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Family vacations are the stuff memories are made of. Maybe it’s a week spent at a beach an hour from your home, a long weekend at a theme park, or an amazing two-week jaunt around national parks or Europe: No matter what the details, the fact that you and your loved ones are together, amid new surroundings, and perhaps having an adventure can make it worth the time, energy, and money you spend ten times over.

That said, few people have unlimited funds for getaways. And no one wants to rack up a bunch of travel-triggered debt. So here’s a game plan to help you afford a family vacation, including:

•   How to calculate the cost of a family vacation

•   Ways to make a family vacation affordable

•   Tips for avoiding debt from a family vacation

Calculating the Cost of Family Vacations

In one recent survey by the Family Travel Association and NYU’s School of Professional Studies, 85% of American parents said they were planning to take a trip with their kids in the year ahead.

If you’re among their ranks, you know that cost is a big consideration when planning this kind of trip. When calculating the total cost of your next family vacation, make sure to consider the following expenses:

•   Airfare (roundtrip) plus transfers and any train or bus fare

•   Car rental (and/or gas plus taxes and related expenses)

•   Accommodations (including taxes and fees)

•   Food and drinks (whether dining out or meal prepping)

•   Activities, attractions, and entertainment

•   Souvenirs

•   Travel insurance

•   Miscellaneous costs (parking fees, passport fees, currency exchange, etc.)

Additionally, you’ll want to account for expenses incurred at home, such as pet-sitting costs, and lost wages if you don’t have paid time-off available for some or all of your vacation days.

By having the total cost of your family vacation in mind, you can better plan ahead and ensure you budget appropriately to cover all of your costs. Another smart move can be to review the different credit card rewards you’ve accrued and see how those can bring down the price of your vacation (more about this below).

How to Take a Family Vacation on a Budget

Being a frugal traveler with your family in tow is, of course, an added challenge. No one wants to deny the kids that ice cream or souvenir T-shirt, for instance. But there are many ways to make your next vacation more affordable.

1. Have a Strict Budget

After tallying up your essential monthly expenses, such as your rent or mortgage payment, bills, and other household expenses, see how much of your discretionary income is left.

Using that number, break down how much you’re able or willing to allot toward the travel categories listed earlier. Although your budget in each subcategory can be somewhat fluid, make sure your total family travel costs don’t exceed your maximum budget.

2. Keep a Dedicated Vacation Savings Account

An important part of creating a travel fund is ensuring that your vacation savings isn’t accidentally tapped into for anything other than your trip goal. One way to avoid this is by opening a high-yield savings account that holds savings exclusively for your next trip.

Not only will you be stashing money far from your checking account so it doesn’t get spent, you’ll also be earning some interest to pump up your fund. Online banks often offer the best annual percentage yields (APYs).

3. Use Credit Card Bonuses and Miles

If you already use a cash back rewards credit card for many of your day-to-day purchases, applying your earned cash-back rewards and miles toward your trip is a must. This can help shave down your costs, especially if you stash your rewards earnings for a while in preparation for your trip.

As another bonus, your card may offer credit card travel insurance, which can help protect you against any unexpected financial losses when you’re away.

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4. Be Flexible With Travel Dates

The travel dates you choose for your trip can greatly affect the total price of your family vacation. If you’re willing to be flexible about when you travel, you might be able to save a chunk of change.

Compare flight costs on weekends versus weekdays to find travel deals. Also consider traveling during the shoulder season or off season, if possible. An example: Heading to London (and the world of Harry Potter) not in the summer, but the spring. This can be more affordable than traveling during peak season when other families are arriving in high volumes. Also, if your kids aren’t yet school age, you can avoid the usual school holiday dates and travel when you please, potentially saving money.

5. Explore All-Inclusive Cruises

Exploring cheap cruises is another way to afford a family vacation. All-inclusive cruises offer families a package deal that generally includes food and non-alcoholic drinks, as well as activities that adults and children can enjoy on board.

Some cruises even offer “kids sail free” promotions that offer a complimentary pass for children under a certain age on specific booking dates. (Taxes and fees will still apply though.)

6. Find Ways to Budget on the Trip

Once your family arrives at your destination, cut costs on variable expenses, like food and beverages, as well as activities. Instead of dining out for every meal, you might assemble sandwiches for lunch while on vacation, or focus on shareable meals, like pizza, that can be split with the family. Packing granola bars or fruit from the supermarket can help you avoid pricey snack stops, too.

Additionally, research free or low-fee activities to do ahead of time. For instance, you could take a free walking tour of the city, visit tourist attractions that offer free children’s or elderly admission, and more.

7. Travel in Groups With Other Families

Coordinating a vacation with other families (or relatives) can be an effective budget travel option. For example, as a group, you might rent a large Airbnb with a pool or one that’s near a theme park. You could then split the cost of food, gas, and accommodations for the trip. If your group is large enough, certain attractions might also offer group discounts for admission.

