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Adult Children Living at Home: How to Set Rules and Expectations

Today, it’s not uncommon for adult children to return home or never leave the nest to start with. About one in three 18- to 34-year-olds live with their parents according to recent survey data.

Moving back home can be a wise move for grown kids who may be dealing with job uncertainty, earning a low income, and/or be facing a mountain of student loan debt.

And it can wind up being a good deal for parents as well.

Some of the benefits: opportunities for companionship, the possibility of sharing household expenses, and the ability for adult children to pay down student debt and save money for longer-term financial goals (for instance, buying a house).

But living in the same household again can also bring opportunities for tension and misunderstandings.

That’s why parents who welcome their kids back may want to set a few guidelines. Here are some rules both parents and grown children might want to wrangle before moving back in under one roof.

What Is the Timeframe?

When adult children move back home, it’s helpful for both parties to have a timeframe in place, rather than the ’’foreseeable future.”

This may mean talking about why the move is happening. Is it to save money? If so, what is the money being saved for, and at what point should the child move out?

Some parents might find it helpful to set up a trial period, after which they can have a frank conversation about what is and is not working in the arrangement.

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Going Over the Financials

Many misunderstandings from adult children living at home stem from confusion over how much money, if any, they are expected to contribute.

It can be helpful for both parties to consider their expectations before coming together and talking through them. Some issues you may want to think about and then discuss:

•   Will adult children be expected to pay rent? And if so, how much will rent cost? When will it be due? Some parents might want to set a flat rate, while others might consider a percentage of the child’s income, if that income is currently low but expected to rise.

•   Will the child be responsible for a portion of bills, groceries, or other household costs (recurring and/or discretionary expenses, as you decide)?

•   How will resources be allocated? Is the fridge open for anyone? Can the child use the family car if they need it?

•   How much will bills go up with additional usage? Parents might decide they want their child to pay for any overages, or they might be okay with handling the increase themselves.

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Going Over House Rules and Behavior Expectations

Some parents have a “my house, my rules” expectation. But it can sometimes be mutually beneficial if both parties talk about behavior expectations with an attitude of give and take.

Often “unspoken expectations” don’t come up until a problem occurs. Talking through them proactively can make sure that everyone is on the same page.

Some issues parents and adult kids may want to go over:

•   What are expectations for guests? Is it okay for romantic partners to sleep over? Do parents need a heads up before guests come by?

•   What are communication expectations? Should a child inform their parents if they won’t be home by a certain time?

•   What chores are expected? It’s wise to go over whether or not you expect that your child to do some of the supermarket shopping and/or clean any areas of the house beyond their living spaces. It’s perfectly acceptable to have your adult child pitch in on dinner duty, take on cleaning, or otherwise contribute to the house as an adult. Perhaps they pay for their own monthly supermarket costs.

•   What do daily schedules look like? Maybe one family member needs quiet for work meetings. Maybe another needs access to family exercise equipment or the shower in the morning? Talking through routines — from breakfast to bedtime — will set expectations and avoid misunderstandings.

•   What does privacy mean when you’re under the same roof?

Both parties may be concerned about how the new arrangement will affect their lives, and talking through those concerns can help people find solutions that work for everyone.

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Helping Adult Children Achieve Financial Independence

There’s nothing like living together to get financial habits out in the open. This applies to adult children and their parents.

By keeping an open dialogue about money, however, you can help your adult children get on the right financial track (and perhaps move out sooner, rather than later).

Here are some ways you may be able to help adult children work towards financial security.

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Talking through financial and savings goals

Instead of asking your adult child how much they have saved, or how much consumer credit card debt they have, consider asking them to talk through their short-term financial goals and long-term ones too.

Putting rent to work

Some parents who are in a position to do so may want to charge their children rent and then use that money to gift to their child for a down payment, help with tuition, or hit another financial goal.

Or, in lieu of rent, you might request that your child set up an automatic deposit into a savings account that could eventually become a security deposit on a rental or an emergency fund.

Teaching by Example

One way to encourage disclosure about your adult child’s financial picture is to talk through your own.

