more money.

How to save $5,000 ASAP?

To save $5,000 ASAP, you can try cutting your expenses, avoiding big purchases, making sure your money is earning a good interest rate, and bringing in more cash via a side hustle.

Sep

2023

How Much Should I Spend on a Car?

By Janet Siroto | Budgeting & Goals, money | No Comments

If you’re thinking of buying a car, you are probably wondering how to budget for it. Figuring out how much to spend can be a challenge: Do you go for a cheaper used car or splash out on a fully loaded new vehicle? And how do you balance a car loan with other debt you may have?

Read on for guidelines to determine a car-buying budget so you can make the best decision for your needs. You’ll learn valuable options as well as helpful tips for when you are ready to start shopping.

Determining How Much to Spend on a Car

There are a few guidelines to consider when you’re trying to figure out how much money you should spend on a car. Before you dig into the details, perhaps start by taking a minute to balance your budget so you have an accurate idea of how much money you’re able to spend on a car.

Tally up your monthly income and all of your monthly expenses so you have a keen understanding of where you are spending your money. Once you have a solid grasp on your monthly expenses, you may be better able to determine how much to spend on a car.

Here are some common recommendations for determining how much to spend on a car. Think of these more as guidelines than hard and fast rules. They may give you an idea of how much you should spend on a car, but of course it all depends on your specific circumstances.

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The 10% Rule

The 10% rule is pretty straightforward. The general idea is to not spend more than 10% of your gross annual income on a car. But the low limit can make it difficult to stick to this rule. If you just need a car that will get you from point A to point B, you may be able to find a vehicle that will fall under 10% of your income. But if you need a car with more features or more space, you may want to consider one of the following rules.

The 36% Rule

This rule takes into consideration your total debt-to-income ratio. This guideline suggests you keep all of your debt, including your car payments, to less than 36% of your income. If you, like many Americans, have debt from credit cards, student loans, or a mortgage, you may want to calculate how a car payment would factor in.

• Another related guideline is the 15% rule, which can be useful if the only debt you have is a mortgage. If that’s the case, the guideline suggests that you don’t spend more than 15% of your net monthly take-home pay on car expenses.

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The 20/4/10 Rule

This is a multi-part rule.

• First, it suggests that when you buy a car, you make a down payment of 20%.

• Secondly, it recommends that when you take out a loan to finance the car, you plan to pay it off in no more than four years.

• Finally, the total monthly vehicle expenses shouldn’t be more than 10% of your monthly income. Having your dream car is great, but it may not be worth it if you can’t afford to save for retirement or focus on other goals because your disposable income is primarily going toward your car payments.

The 50/30/20 Rule

If you find the above rules unrealistic, you could also consider using the general 50/30/20 budget rule. This rule says that you should spend 50% of your income on needs, 30% of your income on wants, and 20% of your income should go toward saving.

Your auto loan would fall into the needs category, but if you opt for a more expensive vehicle, you could consider a portion of the payment as part of your wants. This way, you can get the car you need with the features you want, while still keeping your budget balanced by allocating some of your discretionary spending money to your car payment.

Recommended: Check out the 50/30/20 calculator to see the breakdown of your money.

Finding a Car You Can Afford

Buying a car can be an intimidating process. Thankfully, there are plenty of options, so you can find a car that works for your lifestyle and budget. Here are some things to consider as you embark on your search for a car that fits into your budget technique.

What Are You Going to Use the Car for?

Will you use the car mostly for quick trips to and from work? Do you have a large family that you’ll be driving to and from baseball games, soccer practices, and play dates? How you plan to use the car may influence the type of car you choose to get.

It’s also worth considering the weather. Do you live in an area with harsh winters where a larger vehicle with all-wheel drive may be helpful? There are a wide variety of vehicles on the market that fill different needs so take the time to determine which features are most important to you.

Doing Your Research

Once you decide on the type of car you want to buy, you’ll want to dig into the research phase of the process, so you are familiar with the models available, the features, and their average price.