8. Be Flexible With Your Destination

Perhaps your dream is to spend a week in New York City or at a seaside Maldives resort, but the cost is a real budget-buster. Think about alternatives that give you some of the same vibe (a dynamic city or a chic place by the sea) for a lower price.

Family beach options in Mexico, for example, might be more affordable than a beach trip to the Maldives. And a trip to Philadelphia or Boston (both of which have plenty of history, museums, great food, and more) could help you shave down the price of a big-city getaway.

9. Work a Side Gig for Extra Income

Bringing in supplemental income is another way to afford a family vacation, if you plan ahead of time. Consider your own skills and expertise, such as tutoring, crafting, or freelancing. There are plenty of low-cost side hustles you might pursue.

Offer your services through platforms, like UpWork, or within your local community for a fee. Use the extra money you earn toward your family trip.

10. Leverage the Sharing Economy

Innovative sharing communities are another way that families afford to travel. For example, to save money on hotels, there are also domestic and international house-sitting opportunities that your family can participate in through sites like Nomador and Mind My House.

Are Timeshares Worth it in 2023?

One option that some families consider for future travel is a timeshare. A timeshare is a vacation property wherein you — and other people — purchase the right to use it at a specific time. Generally, when it comes to budget family travel, timeshares are not the best option.

Although a timeshare simplifies certain aspects of your travel planning, such as deciding on a destination or finding accommodations, it can be restrictive in other ways. For example, your timeshare dates might not align with your available days off or children’s school vacations (when many people want to travel). In addition, timeshares can be difficult to sell when the time comes.

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Tips to Avoid Debt While Going on a Family Vacation

Although you can pay for your family vacation on a rewards credit card and earn credit card points in the process, proceed with caution. Like any large expense put on a credit card, your total debt can balloon if you don’t have the savings or income to pay it back quickly. In that case, you start to rack up interest charges.

As much as possible, avoid putting your next family vacation on your credit card. Instead, give yourself ample time to save up toward your trip. Also, don’t forget to apply any credit card miles or cash back that you’ve earned toward your travel bookings to immediately cut your out-of-pocket travel expenses toward flights, accommodations, or car rentals.

The Takeaway

Creating amazing memories with your family through travel doesn’t mean you have to spend a bundle. By crafting a solid budget and using smart, strategic tips to cut travel costs, like using credit card rewards to travel for less, you can plan a vacation that fits your needs and your financial situation.

SoFi Travel has teamed up with Expedia to bring even more to your one-stop finance app, helping you book reservations — for flights, hotels, car rentals, and more — all in one place. SoFi Members also have exclusive access to premium savings, with 10% or more off on select hotels. Plus, earn unlimited 3%** cash back rewards when you book with your SoFi Unlimited 2% Credit Card through SoFi Travel.

FAQ

How do people afford to travel every year?

You can dedicate a portion of your budget each year toward travel. Calculate how much discretionary income is left after you’ve allocated funds toward non-negotiable expenses, like monthly rent and bills. Once you have an approximate number, explore your options based on your budget.

How much does it cost to travel the world with a family?

The cost to travel the world with your loved ones varies greatly. Factors like the number of adults and children in your party, your destination, the duration of your trip, when you travel during the year, and your travel activities will all determine how much you’ll spend.

How much does the average family spend on travel per year?

The average one-week vacation for two people in the U.S.costs about $3,156. Bringing along more family members will of course add to that cost, but how much will depend on variables such as whether the kids stay in the same hotel room as the parents, if you upgrade to a suite, and if many activities and attractions are on your schedule.

How do I get enough money to travel?

Taking on extra shifts at work, selling things you no longer use, earning extra income through a side hustle, and cutting your existing non-essential expenses are all popular ways to save money for travel. However, you’ll need to find a tactic that works for your financial situation and lifestyle.

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If you like to travel and appreciate the finer things in life, you might dream of a posh vacation. Maybe your fantasy is staying at a sprawling resort by the sea or an urban boutique hotel with a spectacular rooftop bar. Or perhaps you dream of immersive experiences, liking a private cooking class with a local chef or a wine-tasting tour through Napa Valley.

But then reality kicks in. You look at your actual budget and realize you probably can’t make that fantasy a reality.

Or could you? It just so happens there are a few ways to snag luxury travel for less. Learn more here, including:

•   Which destinations can help you afford luxury travel

•   Tips for traveling posh for less

Average Cost of an Affordable Luxury Vacation

It’s hard to give just one number here, since costs will vary depending on the number of travelers, your destination, and how long you plan to stay. But expect to pay a few thousand dollars.