Talk broadly through your retirement plan, any long-term care plans, or how you hit your own financial goals (such as buying a house). This can help your child start good financial habits and build a positive money mindset.

After all, personal finance is not typically taught formally, and giving your adult child — no matter how old — some insight into the tools and strategies you use can give them ideas for how they can manage their money and cut back on expenses.

Trying Not to Nitpick

While it’s helpful to talk through your own strategies, it may not be helpful if your child feels like you’re critical of the way they are spending money.

Let’s say your adult child buys a latte every day. Sure, you can point out how much they would potentially save if they invested that money, but for the sake of the relationship, it may be easier to let certain habits go and focus on what your child is doing to work toward financial goals, such as investing in their company’s 401(k) plan or doing their taxes well in advance of tax day.

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The Takeaway

Living under one roof may not always be easy for adult children or parents, but it comes with an opportunity for growth for everyone, as well as a closer relationship as equals.

Part of forging that relationship may involve setting some parameters early on about what is expected from grown children while they are living at home, from how much they may be expected to contribute financially to how often they can use the car.

Letting kids move back home (where they can live more affordably), and having open discussions about money, can help them not only save, but also develop good financial habits.

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5 Smart Steps to Get Out of a Timeshare

Timeshares may be a fun vacation option for a while, but sometimes people want to end the arrangement. Those time share contracts, however, can seem pretty ironclad.

Whether you want out due to buyer’s remorse, a shift in your financial situation or health, or any other reason, here’s some good news: You’re not necessarily stuck.

If you change your mind soon after the purchase, for instance, you might be able to opt out during the “rescission period.”

Those who have had their timeshare for years can have alternatives, including having the resort take it back or perhaps re-selling it.

There are also what are known as “exit” companies that help timeshare owners get released from their agreements (though it’s important to vet those companies before signing an agreement).

If you’re ready to say goodbye to your vacation place, read on to learn steps for legally getting out of a timeshare contract.

5 Steps to Escaping a Timeshare

If you’re thinking about getting out of a timeshare or know you’re ready to make a change, here are five options to consider.

1. Checking the Rescission Period

If your second thoughts occur within several days of your purchase, you may be able to rescind the transaction if you’re still within the “rescission period.”

If you are, you should be able to get your money back and go on your merry way.

Keep in mind, however, that the rules vary from one state to the next.

Depending on the state where the timeshare is located, rescission periods can be anywhere from three days (the minimum required by the Federal Trade Commission) to two weeks.

In some cases, the rescission period may kick in as soon as you buy the timeshare. In others, it might start when you receive the public offering statement that includes general information about the timeshare.

For a timeshare on an exotic isle somewhere outside the U.S., you’ll need to find out what the laws are there.

If you’re eligible for rescission, you’ll want to follow the instructions in the documents you received when you purchased your timeshare.

Most likely you’ll need to send the resort a letter telling them you want out via rescission for a full refund.

It’s a good idea to send this letter using certified or registered mail.

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2. Contacting the Timeshare Resort

If rescission isn’t possible because too much time has passed, another option you may be able to take advantage of is a “deed back” program.

Also known as “take-back” and “surrender” programs, these programs allow distressed owners to give their timeshares back to the resort developer, often for a fee of a couple of hundred dollars or so.

To find out if your developer offers this type of program, you may want to contact them directly and ask to speak with someone who handles “deed-backs” or “surrenders.”

You can also check online resources like ResponsibleExit.com for information about return programs.

Generally, developers will only go for this if the timeshare is fully paid for, and you’re up to date on your maintenance fees.

Some developers that accept returns may require owners to pay annual fees for a year or two while the resort finds another buyer.

In some cases, you may have to prove financial or medical hardship in order to qualify for a take-back program.

Even if your resort doesn’t have an official take-back program, you have nothing to lose by asking. Who knows; they might go for it.

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3. Reselling The Timeshare Yourself

If you’re considering reselling your timeshare, it’s probably best if you don’t go into it with hopes of making a killing.

There are typically many people looking to unload their timeshares and demand isn’t generally high, unless your property is in a hot destination.

As a result, reselling can often be a losing proposition.

