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Ask couples what they fight about most, and money is sure to be at the top of the list. Decades of research have shown that common clashes are sparked by different spending habits, different financial values (which influence spending habits), and how to raise financially smart kids.

While dealing with money isn’t always easy, it doesn’t have to drive a wedge in your relationship. These strategies can help ensure your financial discussions with your partner are productive and — dare we suggest — maybe even something to look forward to.

Meet Regularly — but Don’t Discuss Money

When couples fight about money, the classic mistake is to think that having a regular “money talk” will help solve things. Unlikely.

That’s because the source of most financial disagreements is that one person’s values don’t line up with the other’s. In order to truly ease money stress, you have to start by understanding the bigger wants and needs and priorities of your partner.

Make time to meet regularly and focus on things you both want out of life. It doesn’t have to be a long conversation — maybe 30 minutes, or an hour.

Come Prepared

Consider bringing a list of topics to each meeting, but don’t expect to cover them all. There will be other meetings, and it’s more important to leave each conversation with a sense that you understand each other better. Depending on the stage of your relationship, you might raise some common questions:

Do you want kids? Do you want pets? Do you want to live a certain lifestyle? Start a business? Retire early? Send the kids to private school vs. public?

How important is it to have a vacation each year, or is it more important to have a beautiful home — or both?

Do you both believe in working hard and playing hard? Working to live or living to work? These may sound like cliches, but dig into each topic to get at each person’s core feelings.

Create a Safe Space

A key aspect of these non-money talks has to be a spirit of openness, not criticism or judgment. You’re trying to get to know one another in a slightly different way. Ask questions, take time to listen to each other’s answers.

While these sessions may seem uncomfortable at first, having these non-financial conversations may actually prevent important issues from causing conflicts or money fights in the future.

Again, keep these conversations fairly short. The idea is to find common ground, and that may not happen right away. So don’t expect to agree, expect to learn something new about your partner.

Look for Shared Goals and Points of Agreement

Even couples that fight about money, also agree on plenty of financial issues. Be sure to pay attention as you discover these points in common, and celebrate the fact that you have them.

Knowing that you have financial goals and priorities in common, not just pain points, can build your confidence and momentum and lead to the good part of all this: Having more fun because you’re not stressed about money squabbles!

Address Financial Topics as Organically as You Can

Rather than set up more meetings (who has time?), you can use your newfound empathy and sense of shared values to tackle topics as they come up naturally in your day-to-day lives.

Now you can talk about spending when you get the credit card bill, or when you have to make a tough choice between two competing priorities. In some ways it’s less stressful to discuss whether to refinance the house or set up a Roth IRA when that question comes up organically, rather than trying to anticipate bigger issues.

Be sure to include something fun in your financial plan. Money is for the future, and it’s also for the present, so make sure you enjoy it.

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Let Go of Resentment

Financial inequity between partners — say, if one person has a lot of debt or there’s a large disparity between incomes — can be a common source of tension.

If you feel like one person’s debt is holding you both back, remember that it doesn’t have to last forever. There are many strategies for paying off debt — talking it through will help you find the right path for you both. You might also decide to meet with a financial advisor who can help you prioritize, create a budget, and perhaps even refinance to break even faster.

In cases of income disparity, it may help to reframe each partner’s contribution to the household. Yes, one person may bring in more (or all) of the household income, but be clear on the non-monetary intangibles that the other person is contributing. Cooking, cleaning, watching the kids, caring for aging relatives — these duties all add up and represent what each of you is bringing to the household.

Reward Yourselves

Create incentives to stick with your meeting schedule. Maybe that means taking your laptops to your favorite coffee shop, or treating yourselves to a movie night afterward.

Another idea is to reward yourselves as a couple after you hit a predetermined financial goal or milestone. For example, every month you successfully increase your emergency fund by a target amount, you might choose to enjoy a nice restaurant meal.

Even a free indulgence — like a walk around your favorite lake after the discussion — can be effective. Just make it something that you both enjoy (bonus points if it’s something that you don’t do all the time so it feels extra special). That way, you’ll look forward to it.

The Takeaway

The best way to take the sting out of discussing finances with your partner is to start by getting in sync as people, understanding each other’s values and perspectives. Scheduling time to talk monthly (or whatever cadence works for you) allows you to also savor the ways you are on the same page already, and what some of those shared goals are.