Recent surveys indicate that the cost strictly for travel (airline tickets, parking, car rental) for a family of four on a four-day domestic trip can easily nudge close to $2,000. And that’s not including lodging or food, let alone expenses for attractions and entertainment, which can easily add another $1,000 to that sum.

So make sure to decide where to keep a travel fund and nurture it, and then work to keep your vacation’s price tag from busting your budget.

Destinations Where You Get More for Less

According to crowd-sourced travel expense site Budget Your Trip, here are a few places where you can get more bang for your buck. The average prices listed below are for two people for a week on a high-end trip. Your cost may vary, but this should give you an idea of destinations where you can travel luxuriously for less than you might think.

•   Thailand $4,675

•   Mexico $4,091

•   Portugal $3,807

•   Slovakia $3,311

•   Costa Rica $3,098

•   Vietnam $2,077

•   Morocco $1,475

Obviously, if you are traveling domestically, you’ll save money by avoiding air travel. If you can drive to a nearby city or resort, you can reallocate dollars to lodging or entertainment.

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7 Tips for Traveling Posh

If you want to travel in luxury on a budget, here are a few tips to keep in mind.

1. Visit Off-Season

It’s generally true that if you want to visit a popular destination at the same time that everyone else wants to go there, you’re likely to pay more. If your summer travel takes you to a popular beach destination, you’ll pay more than if you visit it in the off season. A week of shopping and cafe hopping in Paris may be pricey in July, but what if you went in March or November? You might be able to afford a junior suite at the hotel you’ve been eyeing vs. a standard room. The more flexible that you can be with your travel dates or destination, the more likely you’re able to travel in luxury at a reduced cost.

One way that families afford to travel is by traveling during the off season or shoulder season, which is the bridge between high season, when everyone wants to go, and the low season, where demand is much diminished.

Book a (Semi-) Private Plane

Some ultra-glamorous experiences have a surprisingly manageable price. An example: With the rising cost of airfare, you may be able to fly a semi-private jet for not much more than flying commercial. While booking a private plane will likely cost more than flying with a traditional airline (especially if you usually travel basic economy), the added cost may be worth the trade off for the extra luxury and convenience. Plus, you get bragging rights to drop the phrase “private jet” into your conversation.

With a semi-private flight, 15 to 30 passengers fly on a predetermined route and schedule. Carriers include Aero, Blade, Surf Air, and Set Jet. Typical flights go from California to Mexican getaway destinations, or New York to vacation islands off the Eastern seaboard.

Prices can be similar to first-class flights: $200 and up for a short hop; into four figures for ones that are longer flights. Bonuses include avoiding the draining experience of going through long security lines at major airports, as these carriers often use smaller private terminals.

You may also be able to use credit card rewards to help defray some of the costs.

Book New Hotels

If you’re wondering how to save money on hotels and travel in luxury for less, look into booking a brand new hotel. Sometimes new hotels will offer discounts when they first open. They might not have all the kinks worked out yet, plus they need to start building a clientele.

Just make sure that you stay flexible with your plans, since hotels don’t always open on time — consider booking your stay with a travel credit card that offers trip insurance if your hotel is still under construction.

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Skip the Hotel

Another luxury travel tip is to consider alternative forms of lodging. Rather than stay in a chain hotel, you might be able to find an alternate vacation rental that gives you a more elegant and authentic experience at a similar price point.

For instance, instead of booking into a small and expensive Los Angeles hotel room, you might stay in an Airbnb or VRBO apartment in a cool neighborhood. Having, say, a whole one-bedroom to yourself can make for a stay that’s more posh and memorable.

If you are traveling with pets, you may be able to find a place that is more pet-friendly and allows you to skip hotel pet fees.

Use a Travel Agent

If you prefer elegant travel, consider using a travel agent that specializes in luxury travel. Many travel agents have access to special deals or know of ways to travel in luxury on a budget. It’s possible to come out ahead even after paying the agent their commission.

Redeem Your Rewards

Another way to travel in luxury for less is to consider using your credit card miles or credit card cash back to travel. As one example, many airlines allow you to redeem miles for business class flights, often at very reasonable rates. Or if you don’t have enough miles for a free ticket, you could buy an economy class ticket and use your rewards to bump up to business class.

Either way, when you arrive at your destination relaxed and rested after using your miles to fly business class at a fraction of the cash cost, you’ll definitely feel like you’ve traveled in style.

You may also get other bonuses. Some hotel rewards programs will offer a free night when you book three, free breakfast, and other perks for being a member. Working those freebies and discounts can really pay off.

Also, you may have points from renting a car from the same agency every time. That can give you an affordable set of wheels for the weekend so you and your bff can stay at a posh spa together.

Plan a High-Low Trip

Another way to travel posh is to prioritize what’s important to you and allocate more of your travel budget there. For instance, if you want to go to London for the theater and high tea, you can fly economy and stay in a basic hotel so you can enjoy those luxurious experiences.