The best approach might be to think of reselling as someone taking the timeshare off your hands and becoming responsible for the fees moving forward, rather than making a profit.

You can list your timeshare on a general resale marketplace site, such as eBay and Craigslist. There are also sites just for timeshares, such as TUG (the website for the Timeshare Users Group) and RedWeek .

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4. Reselling the Timeshare Through a Broker

If you opt to resell your timeshare, another option is to hire a real estate broker or agent who specializes in reselling timeshares.

If you choose this route, however, you’ll want to pick your broker carefully, cautions the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) .

Some real estate brokers and agents who specialize in reselling timeshares may falsely claim the market in your area is hot and that they’re overwhelmed with buyer requests.

They may even tell you that they already have buyers ready to purchase your timeshare, or promise to sell your timeshare within a specific time.

It’s wise to be skeptical of all such claims, says the FTC, and also to vet the reseller before agreeing to anything on the phone or in writing.

A good safeguard is to contact the state Attorney General and local consumer protection agencies in the state where the reseller is located, and ask if any complaints are on file. You also can search online for complaints.

You may also want to ask the reselling agency if their agents are licensed to sell real estate where your timeshare is located. If they say they are, you may want to verify it with the state’s Real Estate Commission.

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Other questions you may want to ask before hiring a reselling agent:

•   How do you plan to advertise and promote the timeshare unit?

•   Will I get progress reports and, if so, how often?

•   What fees do you charge, and when do they have to be paid?

It’s generally preferable to do business with a reseller that takes its fee (or commission) only after the timeshare is sold.

If you must pay a fee in advance, however, it’s wise to ask about refunds, and to get all refund policies and promises in writing.

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5. Hiring a Timeshare Exit Company

The concept is good. With a timeshare exit company you often get a small army to handle your business.

A good one knows the inner workings of the timeshare industry, which could be advantageous to you.

One major caveat is that these services generally don’t come cheap–prices vary considerably, but can be as high as $4,500.

It’s also important to be aware that there are many bad apples out there. There have been numerous lawsuits against timeshare exit companies that backed out of their payment agreements with customers.

To help ensure that an exit company you’re thinking about hiring is reputable, you may want to check with the Better Business Bureau, and also search online, to see if there have been complaints about the company and (most importantly) how they have handled those complaints.

You can also protect yourself by refusing to make any payments before a contract has been signed by both parties.

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The Takeaway

Unloading a timeshare property isn’t always easy, but some of your exit options include: backing out during the “rescission period,” reselling it yourself, hiring a broker to resell it for you, and hiring a timeshare exit company to take care of the whole separation process.

It’s important to understand all of your options (and the potential pitfalls of each) in order to choose the best solution for your situation.

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What Is the Wash-Sale Rule?

A wash sale occurs when an investor sells a security at a loss, and buys a very similar security within a 30-day window of the sale (30 days before or after). The wash-sale rule is an Internal Revenue Service (IRS) regulation that states an investor can’t receive tax deduction benefits if they sell an investment for a loss, then purchase the same or a “substantially identical” asset within 30 days before or after the sale.

While investors may find themselves in a position in which it may be beneficial to sell securities to harvest losses, it’s important to know the wash-sale rule in and out to avoid triggering penalties.

Which Investments are Subject to the Wash-Sale Rule?

The wash-sale rule applies to most common investments, including:

•   Stocks

•   Bonds

•   Mutual funds

•   Options

•   Exchange-traded funds (ETFs)

•   Stock futures contracts

Transactions in an individual retirement account (IRA) can also fall under the wash-sale rule. The wash-sale rule does not apply to commodity futures or foreign currency trades. The rule also applies if an investor sells a security that has increased in value and within 30 days buys an identical security. They will need to pay capital gains taxes on the proceeds.

What Happens When You Trigger a Wash Sale?

Investors commonly choose to sell assets at a loss as part of their tax or day trading strategy, or they may regret selling an asset while the market was down, and decide to buy back in.

The intent of the wash-sale rule is to prevent investors from abusing the tax benefits of selling at a loss, and claiming artificial losses.