Don’t try to meet about big hairy financial goals that aren’t on the table yet. You do have to plan ahead, but it’s also important (and less stressful) to address money matters as they arise naturally. Then, get back to the fun of living your lives together the rest of the time.

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FAQ

How do you talk about money in a relationship?

Talking about money in a relationship requires openness and honesty. Start by setting up a regular time to discuss your financial goals, values, and concerns. Create a safe space where both partners can share without judgment. Try to only use “I” statements to express your feelings and avoid blame. This approach helps build trust and ensures both partners are on the same page.

At what point in a relationship should you talk about money?

It’s best to talk about money early in a relationship, ideally before moving in together or becoming financially intertwined. This could be after a few months of dating or when the relationship feels serious. Discussing financial matters early helps prevent misunderstandings and builds a foundation of trust. It’s also wise to revisit the topic periodically as your relationship and financial situations evolve.

What is a financial red flag in a relationship?

A financial red flag in a relationship includes secretive behavior about money, excessive debt, or an unwillingness to discuss financial matters. Other signs include lying about spending, refusing to contribute to shared expenses, and having different financial goals without a plan to reconcile them. Recognizing these red flags early can help you address issues and maintain a healthy, transparent relationship.

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Contactless payment allows you to make a transaction simply by tapping or waving a contactless card or payment-enabled mobile device over a payment terminal. It’s simple, convenient, and growing in popularity: In a 2024 survey by the retail news outlet Chain Store Age, nearly half (46%) of U.S. respondents said they’ve used a form of contactless payment in the last seven days.

While contactless payments have a number of benefits, there are also a few drawbacks to this payment method. Read on for key things to know about contactless payments, including how they work, how to know if you can make a contactless payment, and the pros and cons of using tap-and-go technology.

How Do Contactless Payments Work?

Contactless payment, often called “tap to pay,” uses near-field communication (NFC) to let you pay by tapping or waving a card, phone, or smartwatch near a payment terminal. Both the payment device and the payment terminal have NFC chips that communicate wirelessly when close together. Instead of sending your actual card number, however, the system uses tokenization — replacing your number with a secure, random token. The token is transmitted to the payment processor, which contacts your bank to approve the transaction. If authorized, the payment is completed in seconds.

What Transactions Are Eligible for Contactless Payment?

For contactless credit card payment to work, both the terminal and card have to have the technology.

Many credit cards and debit cards have built-in chips, but the chip that permits you to insert instead of swipe is not the same as a contactless card. To determine if your card is able to make contactless payments, look for the universal contactless symbol — a circle with a wave (or WiFi symbol turned on its side) inside — somewhere on the card. Contactless payments are also supported by devices using Apple Pay, Google Pay, or Samsung Wallet.

To determine if a payment terminal is contactless payment enabled, check for the universal contactless payments symbol with a hand next to it on the merchant’s electronic payment terminal, device, or card reader.

Pros of Contactless Payment

Contactless payment comes with a number of advantages:

•   Ease of use. With contactless payment, users just have to tap their chosen payment method on the terminal. There’s no swiping or inserting for the transaction to go through.

•   Speed. Since there’s no swiping or inserting, contactless payments tend to be faster.

•   Leave the wallet at home. If you’ve uploaded your credit and debit card information to your mobile device, you can pay for things without carrying your physical wallet around.

•   Security. Contactless payment with chips is more secure than traditional magnetic-strip credit cards. Contactless payments are encrypted. This system makes it much harder for credit card scammers to steal people’s credit card information.

•   Hygiene. Contactless payment minimizes contact with shared surfaces, reducing the potential for germ transmission.

Overall, contactless payment may make for faster transactions, and might not even require you to pull out your wallet.

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Cons of Contactless Payment

However, just like mobile banking has pros and cons, contactless payments do have some drawbacks, including:

•   Glitches in technology. A card and point-of-sale system might not line up from time to time, resulting in glitches.

•   It’s not available everywhere. While contactless payment is being adopted more and more, not every store has it. If there’s no symbol, customers will have to insert or even swipe to pay.

•   Potential security concerns. Contactless payments do not require a PIN or signature to authorize. As a result, lost or stolen contactless cards can be used to make fraudulent transactions.

•   Limited transactions. It largely depends on bank policies, but because tap to pay doesn’t require authentication, there may be limits on withdrawals and purchase amounts. For more details on transaction limits, contact your bank or credit card company.