Or if it’s your dream to spend a week somewhere near Cancun or Tulum and snorkel every day, make that snorkel time your top priority, budget for it, and then find a small, relaxed hotel versus one of the mega-resorts to save on your lodging bill.

The Takeaway

A luxury trip doesn’t always have to break the bank. Instead, set a budget and decide beforehand what types of lodging, experiences, and activities are most important to you. If you have the money set aside for it, don’t be afraid to splurge on something that is meaningful to you. Often those types of experiences can make memories that stay with you forever. Remember, not every aspect of a trip needs to be five-star in order for you to savor a posh getaway.

SoFi Travel has teamed up with Expedia to bring even more to your one-stop finance app, helping you book reservations — for flights, hotels, car rentals, and more — all in one place. SoFi Members also have exclusive access to premium savings, with 10% or more off on select hotels. Plus, earn unlimited 3%** cash back rewards when you book with your SoFi Unlimited 2% Credit Card through SoFi Travel.

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**Terms, and conditions apply: This SoFi member benefit is provided by Expedia, not by SoFi or its affiliates. SoFi may be compensated by the benefit provider. Offers are subject to change and may have restrictions, please review the benefit provider's terms: Travel Services Terms & Conditions.
The SoFi Travel Portal is operated by Expedia. To learn more about Expedia, click https://www.expediagroup.com/home/default.aspx.

When you use your SoFi Credit Card to make a purchase on the SoFi Travel Portal, you will earn a number of SoFi Member Rewards points equal to 3% of the total amount you spend on the SoFi Travel Portal. Members can save up to 10% or more on eligible bookings.

In a competitive market, buyers have been known to waive contingencies, increase earnest money, insert escalation clauses, and pen love letters. Yes, that’s right: personal letters to sellers in an attempt to stand out from the crowd.

The National Association of Realtors® (NAR) isn’t feeling the love for “love letters” because they often contain personal information about the buyer, like their race and culture, that could make sellers and their agents vulnerable to accusations of discrimination.

Oregon was poised to ban homebuyer offer letters until a federal judge permanently blocked the law in March 2022. That month a Rhode Island representative introduced a bill to outlaw the practice in her state, calling it “kind of a very quiet way of redlining, potentially,” before the bill was held for further study.

So the practice goes on, legally, as of now, despite the letters’ tepid sway. A Zillow survey of partner agents showed that love letters were the least successful strategy for winning the deal (all-cash offers made sellers’ hearts beat fastest).

If you’re inclined to write a homebuyer love letter, here are tips.

1. Make a Strong Opening

Remember handwriting? Do your best and write your letter on a nice piece of stationery. You’re trying to humanize yourself in the eyes of the seller, and a handwritten note can go a long way toward doing so.

Address the seller by name if possible, searching for it online, or asking your real estate agent. As you write the letter, convey a friendly tone and a sincere message.

2. Tell the Owner About Yourself

You might choose to tell the sellers something memorable about your family, that you plan to raise kids in the house, or that the yard is perfect for your dogs.

You could also talk about where you’re moving from and why. Maybe you’ve taken a new job, you’re looking for a sense of community, and you fell in love with this neighborhood.

If you mention your family, just realize that familial status is protected against discrimination under federal housing rules. (In this case, sellers or their agents are not to act with bias against, or in favor of, families with children. The point of the Fair Housing Act is to create a level playing field for all people renting or buying a home, getting a mortgage, or seeking housing assistance.)

3. Think Twice About Sending Photos

Photos are part of what makes NAR uneasy, because race, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, disability, religion, and familial status are protected against housing discrimination under the Fair Housing Act.

Yet many real estate agents allow buyer clients to include photos with their offer letters.

The NAR director of legal affairs advises Realtors to “avoid helping buyer clients to draft or deliver love letters. … Counsel them to focus on the characteristics of the home or other objective information.”

Still, buyer love letters are actually encouraged by some agencies — along with photos and even videos.

4. Share What You Like Best About the Home

Why you want to buy the home is the central theme of your letter. So you may want to tell the sellers somewhere near the top what you like best about their house.

Mention details. For example, maybe you like the large front porch and can picture gathering there with friends and family on summer nights. Or maybe you’ve become enamored of the kitchen, where you’ll perfect your bread-making skills. If, by chance, the property has an ADU, you could describe your plans for it.

You could throw in a bit of flattery, letting the sellers know how much you appreciate how they’ve maintained the home.

5. Find a Connection

One way to develop a relationship with someone is to find common traits or interests. If you notice that you and the sellers share an interest, it can’t hurt to let them know.

Perhaps you’re a gardener, and it’s clear they’ve got the plant bug. Maybe you have a passion for pottery, and the seller has a small ceramics studio. Or maybe you noticed a jersey from your favorite basketball team.