In the event that an investor does trigger a wash sale, they will not be allowed to write off the loss when they do their tax reporting to the IRS. This means the investor won’t receive any tax benefit for selling at a loss. The rule still applies if an investor sells an investment in a taxable account and buys it back in a tax-advantaged account, or if one spouse sells an asset and then the other spouse purchases it that also counts as a wash sale.

It’s important for investors to understand the wash-sale rule so that they account for it in their investment and tax strategy. If investors have specific questions, they might want to ask their tax advisor for help.

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Avoiding a Wash Sale

Unfortunately, the guidelines regarding what a “substantially identical” security is are not very specific. The easiest way to avoid wash sales is to create a long-term investing strategy involving few asset sales and not trying to time the market. Creating a diversified portfolio is generally a good strategy for investors.

Another important thing to keep in mind is the wash-sale rule applies across an investor’s accounts. As such, investors need to keep track of their sales and purchases across their entire portfolio to try and make sure that the wash-sale rule doesn’t affect any investment choices.

What to Do After Selling an Asset at a Loss

The safest option is to wait more than 30 days to purchase an asset after selling a similar one at a loss. An investor can also invest funds into a different asset–a different enough asset, that is–for 30 days or more and then move the funds back into the original security after the wash sale window has passed.

There are benefits to selling an asset at either a profit or a loss. If an investor sells at a profit, they make money. If they sell at a loss, they can declare it on their taxes to help offset their capital gains or income. If an investor has significant capital gains to report, they may decide to sell an asset that has decreased in value to help lower their tax bill. However, if they hoped to reinvest in an asset later, a wash sale can ruin those plans.

In some cases, simply selling a stock from one corporation and purchasing one from another, different corporation is fine. Even selling a stock and buying a bond from the same company may not trigger a wash sale.

Investing in ETFs or Mutual Funds Instead

If an investor wants to reinvest funds in a similar industry while avoiding a wash sale, one option would be to switch to an ETF or mutual fund. There are ETFs and mutual funds made up of investments in particular industries, but they are often diversified enough that they wouldn’t be considered to be too similar to an individual stock or bond. It’s possible that an investor could sell an individual stock and reinvest the money into a mutual fund or ETF within a similar market segment without violating the wash-sale rule.

However, if an investor wants to sell an ETF and buy another ETF, or switch to a mutual fund, this can be more challenging. It may be difficult to figure out which ETF or mutual fund swaps will count as wash sales, and which won’t.

Wash-Sale Penalties and Benefits

If the IRS decides that a transaction counts as a wash sale, the investor can’t use the loss to reduce their taxable income or offset capital gains on their taxes for that year.

However, there can be an upside to wash sales. Investors can end up with a higher cost basis for their new investment, because the loss from the sale is added to the cost basis of the new purchase. In addition, the holding period of the sold investment is added to the holding period of the new investment.

The benefit of having a higher cost basis is that an investor can choose to sell the new investment at a loss and have a greater loss for tax reporting than they would have. Conversely, if the investment increases in value and the investor sells, they will have a smaller capital gain to report. Having a longer holding period means an investor may be able to pay long-term capital gains taxes on a sale rather than short-term gains, which have a higher rate.

The Takeaway

The wash-sale rule is triggered when an investor sells a security at a loss, but then turns around and buys a similar security within 30 days–either before, or after. It’s a bit of an opaque rule, but there can be consequences for triggering wash sales. That’s why understanding regulations like the wash-sale rule is an important part of being an informed investor.

Part of making solid investing decisions is planning for taxes and understanding what the benefits and downsides may be for any particular transaction. This is just one aspect of tax-efficient investing that investors might want to consider.

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Is Homeowners Insurance Required to Buy a Home?

When you buy a home, you’re likely paying more than just the down payment and closing costs. You’ill probably also need to purchase homeowner’s insurance. While this coverage is not mandated by law, many mortgage lenders require it before they agree to finance the purchase of your home.

Here’s what first-time homebuyers need to know before shopping for homeowners insurance.

What Does Homeowners Insurance Cover?

Homeowners insurance coverage provides protection for both a home and its contents against damage, theft, and up to 16 named perils, including fire, hail, windstorms, smoke, vandalism, and theft. It also typically includes personal liability coverage for accidents that may happen on the property (think of people slipping and falling down your stairs, or your dog biting a neighbor on the property).