Recommended: Guide to Keeping Your Bank Account Safe Online

The Takeaway

While contactless payment isn’t foolproof, it can make purchasing transactions faster, easier, and more convenient. It’s also becoming commonplace as a payment method, and it’s more secure than cards with magnetic stripes. You can weigh the pros and cons of contactless payment to determine if it’s right for you.

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FAQ

What are the pros and cons of using contactless payments?

In terms of pros, contactless payments are fast, convenient, and reduce physical contact, making them hygienic. They also offer enhanced security features like tokenization and encryption.
As for cons, contactless payments can lead to overspending due to the ease of use, and not all merchants accept them. Also, since contactless payments do not require a PIN or signature to authorize, a lost or stolen contactless card or device could potentially be used to make fraudulent transactions. Some users also experience technical issues or limited transaction amounts.

What is the purpose of contactless payment?

The purpose of contactless payment is to provide a quick, convenient, and secure way to make transactions without the need for physical cash or card swiping. Being able to tap a card or device on a reader streamlines the payment process, reduces wait times, and minimizes physical contact. Contactless payments also enhance the user experience and can improve transaction efficiency for businesses.

Why is contactless payment safer?

Contactless payments are safer because they use advanced security features like tokenization to protect your financial data. Tokenization replaces your card number with a unique digital token, making it difficult for hackers to use stolen information. Contactless payment also eliminates some of the opportunities for thieves to steal – or “skim” — your credit card information, since your card never comes into contact with the payment terminal.

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Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Investing can be a great way to secure your financial future, but it can also feel like an intimidating minefield for the uninitiated. Fortunately, modern technology has made it easier to start an investment portfolio. You could get started today if you have an internet connection and a bank account.

But it’s important to understand what you’re doing before you put your money into the nebulous financial markets. You’ll want to know the basics of investing, from the different types of investments to the various strategies you can use to try to build your wealth. With this knowledge, you should have a good idea of what sorts of investments are right for you, and how to get started.

How to Start Investing

If you are ready to start investing and want to build a portfolio on your own, you can follow these steps to get up and running — just remember to do your homework first!

1. Determine Your Investment Goals

You’ll want to do your best to establish your financial goals before you start investing. Since investments have such strong growth potential over time, many people use their portfolio’s gains to fund future financial goals, like purchasing a home or retirement. Figuring out which investment strategy is right for you starts by assessing and understanding your goals, because they’re not the same for everyone.

2. Choose an Investment Account

You will also need to open a brokerage account and deposit money into it. Once your account is funded, you can buy and sell stocks, mutual funds, and other securities.

You can also utilize an employer-sponsored retirement plan, like a 401(k), or an individual retirement account (IRA) – such as a Roth IRA – to make your investments. One benefit of some retirement investment accounts is that they are tax-advantaged, meaning your investments can grow tax-free within the accounts. However, you may need to pay taxes when withdrawing money from the account.

💡 Need more help? Follow our guide on how to open a brokerage account.

3. Know Your Investment Options

There are numerous types of investment that you can explore and choose from. Here are some examples:

1. Stocks

When you think of investing, you probably think of the stock market. A stock gives an investor fractional ownership of a publicly-traded company in units known as shares. Investing in stocks as a beginner — which may involve investing in and monitoring a small number of stable, low-risk companies — can be a good way to learn about the markets.

Investors might generate returns by investing in stocks through capital appreciation, dividends, or both. Capital appreciation occurs when you buy a stock at one price, then sell it for a higher price in the future. The company may also pay dividends if it distributes part of its profits to its shareholders.

Note, however, that it’s possible that investors could lose their initial investment if a company’s share price hits zero. Investing in stocks carries some significant risks, and investors should be aware of those risks.

Recommended: How to Invest in Stocks: A Beginner’s Guide

2. Bonds

Bonds are loans you make to a company or a government — federal or local — for a fixed period. In return for loaning them money, they promise to pay you, the investor, periodic interest and, eventually, your principal at the end of the period.

Bonds are typically backed by the full faith and credit of the government or large companies. They’re often considered less risky investments than stocks.

However, the risk varies, and bonds are rated for quality and creditworthiness. Because the U.S. government is less likely to go bankrupt than an individual company, Treasury bonds are considered some of the least risky investments. However, they also tend to have lower returns.