As you hunt for a connection, be careful not to cross any personal boundaries that might make the seller uncomfortable.

6. Explain Your Offer

Once you’ve given a sense of yourself and why you want to live in this house, you can get down to explaining your offer. Be honest and respectful as you give context.

If you’re living in a time of bidding wars and your offer isn’t the highest, there’s no need to dance around it. You could explain that the house is your dream home, but it’s at the top of your price range and that you respectfully ask the seller to consider your offer.

If the sellers are selling and buying at the same time, you could mention your willingness to do a rent-back agreement that would allow them to lease their former house from you for a set period of time.

7. Let Them Know You Are Serious

Selling a home is a lot of work. The last thing sellers want on their hands is a buyer who slows down the process and might not even make it through closing.

Make sure your letter reiterates that you are pre-approved for a mortgage and are flexible about closing dates.

8. Mind the Length

If there’s a lot of interest in a property, sellers might receive many love letters. They may not have the time, or interest, to read long-winded missives, so keep yours short and sweet, perhaps one page.

9. Thank the Owners

The close of your letter should be as strong as the opening. This is your last chance to make an impression, weave in some personal notes, and make any final flattering remarks.

Thank the sellers for considering your offer, and let them know you are looking forward to hearing from them soon.

10. Avoid Negativity

Some things are better left unsaid, like changes you’d like to make. The sellers may have spent a long while making their home perfect in their eyes. So even if you want to open up the floor plan and pull up the carpet, it’s a good idea to keep those thoughts to yourself for now.

You don’t want to make market prices, or this particular one, sound unfair. And it’s smart to avoid pressuring the sellers in any way, as with talk about time constraints.

Finally, don’t contradict anything that might go into a purchase agreement.

The Takeaway

In a seller’s market, a so-called love letter gives buyers a chance to distinguish themselves. Though not all real estate agents are keen on clients sending personal letters, the practice continues.

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It may not be a fun thing to think about or talk about, but it’s important to get your estate planning organized. Unfortunately, death doesn’t just happen to other people. We should all get our affairs in order so that our loved ones can focus on grieving and moving on once we pass.

Of course, a “getting your affairs in order before death checklist” may not rank as the ultimate way to kick off a relaxing weekend, but you will rest easy once it’s all said and done. Luckily, it’s not nearly as painful as you might think. It can be less painful than doing your taxes every year. Here, we break it down for you into 12 steps.

12 Estate Planning Must-Haves

Estate planning isn’t just something for retirees or people with multiple homes. All of us need to take this step and determine how and by whom decisions will be made if we are incapacitated or near the end of our life. We also need to funnel our assets to the appropriate people when our time on earth is over.

It can sound grim, we grant you that, but it’s actually a gift to your loved ones to get all of this taken care of. So let us take you through the dozen items to wrangle so you know your affairs are in order.

1. Last Will and Testament

This is super-important because it outlines how your estate (your assets) will be divided. A will is a legal document that serves a couple of important functions. Wills are mainly used to specify how you want to distribute your assets. Assets can include things like personal property, real estate, cars, bank accounts, art, jewelry, or stocks. Despite what some people think, you can give your assets to anyone. You aren’t limited to immediate family. You can even donate your assets to charities or nonprofits if you wish.

A will also ensure that the people you care about are taken care of after you have passed away. If you have any children, a will can name whom you intend to become their guardians if you die. It can also do the same for pets.

You can create a will online using digital tools (you will need it signed and witnessed, though) or work with an attorney, often for under $1,000, to create one.

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2. Proof of Identity

When the time comes for a will to be put into effect, an executor of the estate plays a crucial role. This individual, who you can name in your will, carries out your will’s instructions. To help this person do their job, make sure you have all of your IDs in one place. Documents you will want to have may include:

•   Birth certificate

•   Social security card

•   Armed forces discharge papers

•   Marriage certificate

•   Prenuptial agreement

•   Divorce certificate

This will make following your directives that much easier.

3. Digital Logins and Passwords

In recent years, our digital lives have become inextricably woven into our “real life.” It’s not uncommon for people to have dozens of digital accounts, containing vital information about our assets. Should you fall ill or suddenly die, your loved ones will likely need to access some of them. For example, you may have financial account information there, and email may be how you interact with some of your closest friends and colleagues. Fortunately, there are many ways to properly document and keep track of your online accounts. Whether you use a digital vault, an integrated password manager, or simply pen and paper, you should establish a system for your loved ones. You can pass this information along to your financial power of attorney to deal with, or you can name a digital executor to close your accounts and distribute your assets.