On the flip side, basic homeowners insurance likely won’t cover damage from disasters such as floods and earthquakes, and even war (seriously). Homebuyers who live in an area prone to certain events or natural disasters may want to consider supplemental coverage. In some cases, their lender may even require it.

It’s a good idea to learn what’s generally covered by each homeowners insurance policy type — and what isn’t — to ensure you have the right protection in place.

When You Need to Buy Homeowners Insurance

If buyers plan to get a mortgage to purchase their home, their lender will likely require they obtain homeowners insurance coverage before signing off at closing.

In reality, this is a sound business tactic, as the lender will want to protect its investment, which is the property, not the person it’s lending to (harsh, we know). Let’s say the home is damaged in a windstorm or burns to the ground. Insurance will cover the cost, after a deductible, without burdening the homeowner. The homeowner can then continue to pay their mortgage on time, much to the delight of the lender.

Again, if you live in an area prone to certain disasters like floods or earthquakes, your lender may require additional coverage. Check with your lender on what’s necessary before signing.

If a person’s first home happens to be a condo or co-op, the board may also require specific coverage, thanks to a shared responsibility for the entire complex.

Recommended: House or Condo: Which Is Right For You? Take the Quiz

Can You Forgo Homeowners Insurance?

Technically, there are no laws requiring a person to obtain homeowners insurance, but it’s a rule put in place by many lenders.

If you’re paying cash for a new home, you can forgo purchasing homeowners insurance, though that may be a risky proposition.

Think you can somehow snake the system? Think again. If a lender doesn’t feel that the homebuyer is working hard or fast enough to find homeowners insurance before closing, the lender may go ahead and purchase insurance in that person’s name with what’s called “lender-placed insurance.”

This isn’t as cool as it sounds. Not only will it increase the mortgage payment, lender-placed insurance is typically more expensive than traditional homeowners insurance. And it may not even provide all the protection a homeowner needs or wants.

To give yourself enough time to find the right policy for you, aim to start shopping around a good 30 days before closing.

How Much Coverage a Person Needs

How much homeowners insurance a new homeowner needs will depend on the value of their home and the possessions in it. As a first step, would-be homeowners can ask their agent for a recommended amount of coverage.

After determining that number, it’s also a good idea to take stock of belongings and see if any items may require additional coverage (think expensive antiques, paintings, or other irreplaceable items). It could also be smart to photograph and digitally catalog major items in a home for proof needed on any claims.

Replacement Cost vs. Actual Cash Value

When shopping for homeowners insurance, there’s replacement cost coverage and actual cash value coverage.

Replacement cost coverage pays the amount needed to replace items with the same or similar item, while actual cash value coverage only covers the current, depreciated value of a home or possessions.

This means that if you have actual cash value coverage and disaster hits, you’ll only be able to get enough cash for the depreciated value of the home and items, not the cost of what it may take to replace them.

Most standard homeowners insurance policies cover the replacement cost of a physical home and the actual cash value of the insured’s personal property, but some policies and endorsements also cover the replacement cost of personal property.

The upshot: It’s best to go for replacement cost coverage whenever possible.

Recommended: How Much Is Homeowners Insurance?

The Takeaway

Is homeowners insurance required to buy a home? If you’re taking out a mortgage, that’s almost always a “yes.” It’s worth looking at your options — and understanding what will and will not be covered — so you can feel at ease in your new home for years to come.

Of course, shopping for homeowners insurance often requires considering several options, from the amount of coverage to the kind of policy to the cost of the premium. To help simplify the process, SoFi has partnered with Experian to bring customizable and affordable homeowners insurance to our members.

Experian allows you to match your current coverage to new policy offers with little to no data entry. And you can easily bundle your home and auto insurance to save money. All with no fees and no paperwork.

Check out homeowners insurance options offered through SoFi Protect.



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What Does Liability Auto Insurance Typically Cover?

What Does Liability Auto Insurance Typically Cover?