Recommended: How to Buy Bonds: A Guide for Beginners

3. Mutual Funds and ETFs

A mutual fund is an investment managed by a professional. Funds typically focus on an asset class, industry, or region, and investors pay fees to the fund manager to choose investments and buy and sell them at favorable prices.

Exchange-traded funds (ETFs) are similar to mutual funds, but the main difference is that ETFs are traded on a stock exchange, giving investors the flexibility to buy and sell throughout the day.

Mutual funds and ETFs allow investors to diversify their holdings in one investment vehicle.

4. Real Estate

Real estate may be another type of investment, and many people initially invest in real estate by purchasing a home or a rental property.

If owning a home is out of reach for you, you can also invest in a real estate investment trust (REIT), or a company that operates in the real estate business. You can trade shares of a REIT on a stock exchange like you would a stock. With a REIT, an investor buys into a piece of a real estate venture, not the whole thing. If opting to invest in a REIT, there may be less responsibility and pressure on the shareholder when compared to purchasing an investment property.

4. Decide Your Investment Style

Each individual investor will have different goals and concerns as it relates to their portfolio. You may want to work with a financial professional to help you zero in on what type of investments and overall portfolio may give you the best shot at reaching your goals.

With that in mind, you’ll want to think about your style and investing habits, too. Consider your time frame, or time horizon – that is, how long you have to invest, and how long you might want to wait before selling your investments and reaping potential profits – assuming your investments accrued value.

Also think about your risk tolerance, or how much risk you’re willing to take with your portfolio. Riskier investments may generate larger returns over shorter periods of time, but they can also lead to significant losses. Again, this is something to think about when figuring out your specific investment style.

You’ll also want to think about how you allocate your investments, or the degree to which you diversify your portfolio. That means looking at the specific mix of investment types in your portfolio, and getting a sense of the risks and potential returns each brings to the fold.

Quick Tips for Investing Beginners

An investment strategy is a plan that outlines how you will invest your money. As noted, an ideal strategy should consider your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon. Here are three recommended tips and strategies for beginner investors.

•   Consider a buy-and-hold approach: Investors practicing buy and hold strategies tend to buy investments and hang on to them over the long term, regardless of short-term movements in the market. Doing so can help curb the tendency to panic sell, and it can also help minimize fees associated with trading, which may boost overall portfolio returns.

•   Utilize dollar-cost averaging: Dollar-cost averaging is a strategy that helps individuals regularly invest by making fixed investments on a regular schedule regardless of price. A dollar-cost average strategy can help individuals access a lower average share price and help them avoid emotional investing.

•   Stay stoic: Remember to keep your emotions in check when investing. You may feel panicked every time the market dips, the economy slows, or a friend tells you that you need to shift your portfolio — it may be wise to stick to your strategy, keep your goals in mind, and let the chips fall where they may. There are no guarantees in investing, but don’t let the whims of the market give you whiplash.

Remember the Risks

It bears repeating: Investing involves risk. There are all sorts of risks that investors assume when they put their money in the markets, and each individual investment may have different types of associated risks. Some investment types are significantly riskier than others, too.

The important thing for beginner investors to keep in mind is that there are no guarantees when investing, and that there’s a chance they could see negative returns, or lose all of their initial investment.

The Takeaway

For beginners, investing can seem complicated and intimidating — in many ways, it is. But if you take some simple initial steps to familiarize yourself with the markets, investing tools, and types of investments — and pair them with a sound strategy – you should set yourself up to be more confident and comfortable when you start investing.

Ready to invest in your goals? It’s easy to get started when you open an investment account with SoFi Invest. You can invest in stocks, exchange-traded funds (ETFs), mutual funds, alternative funds, and more. SoFi doesn’t charge commissions, but other fees apply (full fee disclosure here).

FAQ

How much money do you need to start investing?

It’s possible to start investing with very little money. Some brokerages allow investors to open accounts with as little as $5, in some cases, depending on what types of investments you’re interested in buying. In some cases, all you need is $5 to start investing, but generally, the more you have, the better.

What are the most popular investment options for beginners?

Some popular beginner investments include stocks, mutual funds, and exchange-traded funds (ETFs).

What are some simple investment strategies for beginners?

Some common investment strategies for beginners include buy and hold and dollar-cost averaging. Many beginners may also employ an index investing strategy, buying ETFs and mutual funds that track a benchmark index, like the S&P 500.