4. Property Deeds and Titles

Any titles you have for cars, homes, or real estate need to be gathered and put in a safe place. Details on that “safe place” need to be shared with one or two key people in your life, like your next of kin and/or your will’s executor. However, just gathering these items doesn’t mean you can necessarily spare your loved ones the process known as probate. Probate is a potentially complicated and expensive process in which a deceased person’s property is reviewed and allocated. Having a will is of course an important step, but with real estate, for example, things can get complicated even with that document in place. To skip the probate process, you can create a revocable living trust (which is discussed below), and then transfer ownership of your properties to it and list the trust as the current owner.

It’s important to remember that any names on titles or deeds will overrule anything you write in a will. For example, if you bought a car with your ex-wife a few years before you got a divorce and her name is still on the title, it won’t matter whose name you write in your will. She will inherit the car because it is her name that is on the title.

5. Revocable Living Trust

Above, we mentioned the potentially drawn-out and expensive process of probate and why you would want to take steps now to help your loved one’s avoid it later. Let’s drill down on one way to do just that. A revocable living trust is a type of legal instrument that allows you to use and control your property while you’re alive, but also change who inherits it at will. If you have one legally established, it allows all of the assets you entrust to it to skip probate, meaning your beneficiaries can receive your assets much more quickly.

After you’ve created a revocable living trust, you must also name a ‘successor trustee’ to manage your trust. This person will be responsible for distributing your assets to the proper beneficiaries.

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6. Debts

It would be nice if all debts vanished when our lives ended, but, sorry, that’s not how things work. Your beneficiaries are going to need to know about and potentially address your debts (these are often paid out from your estate before the remaining assets are distributed). To smooth the process, compile a list of all your debts. This may include things like:

•   Auto loans

•   Credit cards

•   Mortgages

•   Personal loans

•   Student loans

On your list include contact information for the lender, your account number, login information, and approximate debt amount. For credit cards, include a list of frequently used credit cards and ones you simply have but rarely use. If you have a lot of open cards in your name, and aren’t quite sure how many you have, you may want to get a free credit report from Annual Credit Report .

7. Non-probate Assets and Beneficiaries

If you have assets that are able to skip probate, meaning they can be transferred directly to the named beneficiaries after you die, then you should keep up to date on naming beneficiaries (say, if a death or divorce has occurred) and keep a list of these assets with account details. Which details exactly? Details like where any paperwork or policies are, account numbers, and contact information for the issuing entity are a good place to start.

Non-probate assets include such things as:

•   Insurance policies

•   401(k) accounts and IRAs

•   Pensions

Non-probate assets should not be listed in your will because any designations you make with each institution will override anything you write anyway.

8. Financials

While you are gathering all of your estate materials, make sure to keep a neat list of all your login and password information for the following:

•   Bank accounts

•   Car insurance

•   Credit cards

•   Health insurance

•   Home insurance

•   Life insurance

•   Loans

•   Pension plans

•   Retirement benefits

•   Tax returns

If everything is online, you may want to make sure every account is listed along with your other digital accounts in your password manager or digital vault.

9. Advance Healthcare Directive

An advance healthcare directive (also known as an AHCD) allows you to decide, in advance, how medical decisions should be made on your behalf if you are unable to communicate your wishes. AHCDs typically have two parts: designating a medical power of attorney (you may also hear this called a healthcare proxy; we share more on this below) and a living will.

A living will describes and outlines your medical care wishes just in case you are ever unable to communicate them to your healthcare providers or loved ones. It can describe any aspect of healthcare preferences, and can include things like:

•   End-of-life requests

•   Medications

•   Resuscitation requests

•   Surgeries and surgical procedures

10. Power of Attorney

This is an important part of putting together your estate-planning checklist. The goal here is typically to make sure that, if you were incapacitated (say, due to dementia or a medical emergency), someone could act on your behalf. When you give someone power of attorney, that person then has legal authority to manage all of your affairs. There are two types of power of attorney: financial and medical.

A financial power of attorney is responsible for:

•   Accessing your bank accounts to pay for healthcare, bills, groceries, and any other housing needs you have

•   Collecting upon any debts you have

•   Filing taxes on your behalf

•   Applying for benefits, such as Medicaid

•   Making investment decisions on your behalf

•   Managing any properties you own

A medical power of attorney (also sometimes referred to as a healthcare proxy) is responsible for:

•   Choosing which doctors or care providers you see

•   Deciding what type of medical care you receive

•   Will advocate if there are disagreements about your care

It’s not uncommon for one person to be designated as both a financial and medical power of attorney, but they don’t have to be the same person. It often provides tremendous peace of mind to know you have designated who will look after your best interests in the situations outlined above.

11. Funeral Wishes

Okay, take a deep breath for this one. It may sound morbid at first, but wouldn’t you want your earthly remains and any celebration of your life to reflect your wishes? So it can make sense to spell out what you want to happen to your body (say, burial, cremation, organ donation).