Most states require licensed drivers to carry auto liability insurance — and for good reason. Liability coverage helps pay for the damages to other people involved in a car accident if it’s determined you were responsible.

State law may leave it up to the individual to decide if they want to carry the kind of insurance that will help pay to repair their own wrecked car or injured body. But in most cases, drivers won’t have an option when it comes to liability coverage.

Since your automobile could cause physical or material harm to others, you’ll generally be expected to carry enough insurance to cover those potential costs or, in some states, provide proof of financial responsibility.

What Is Liability Car Insurance?

If you’re found at fault — or “liable” — for an accident, liability insurance helps pay the other driver’s expenses.

There are several other types of car insurance coverage available to drivers, so it’s easy to get them confused. Collision coverage, for example, pays to repair damage to your own car after an accident. And comprehensive coverage helps pay for damage to your car that’s caused by other factors, such as hail, a fire, or theft.

Auto liability insurance is all about the other guy. It’s not there to cover your costs or the costs of anyone who was riding in your car when the accident occurred.

Recommended: How Much Auto Insurance Do I Really Need?

What Costs Does Liability Insurance Cover?

In general, there are two types of liability insurance offered on most standard policies:

Bodily Injury

This type of liability coverage protects the at-fault driver by paying for the other person’s emergency and continuing medical expenses related to the accident. It also might cover loss of income or funeral costs, or legal fees if there’s a lawsuit.

Property Damage

Property damage liability coverage helps pay for repairs to the other person’s car or other property (their home, a business, a fence, a bicycle, etc.) when the policyholder causes an accident.

Are There Limits on What an Insurer Will Pay?

Yes. The amount an insurer will pay for a claim depends on the coverage limits a policyholder chooses. Note that the amount of coverage you’re required to carry varies from state to state, and you might choose to purchase a higher level of coverage than your state mandates.

Coverage caps are usually broken down into three categories:

Bodily Injury Liability Limit Per Person

This is the maximum amount an insurer will pay out for each individual who is injured in a car accident (other than the at-fault driver who is the policyholder).

Bodily Injury Liability Limit Per Accident

This is the maximum amount an insurer will pay overall for medical expenses if multiple people are hurt in an accident. Again, it does not include medical costs for the at-fault policyholder.

Property Damage Liability Limit

This is the maximum amount an insurer will pay to repair any damage a policyholder caused to another person’s property. Any amount over that limit will likely be the responsibility of the policyholder.

How Much Liability Insurance Should a Driver Have?

You cannot buy less than the minimum amount of liability insurance your state legally requires. But some states require significantly less coverage than others.

For example, the minimum liability insurance requirements in California are $15,000 for injury/death to one person, $30,000 for injury/death to more than one person, and $5,000 for damage to property.

But the minimum requirements in Maine are more than twice those amounts: $50,000 per person for bodily injury, $100,000 per accident for bodily injury, and $25,000 for property damage. (A combined single limit of $125,000 will also satisfy the minimum limit requirement in Maine.)

General recommendations from the insurance industry suggest consumers purchase at least $100,000 of bodily injury liability per person and $300,000 per accident.

Keep in mind that when you’re shopping, you may not be able to choose standalone limits for each category of liability coverage. Most insurers set their coverage limits as part of a package, and you may have to make your purchase from those pre-established plans.

For example, a 25/50/10 policy would set the bodily injury limit per person at $25,000, the bodily injury limit per accident at $50,000, and the property damage limit at $10,000. Any costs that exceed those set amounts would be the responsibility of the policyholder.

Some people also consider purchasing an “umbrella” policy that would cover any excess costs if liability limits are exhausted. This type of policy can help protect you from large liability claims or judgments if you’re sued. And your umbrella policy may cover you as well as other members of your family or household.

According to the Insurance Information Institute, the average cost of a claim after a private passenger car accident in 2020 was $20,235 for bodily injury and $4,711 in property damage. But a claim could go much higher, if there are multiple victims, for example, or if there are serious injuries or someone is killed.

Recommended: What Is the Average Monthly Cost of Car Insurance by Age in the U.S.?

What’s the Difference Between Full Coverage and Liability Only?