When you’ve decided on a few models, there are a variety of resources that can help you track down details on each car. Sites like Edmunds, Kelley Blue Book, and Consumer Reports have reliable information to help consumers. And hopefully being an informed shopper will take some of the intimidation out of buying a car.

Will You Buy Used or New?

You’ll also need to decide if you plan to buy a new or used car new. If you are on a tight budget, a used car may be a more affordable option. Something to remember is that a car is a depreciating asset — it typically loses around 20% of its value within the first year.

Test Driving a Few Options

Before you consider buying, consider test driving a few options. Buying a car is a big purchase, so take your time if you’re able to. It can be worth trying the car out on a few different types of roads so you can see how it drives in different settings.

It can be easy to feel pressure to make a purchase after a test-drive, but it is a standard part of the car buying process. The salesperson will likely be interested in making the sale, but there’s no reason you need to decide on the car immediately after the test-drive. One option is to let the salesperson know at the beginning of the drive that you’re still researching options and don’t plan to buy during this visit.

Being Prepared to Walk Away

When buying a car, you may have to negotiate. Haggling can be an acquired skill, but if you’ve done the research and know exactly how much the car is worth, you can dust off your negotiating skills and try using them to work out a deal you’d be happy to accept. If negotiations aren’t going well, being prepared to walk away may help.

Recommended: Budgeting for Beginners

Saving For Your New Car

As you are saving for the purchase, consider which kind of bank account can help you get to your goal ASAP.

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Are You a Shopaholic? Signs to Know

4 Shopaholic Symptoms

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1. Experiencing a Rush of Excitement When You Buy

2. Experiencing Post-Shopping Regret

3. Accumulating Unopened Goods

4. Concealing Shopping Habits

Normal Shopping vs Compulsive Shopping

Treating Compulsive Shopping

Understanding Your Triggers

Developing Other Coping Strategies

Delaying Gratification

Seeking Expert Help

Letting Your Savings Grow With SoFi

FAQ

What are the signs of being a shopaholic?

What is the root cause of shopping addiction?

How do you cure a shopping addiction?

9 Ways To Get Better Purchasing Habits

9 Tips for Building Better Buying Habits

1. Having a Financial Goal in Mind

2. Giving Every Purchase — Big or Small — a Little Time

3. Coming Up With a Personal Spending Mantra

4. Learning to be a Comparative Shopper

5. Falling in Love With Coupons and Discount Codes Again

6. Maintaining the Things You Already Have

7. Understanding Shopping Triggers

8. Getting in on the Financial Buddy System

9. Knowing Where Money Is and Where It’s Going

Smart Buying Habits Last a Lifetime

Watch Out for Lifestyle Creep

Smart Buying Habits Can Help You Save

FAQ

What are smart buying habits?

How do you change your buying habits?

What are buying habits?

Strategies for Traveling With Children

8 Tips for Traveling With Kids

1. Pre-Book as Much as Possible

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2. Selecting the Right Places To Stay

3. Packing Smart

4. Getting the Kids Excited for Travel

5. Leaving Plenty of Time

6. Bringing the Proper Gear

7. Bringing Your Car Seat on the Plane

8. Bringing Surprises — and Plenty of Snacks

Should You Wait Until Your Kids Are Older?

Enjoying Your Vacation

The Takeaway

FAQ

What do you need when traveling with kids?

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10 Ways To Save Money Fast

How to Save Money Fast 10 Ways

1. Getting Rid of Unnecessary Expenses

Get up to $300 when you bank with SoFi.

2. Negotiating and Automating Your Bill Payments

3. Carefully Considering Big Decisions

4. Considering a Spending “Fast”

5. Putting Your Accounts to Work

6. Bundling Your Insurance

7. Starting a Side Hustle

8. Saving on Essentials

9. Selling Your Stuff

10. Checking Your Tax Withholding

Is Saving Money Fast Realistic?

Keeping Your Savings Safe With SoFi

FAQ

How can I save $1,000 fast?

How to save up $10,000 in 3 months?

How to save $5,000 ASAP?

How Much Should I Spend on a Car?

Determining How Much to Spend on a Car

The 10% Rule

The 36% Rule

The 20/4/10 Rule

The 50/30/20 Rule

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