You can also detail funeral wishes. This typically includes things like what type of music you want to be played or passages to be read, and you can even specify that you want charitable donations instead of flowers.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you communicate your wishes. Unlike other things on this list, there isn’t a formal, legal document you need to sign, but you can usually include your wishes somewhere in your will.

12. Speak with an Estate Planner

Now that you’ve read almost all of this estate planning checklist, you should still consider getting some skilled guidance. Even if you’re completely comfortable writing up legal documents, it’s a good idea to visit an estate planner to make sure you’ve covered all of your bases. He or she may have recommendations for you that can save everyone money and better protect your beneficiaries.

Recommended: Estate Planning 101: The Basics of Estate Planning

The Takeaway

While it can be a difficult topic to think about, estate planning takes time and patience. If you have children, dependents, or a spouse, clear up a weekend and do it as soon as possible. Life happens fast even in the best of circumstances

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If you’re thinking, ‘Do I need a will?’ chances are, the answer is yes. Thinking about a will can feel morbid and unnecessary, especially when you’re young, healthy, and still growing your wealth. And it’s true that not everyone needs a will, especially if you’re single and growing your worth. What’s more, because the term “will” can be used to encompass end-of-life directives, it can confusing to know exactly what people mean if they say, “You should have a will.”

So, we’re here to clarify the topic. Read on to learn exactly which documents are needed if the worst were to happen and you were unable to make your end-of-life wishes known.

What Does a Will Really Do?

Simply speaking, a will dictates what will happen to your assets when you die. It can also be used to provide direction for who will care for any children and pets you have. Without a will, your property will be passed on according to state law, which means that your belongings may go to your spouse or nearest surviving relative, like a parent or sibling.

In some cases, this can be fine. But for people with children or people who own a home, this may not be ideal. Not only that, but dying without a will may put a burden on surviving relatives, leading to a costly and complex process.

In short, a will can communicate your wishes. For instance, it can:

•   Dictate who the executor (the person who administrates the will) is

•   Make a plan for how property will be distributed

•   Make a plan for how children or pets will be cared for

•   Make a plan for how debts and taxes will be paid

Creating a will does not need to be a long and complicated process. But it does need to be legal. While handwritten wills are acceptable in some states, they may be subject to additional scrutiny and may still need a signed witness to be valid.

Recommended: How To Make a Will: 7 Steps

What Does a Will Not Cover?

Let’s review some terms to see what different documents do:

•   A simple will determines what happens to your assets after you die.

•   A living will and other advance directives dictate what may happen if you were incapacitated and unable to make medical decisions. Both can be drawn up at the same time. These are legal documents that spell out medical treatments you would and would not want to be used to keep you alive. It typically communicates your preferences about other decisions, such as pain management or organ donation. In addition, if you have very specific wishes about whom you want to make financial and healthcare decisions if you were to be incapacitated, a living will can document those. This can be helpful if, for example, you’re not married but would want your partner (and not your parents) making these decisions if you were unable to make them yourself.

The guidelines and requirements for creating these documents can vary state by state. Attorneys, as well as online planning templates, can provide the documents to cover all potential end-of-life what-ifs, including creating a living will and advance directive, as well as a standard will to cover all bases.

Recommended: What Happens If You Die Without A Will?

When Do You Need a Will?

In a nutshell, you need a will if you have a spouse, children, or considerable assets. A will can take the guesswork out of matters if you were to die and can avoid legal complications.

Even if your life is relatively “simple” to unpack, a will can ensure there are no uncertainties and that your survivors are crystal clear about your wishes. Some times to consider a will:

•   When you want to leave things to family and friends. These may not be valuables but could be meaningful, sentimental items

•   When you own property

•   When you have a spouse and/or children

•   When you want to provide to a charity

•   When you have a positive net worth

•   When you have a complicated financial picture

In short, a will can help answer any questions your survivors may have, simplifying a process that may be emotion-filled. It can also help provide peace of mind that if you were to die, your loved ones will have a road map.

Are You Married? You Need a Will

You may think a will isn’t necessary if you’re married. After all, your assets will simply go to your spouse, right? It’s not that simple. State laws do differ. Typically, but not always, spouses, domestic partners and blood relatives are first in line when it comes to receiving inheritance. Having a will ensures that you direct where you want your estate to go, protecting the interests of those closest to you.

Another issue comes up when you pass away without a will, which is known as being intestate: the state gets involved in a potentially lengthy process called probate. A court-appointed administrator will identify legal heirs and determine how your estate is divided and bills are paid, according to the laws of your state. This can make for a complicated situation in which your spouse must wait for an inheritance, potentially causing financial hardship.