An auto insurance policy that includes liability, collision, and comprehensive coverage is sometimes called “full coverage,” because it covers both your costs and the costs of others involved in an accident.

Most states require liability coverage. But if your car is paid off, your state may not require collision (which helps to repair or replace a car that’s damaged in an accident) or comprehensive (which pays if the car is stolen or damaged by fire, vandalism or some other non-collision scenario).

And if your car isn’t worth much, you might decide to forgo one or both when purchasing car insurance. If your car is financed, however, the lender could require full coverage even if the state doesn’t.

Some states also may require other types of coverage:

•   Uninsured motorist and underinsured motorist coverage can help cover your medical expenses if you’re in an accident with a driver who has little or no insurance.
•   Uninsured motorist property damage coverage can help repair damage to your car if you are hit by an uninsured motorist.
•   Personal Injury Protection (PIP) and/or Medical Payments (MedPay) can offer protection if you or your passengers are hurt or killed in an accident.

Do You Need Liability Coverage If You Live in a No-Fault State?

A dozen states have instituted “no-fault” laws for drivers. Coverage rules and limits may vary from state to state, so you should be clear on the specifics of what your state requires.

Generally, when you live in a no-fault state and you’re in a car accident, everyone involved files a bodily injury claim with their own insurance company, regardless of who was at fault. Still, every no-fault state requires some level of liability coverage.

Drivers in no-fault states also typically must have Personal Injury Protection (PIP) insurance included in their car insurance policy to cover their own potential medical bills and expenses. PIP plans cover medical expenses for the car’s driver and passengers, which can include hospital bills, medication, rehabilitation, and other injury-related costs.

PIP insurance doesn’t replace bodily liability coverage in every state, and it doesn’t cover property damages. Your insurance company pays for repairs to your car if you have collision coverage. Or you may have to make a property damage claim against the at-fault driver’s insurance.

What If You Have an Accident in Another State?

Ready for a road trip? If you have an accident, your liability insurance may increase to match the minimum limits in whatever state you’re in, and in Canada. But you may want to check with your insurance company if you like to travel, especially if you have a bare-bones policy.

What’s Covered If Someone Else Is Driving Your Car?

The short answer is that the auto insurance covering the vehicle, not the person driving, is usually considered the primary insurance. So if you let someone else drive your car and that person causes an accident, your insurance company probably would be responsible for paying the claim.

Your liability coverage wouldn’t pay the medical bills of the person driving your car or the repairs to your car, although those costs may be covered by other parts of your policy. But it likely would be your liability insurance that pays for the driver of the other car’s medical bills and property damage.

Again, state laws may affect who is responsible in this situation, so it can help to know the rules before letting someone else drive your car.

How Much Does Liability Coverage Cost?

The price you’ll pay for liability coverage could be based on several factors, including how much you buy and where you live. Your age may also play a factor — younger drivers may pay more for coverage, for instance. You can do a little online shopping to search the best rates for your area.

But a better question might be “How much will it cost to bump up my liability insurance beyond the state-mandated minimums?” Getting twice as much coverage won’t necessarily cost twice as much. If the price fits your budget, you may want to consider carrying more coverage than the law requires.

Upping coverage might increase your comfort level, considering the expenses that might be involved in a major accident, even if you have insurance. The extra coverage may cost more, but if you’re a safe driver you may qualify for better rates. You can research car insurance online and compare quotes to find one that fits your budget.

The extra coverage may cost more, but if you’re a safe driver you may qualify for better rates.

The Takeaway

If you’re held responsible for a car accident, liability insurance will help pay the expenses of the others involved. Most states mandate this coverage, including “no-fault” states. But the amount of coverage you must carry may vary from state to state, so when you’re researching automobile insurance, it can be useful to know your state’s rules.

Shopping around for insurance in your area can help you figure out how much coverage you really need and what your premium might be. SoFi’s online auto insurance comparison tool lets you see quotes from a network of insurance providers within minutes, saving you time and hassle.

Compare quotes from top car insurance carriers.



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Financial Tips & Strategies: The tips provided on this website are of a general nature and do not take into account your specific objectives, financial situation, and needs. You should always consider their appropriateness given your own circumstances.

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