There’s another reason why a will is valuable if you’re married. It’s likely you and your spouse will create what’s known as a mutual will (these should be created with a lawyer’s help). After one partner dies, the remaining party is bound by the terms of the mutual will. This kind of document can, for example, be used to ensure that property gets passed to the deceased’s children rather than to a new spouse. In this way, a will can smoothe family dynamics in the future and ensure that your wishes are followed.

Recommended: Joint Will: What Is a Mutual Will?

Do You Have Kids? You Need a Will

One motivating factor for creating a will is when a couple has children. A will not only allows you to choose a guardian for your children, but it also allows you to name a guardian for your children’s finances — and they don’t necessarily need to be the same person.

It’s important to create a will even if the assumption is that the child’s other parent will look after the children. Not only can a will provide a template for a what-if situation if both parents were to pass away, but it can also ensure that your children will receive the share of your estate that you desire when they’re older.

Having a will can minimize disruption in case the worst were to happen and one or both parents were to pass away. If there is no will, the court will decide, and while the court will keep the best interests of the children in mind, the parents are the ones who know the kids best and may have the best solution.

In short, a will allows you to make sure:

•   Children are cared for by the people you wish

•   Children’s finances are cared for by the people you wish

•   Adult children will receive the inheritance you desire them to have

•   Any unique circumstances regarding child care is taken into account

Do You Have a Positive Net Worth? You Need a Will

Even if you’re single, a will may make sense if you have a positive net worth (aka, more assets than debt), which may include owning a house. Depending on your net worth, you may consider creating a trust. This can help your family avoid the probate process.

You can also be very specific about how you want your assets allocated in the future. For example, you may want to provide gifts to charity upon your death.

You also want to check your beneficiaries for any accounts, including retirement accounts and life insurance policies. The named beneficiary takes precedence over who’s named in a will, so it can be a good idea to double check that the named beneficiary is the person you want to receive those assets.

Are You Young, Single, Asset-free, or Without Kids? You Don’t Need a Will (Yet)

While you may not need a will if you don’t have any dependents, property, or assets, it’s still worth thinking through what you do own. For example, if you have a life insurance policy or retirement account, make sure the beneficiary you name matches who you would want to have those funds as time passes.

But a will can ensure there is no confusion over your wishes, especially if you have pets to be cared for or mementos you know would be meaningful to the people in your life.

How to Set Up a Will

A 2021 survey of over 2,500 people from Caring.com, a caregiver website, found that the past year made more people realize the importance of having estate planning documents. However, 2 out of 3 people don’t yet have a will. One big justification: Not enough time to create a will.

However, creating a will does not need to be complex. Online templates can walk you through the process. An online template may be free or may cost $100 and up, depending on the complexity. More expensive templates may be state-specific and detailed.

One critical aspect: Make sure the will is legal in your state. This may mean the will needs to be notarized and signed in front of witnesses. Once you have a will completed, it can be a good idea to make several copies and let the person you’ve named executor know where they can find the will in case you were to die.

If you have multiple, complex assets (such as several jointly-owned properties or properties jointly-owned with different people) you may need an attorney. This may cost $1,000 and up but can give you the peace of mind that everything is covered.

The Takeaway

While creating a will may not exactly be a fun activity, it doesn’t need to be very time-consuming or expensive. It’s an important process that can deliver some valuable peace of mind for the future. It lets you know your “house is in order,” and that your wishes are clearly captured. With a will in place, your worldly goods go where you want them to go, and you ensure that loved ones are taken care of in the way you see fit. When you get these documents done, you’ll also save those nearest and dearest to you from having to deal with legal red tape during an emotionally challenging time. Yes, death and wills are a topic many of us would like to avoid. But being pragmatic and taking care of this important legal concern is the right, responsible step to take.

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SoFi member benefits are provided by third parties, not by SoFi or its affiliates. Providers pay royalty fees to SoFi for the user of its intellectual property. These fees are used for the general purposes of SoFi. Some provider offers are subject to change and may have restrictions. Please contact the provider directly for details.
^*Trust & Will, a leading digital estate planning platform, is offering a 10% discount specifically for SoFi members. No promo code required. The 10% discount is automatically applied at checkout to the initial purchase of any Guardian, Will, or Trust-based estate plan.
Trust & Will 961 West Laurel Street San Diego, CA 92101 United States
Financial Tips & Strategies: The tips provided on this website are of a general nature and do not take into account your specific objectives, financial situation, and needs. You should always consider their appropriateness given your own circumstances.

External Websites: The information and analysis provided through hyperlinks to third-party websites, while believed to be accurate, cannot be guaranteed by SoFi. Links are provided for informational purposes and should not be viewed as an endorsement.
Tax Information: This article provides general background information only and is not intended to serve as legal or tax advice or as a substitute for legal counsel. You should consult your own attorney and/or tax advisor if you have a question requiring legal or tax advice.

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